On the day of the engagement, my parents deliberately pretended to be very poor and were looked down upon by their in-laws, after eating my father said that he was married to 450,000 yuan, I was carefully taken care of by my parents since I was a child, and they were careful and careful about my marriage. They're worried that I'll meet bad guys and put a lifetime of happiness in it. After some testing, my boyfriend and I are finally getting engaged.
Since the parents of both parties who were going to be engaged were definitely going to meet, my father was worried that I would be wronged and suffered by marrying, so he proposed to test my in-laws. My parents are actually in business, and their monthly income is also good. But in order to see if the in-laws are easy to get along with, whether there is such a feeling of being poor and loving the rich, and then dressed up a little poor on the day of the engagement.
Mom and Dad came to the booked hotel in unsuitable old clothes, and the in-laws and boyfriends came earlier. As soon as we met, my mother-in-law looked at my parents from top to bottom, and her face showed a little disgust. Boyfriend he hurriedly introduced the parents of both sides to know, at this time the father-in-law smiled and said, come and do it.
In the course of the conversation between the two parents, it was obvious that the in-laws who listened to my in-laws looked down on my parents' poverty and said that I would definitely have a better life after marrying into their family than in our family. In front of my parents, I still keep showing up, my family lives in a very prosperous part of the city, and I also told my parents to often go to their homes as guests in the future, don't be polite Ha...
My father-in-law asked me what kind of work my father did, and my father continued to pretend to be poor, saying that every day he worked, and his salary was three thousand yuan a month. Father-in-law smiled and said, we will be pro-family after this, or I will help you find a job with a higher salary and a little easier! Dad politely refused to say that his current job still feels very good, and he is also very satisfied, so he will not bother.
Then my mother-in-law went on to ask my mother if she had ever visited a new department store in the city center and went around together when I had time. My mother was embarrassed to say that the family was very busy every day, and there was still free time! The mother-in-law immediately smiled and said, yes, yes, the mother is relatively busy, there is no free time, but your daughter will be able to enjoy the blessings of her daughter when she marries into our family.
Looking at the boyfriend and his parents look down on my parents poor look, I have some regrets about calling my parents they deliberately pretended to be poor, this in-laws in case they think that the conditions of their family are good to marry into their family, where can I live in the future?
When both parents discussed the wedding date on that day, my parents and in-laws had different views, the in-laws wanted us to get married within three months, and my parents deliberately said that they wanted me to stay at home for a longer time. My mother-in-law smiled and said to my parents, or marry earlier, you can live a good life earlier, right?
In the end, it was the day of marriage that my boyfriend and their family wanted, when I watched my boyfriend and his parents suppress my parents everywhere as rich people. After eating, the in-laws and the two of them asked their boyfriends to pay the bill, and my dad smiled and said that he had already bought it. In an instant, the mother-in-law's face showed a little unhappiness, saying how good it was to tell my parents to break the fee, because we paid for it, because we were the man.
My dad smiled and said, we are all family soon, whoever settles the account is the same, as long as they can be happy as two children. At this time, the mother-in-law's face behaved better, and my father looked at me and said to the mother-in-law, I am such a precious daughter, my family, when the two of them got married, her mother and I gave her a dowry of 450,000. Sure enough, the in-laws were very surprised, and they still felt that they had heard it wrong.
After making sure that my parents did marry me for 450,000, my in-laws immediately became very enthusiastic, and even asked my parents if this wedding day should be chosen from scratch. My dad said that since the days that have been booked don't need to be changed, it's not good to change.
When we got home, my parents told me that your in-laws are very realistic people. In fact, I also think that your in-laws look down on people who are poorer than them, and treat rich people with a different view. My parents told me that after getting married, I couldn't have a financial relationship with my in-laws, and I could discuss things with them as much as possible.
But the problem now is that from the day of the engagement, the in-laws told their boyfriends that buying a house would make our woman pay half the money. But before this, it is good that the house and car are bought by the man. According to the boyfriend's meaning, when the in-laws know that I have 450,000 dowries and marry into their family, that is to say, this money is also their family, and it is also appropriate to take out a part of the money to buy a house. The in-laws took all their money to do business, and there was not so much money for a while and a half.
My parents were very angry when they found out, thinking that their in-laws were just looking at money. And I also think that the dowry given to me is naturally mine, how it became their family. This is not yet married, the in-laws and they have calculated our family's money, I dare not think about what will be the situation in the future. I've always been looking forward to the wedding, but now I'm a little scared of getting married, afraid of marrying and getting angry with them. I'm really confused now, what should I do?
PS is very simple that is to withdraw from marriage, although this resignation will lose face, but face and happiness are not worth mentioning at all.
Marrying someone pays attention to the door to the door, from ancient times to the present is not unreasonable, your family is poor, he will feel that you are a high climb. If your family wants to be rich, they will think that this is a matter of course, in short, none of us can predict the future events, everything is still looking at ourselves, and listening to our parents is always no problem. Dear fans, how can she be good?