As soon as the TV series "Xiao Minjia" starring Zhou Xun was broadcast, it gained super popularity, and Zhou Xun's acting skills were once again praised.
The protagonist's aura plus the actor's filter makes some viewers very excited in the process of watching the play, as long as they see that someone is not good enough for the heroine Liu Xiaomin, someone will scold in the bullet screen.
Whether it is the heroine's son or the heroine's mother, there are people who use extremely harsh language to personally attack them.
Some people seem to think that as long as it is the protagonist, it is flawless, so as long as someone dares to oppose the protagonist, it must be their fault.
But I would like to say that in this drama, Liu Xiaomin, played by Zhou Xun, is not so innocent.
In the play, Zhou Xun plays the heroine Liu Xiaomin, a divorced woman with a 20-year-old son named Jin Jiajun.
At that time, Liu Xiaomin's mother saw that Jin Bo had a father who was the director of the factory, the family conditions were good, and Jin Bo's parents were kind to them, so they forced Liu Xiaomin to marry him.
But Jin Bo always likes to drink, and after drinking, he is still crazy, and after Liu Xiaomin gave birth to Jin Jiajun, the mother and son often lived in fear.
Liu Xiaomin wanted to get a divorce, but her mother hid the hukou book, so she has always complained about her mother.
Later, Jin Bo discovered that Liu Xiaomin and a married male teacher had been in correspondence, so he believed that she was cheating and made everyone know.
Divorced in this way, it is conceivable how much Liu Xiaomin's reputation will be affected.
In that small part of Jiujiang, Liu Xiaomin could not stay any longer, so she fled to Beijing and, after years of struggle, became a chief nurse.
At the time of divorce, Liu Xiaomin once fought for the custody of her son Jin Jiajun, but the ex-husband's family has been using means, and later Liu Xiaomin took the initiative to give up considering his own situation.
After the divorce, Liu Xiaomin rarely returned to Jiujiang, and Jin Jiajun lived with Jin Bo, but Jin Bo still drank often, so Jin Jiajun lived with his grandmother most of the time.
Because Liu Xiaomin's reputation is already very bad in the local area, jin bo is not powerful, so Jin Jiajun has been often bullied since he was a child and has developed a very introverted personality.
Because of her mother's bad reputation, she was bullied since she was a child, and when she needed her mother, she was never around, and Jin Jiajun should have complained in her heart.
Liu Xiaomin rarely went back after arriving in Beijing because she did not like the people in Jiujiang's hometown, and the number of times she met her son was also very small, and the relationship between mother and son was relatively cold.
Jin Jiajun wanted to go to Tsinghua University, but the college entrance examination was two points behind, so he chose to repeat the study.
In order to be able to successfully enter Tsinghua University, he hopes to be able to enter the rocket class of Energy Education, because this class has a high probability of ensuring that students are admitted to Tsinghua Peking University.
But when Jin Jiajun came, the rocket class was already full, and unless there was a relationship, it was impossible to enter.
At this time, Grandma found that the boss of Nengcheng Education was Liu Xiaomin's classmate and Xiao Li Ping, and Jin Jiajun hoped that her mother could help contact Li Ping, but Liu Xiaomin did not immediately agree.
In order to help Jin Jiajun, grandma asked Li Ping's mother to come to her phone and contacted Li Ping directly, so Jin Jiajun successfully entered the rocket class.
Jin Jiajun just arrived in Beijing a few days ago, his father Jin Bo also came over, Liu Xiaomin was very dissatisfied with the arrival of her ex-husband, but for the sake of the child, he still helped him arrange a place to live.
Just because Jin Jiajun is more concerned about his father Jin Bo, some viewers began to scold him in the bullet screen.
Hearing Jin Jiajun tell his mother Liu Xiaomin that when his father's accommodation fees came to him after graduating from high school, more people scolded Jin Jiajun.
Some people think that Jin Jiajun actually told his mother about paying back his father, which was a stab in her mother's heart.
Some people directly said that this son was too disgusting.
There are also people who hate Jin Jiajun because he looks lifeless, and since the first episode, some people have been constantly brushing up on the bullet screen of this son.
But these cursers never thought, why would Jin Jiajun be so cold to his mother?
It is true that Liu Xiaomin is the protagonist, but the protagonist must be everything right?
Why did my son do this to her, and wasn't the main reason for herself?
If she didn't feel maternal love in her mother, how could Jin Jiajun be so distant from her mother?
Is Liu Xiaomin really that innocent?
She and the male teacher, maybe there is really no cheating, but is there no problem with her approach?
According to the time calculation in the play, the time she corresponded with the male teacher should be in the 90s of the last century.
In the more conservative era, two married men and women often exchanged letters, even if they were really just discussing poetry, which was not appropriate.
Infidelity doesn't just mean physical, mental infidelity is also derailment, even if they haven't reached that step at the time, but who can guarantee that they won't be there afterwards?
If it wasn't for Jin Bo and the male teacher's wife who caused the matter to be out of the way, they might not have come to that step in the future.
Even if they are really just pure spiritual communication, this behavior is still inappropriate.
Not to mention the conservative era of the people's customs, this kind of thing will also be questioned now.
Imagine if someone knew you were married, or if they often messaged your significant other about poetry and song, would you feel comfortable?
Do you feel that they shouldn't have an opinion on their own?
No matter what era, the treatment of married opposite sex should be kept at a distance, obviously Liu Xiaomin did not do a good job in this.
Although Jin Bo is indeed a jerk, Liu Xiaomin is not innocent in this matter.
Next, let's talk about the mother-son relationship between Liu Xiaomin and Jin Jiajun.
The coldness of the mother-child relationship is not just Jin Jiajun's confrontation with Liu Xiaomin, but a two-way street.
Liu Xiaomin himself is not enthusiastic about Jin Jiajun's son.
Jin Jiajun took his grandmother to liu xiaomin together, Liu Xiaomin, who had not seen his son for a long time, saw Jin Jiajun's first sentence, which was actually:
How did you suddenly come?
Apparently, Liu Xiaomin was not very welcome to their sudden visit.
When such words are heard by the child, what will he think in his heart?
Is the first reaction "Mom doesn't welcome me"?
Combined with Jin Jiajun's growth process, Liu Xiaomin's mother has been absent.
Not only did he not get his mother's company when he grew up, but he also suffered a lot because of his mother.
In this case, it is already rare that Jin Jiajun did not resent his mother.
There is also the matter of Jin Jiajun entering the rocket class, Liu Xiaomin's reaction is also to make Jin Jiajun feel that her mother does not care about herself very much.
Li Ping and Liu Xiaomin have a contradiction, Jin Jiajun does not know, so when he hears that the two are classmates and have a small relationship, he naturally thinks that his mother will immediately help him contact Li Ping.
In Jin Jiajun's view, this is just a phone call from her mother, but Liu Xiaomin is not willing to call at all.
It was easy to send a message, people did not return, Liu Xiaomin did not continue to contact.
From the child's point of view, isn't this not that the mother does not care about herself and is not willing to pay for herself?
If Liu Xiaomin really cares about Jin Jiajun very much, even if she and Li Ping have any more contradictions, they will be willing to open up.
Just like Zhang Guoguo in "Little Shed", in order to let his granddaughter enroll, he is willing to pull down his face to beg for the people he has offended in the past.
What's more, Liu Xiaomin, as a mother, originally owed money to Jin Jiajun, but even so, she was not willing to ask Li Ping for Jin Jiajun.
Therefore, jin Jiajun was completely understandable because Liu Xiaomin refused to call Li Ping.
And after getting angry, Jin Jiajun also quickly apologized to his mother, indicating that no matter what his mother did to him, he still loved his mother in his heart.
For Dad, he should have the same psychology, which is why he cares so much about him.
Some people say that there are no parents in the world who do not love their children, but in fact, this is the opposite, it should be that there is no child in the world who does not love their parents.
Two years ago, there was a news story about a child who was beaten by his mother every day, but he still didn't want the police to arrest his mother, because then he wouldn't have a mother.
Jin Jiajun has such feelings for Liu Xiaomin and Jin Bo.
He knows that his father is very bad, but he still can't help but care for him, he knows that his mother does not love her children like other people's mothers, but she still cares about her mother.
And he has been thinking about his mother's mood while caring for his father, knowing that his mother has a cleaning habit, so he requires his father to undergo disinfection before entering the door.
When I heard my mother say that I had a fight with my grandmother, I guessed that it was because of his father, so I said that I worked to pay for my father's accommodation.
His personality, as well as Liu Xiaomin's attitude, determines that he can't be as enthusiastic about his mother as other children.
In fact, he is also taking care of his mother's emotions in everything, and he has done a good job.
Compare the relationship between Li Ping and Chen Jiajia, you know how sensible Jin Jiajun is.
Some commentators said that Zhou Xun's acting skills in this drama were not good, and he did not play the feeling of his mother. In fact, this is not Zhou Xun's problem, but Liu Xiaomin's personality is like this.
Her experience determines that she cannot be too enthusiastic about her son, and her heart also loves her son, but when it comes to action, she unconsciously discounts it, and Zhou Xun's performance is completely fine.
Although "Xiao Min Jia" is only a family ethics drama, it also has a bit of suspense in that Liu Xiaomin's "carrying a human life on his back" is probably the key.
I believe that in the follow-up plot, the relationship between Liu Xiaomin and her son will become more and more harmonious.
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Author: Qian Xiaodao
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