Jinhua news client December 13 news reporter Dong Jinjiao
When my son was in elementary school, he was managed by his mother, and when he went to junior high school, he was taken over by his father, what would happen, can you think of it?
Ms. Li, a citizen, paid attention to the last issue of the 6138 hotline about more and more fathers appearing in their children's learning life, and shared the story of her family with reporters. She found that as her son grew up, the importance of her father became prominent, and she was currently responsible for living at home, and she was still very happy in her heart, because she also hoped that her son could be with his father more.
In the past, Ms. Li's husband worked in other provinces, and her sons were brought up with her mother-in-law. Although the son is well-behaved and sensible, he has an introverted personality. When it comes to parenting, she has also had anxiety and irritability. In order to keep the mother-son relationship from deteriorating, after many discussions, Ms. Li's husband found a job in Jinhua. Although the treatment is not as good as before, he has gained valuable father-son time and the warmth of the family.
Ms. Li clearly felt the change in the children after her husband returned. The topic of father-son chat, she is more and more unable to interject. The husband will take his son to play sports and ball together, and her physical strength is definitely unable to keep up, so she can only help them take pictures on the side. In sports, the husband gave the children courage and sunshine. In addition, husbands often take their children to try new things, such as making various delicacies, enjoying various music... Compared with arranging the children's daily life step by step, the husband's approach is obviously more likely to arouse the interest of the child.
"The son said that the father was his father and like his brother." Ms. Li said that after the child reaches puberty, she has such a good relationship with her father, she sometimes jokes that she is jealous, but in fact, she is very happy, because according to the child's mental health growth, the child's growth process, the father needs more participation and companionship, and she slowly withdraws from the child's learning, and can also give herself more independent space.
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【Source: Jinhua Daily】