On Friday, the family dinner, Bao Ma was criticized, do not educate the children at home, come out to educate

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In the family group on Tuesday, the third aunt sent a message: Friday night please everyone to dinner.

Usually a little bit of movement in the group, immediately boiled, all kinds of expressions.

The elders always replied: received, got it.

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On Friday morning, I got up early to pack up what I needed to bring, washed my hair, put on makeup, and thought about what to wear. After having a baby, every time you go out.

The first step is to prepare the baby's needs, water bottles, diapers, bibs, wipes, paper towels, snacks, spare clothes.

The second step is to pack up what my mother needs, flat shoes, school bags, short coats, sweatpants, keys (I forgot to take them several times, because I went out to change clothes, I can't remember to change the keys)

The third step is to clean up the house, power outage, hygiene cleaning, pot warmer to ensure hot water, bed is made, because once you come back the baby will sleep.

On Friday, the group spoke again, and everyone began to ask what time to go?

The elders said: You can go on time at 6 o'clock

Mothers who are older children say: Wait for their children to finish school

The child's mother said: Wait for the child to eat some food first

Men say: Don't drive when you drink, do you drink white or beer? How much to buy?

The women said: The weather is very good today, give the children less clothes.

The elders said: Whoever is close to whomever is close, pull him up, you ask whose car can sit, and pick up whoever you are.

When we went to the restaurant, we usually sat at a table for men and a table for women and children.

Ordering food, the men's table is more spicy, and the woman's table is more light.

We loved chatting while eating. How are you doing lately? How is your child learning? How are the elders doing? These days there are many people with colds, pay more attention. The epidemic is serious again, and it is estimated that the New Year will not be able to get together, so try to go out as little as possible!

Before eating, I want to be happy, eat and drink by myself, the baby is obedient, eat some meat, eat some vegetables, drink some soup, and then everyone is happy to go home.

It turns out that your child's performance is always unexpected.

From the beginning of entering the door, the son ran all over the ground, the baby chair did not do it, did not eat the pig's trotters, and had to run outside. At first, I followed him all the way and thought it was pitiful that he didn't go out for a day. Run, run! It's time to exercise.

Run out of the private room and go straight to the elevator entrance. Standing in the elevator doorway grinning, the little hand still pointing, I knew he wanted to press it. Because these days inadvertently I found that he watched the video of douyin flipping out the elevator, a strong look, watching with relish.

I'm curious, would a 1-year-old be interested in pressing the elevator? The video is that an elevator appears, and then press it, and then the elevator door opens, go in and press up a few floors. Just a few seconds, it seemed to me dull and tasteless. But he seemed interested. So I deliberately watched the person who sent the video, the name is called elevator enthusiasts.

It seems that there are really people who like to press the elevator. But I still can't accept that a 1-year-old child will be interested.

So, I carried him around several times, specifically around the elevator door, but he could still find it at once. I took the toy to distract him again, but I didn't expect him to hold the toy and go straight to the elevator entrance. After five or six trips like this, can you imagine what my patience will be like?

Finally, when I followed him to the elevator again, I thought my expression had changed, no longer a smile. I look at him, he looks at me, I'm angry with him, he smiles at me, what to do at this time? Moms, I really don't know, I just feel angry and full of slaps in my head.

After picking up and slapping a few slaps, my son cried. I carried him back to the room and pressed him forcibly into the chair, of course imagining his resistance.

Everyone is saying me, what does the child want to do, let him go wow, what does he do to beat the child? I stood there blushing and thick-necked, tired and hungry, and at this time my sister told me that this was the consequence of not being at home. Saying that when her son was a child, once he also went to a restaurant to eat, and his nephew was also naughty and did not listen, she scolded and beat again, and a person next to her said to her, do not educate at home, come out to educate.

I also suddenly woke up. There has always been a misunderstanding, always feel that the child is learning, he came to this world ignorant, curious about everything. So I let his curiosity go, always thinking that he had never seen it, had not touched it, and he wanted to touch it himself to satisfy him.

At home, because it is a fixed place, I know everything about the decorations, and there is no dangerous item, so he plays by himself every time, and I hardly have to look at it.

Go outside because of the unknown. So I was not at ease, so I kept following him, and in his feelings, some things had never been seen, because at home my mother had not managed it, so I could move outside. So when you see the socket, you have to touch it, and when you see the elevator, you have to press it.

Maybe my education has always been an error, today can be said to be a sudden lesson, I should think about it, how to go in the future?

The record is a bit messy, so let's do it!

Do you have any good opinions about educating children? Feel free to leave a message in the comment area.

Author's introduction: Bao Ma laughs, loves to read and loves to learn after 80 Bao Mom, open the dream road of writing to change life, simple, happy and happy, with a pen to record this wonderful life.