I spent two days to read Yu Minhong's 58 epidemic diaries from the back to the front, the original also read, but not so systematic, just a cursory look, as he himself said, he is not a writer, so he also took a note, I, also casually look, after all, the entire epidemic lasted for two months, there are too many things to see.
But when I saw his last article, I saw his feelings of home and country, his sense of life, his unique views on law and morality, and his love of books, his loving father and filial piety all made me have the impulse to read the diary in its entirety. Finally, I spent two days from his last one (March 30, 2020) to his first one (January 29, 2020), which was 56 in total.
Tell me how I feel about Yu Hongmin, I should have started paying attention to him very early, as early as when I didn't have a smartphone and I was still reading magazines. I read an article written about him, and at that time I didn't remember his name, just remembered New Oriental, and the two things mentioned above impressed me. One is: he met a competitor when recruiting trainees, and then there was a conflict, he was beaten by the other party, as if the injury was not light, he woke up in the hospital, pulled his partner and cried, saying: "We don't do it, say we don't do anything!" ”
The second thing, he already had a certain reputation at that time, just like in "The Chinese Partner", he already had his own office, a conference room. One day, not knowing how to make his mother angry, when he was in a meeting room, his mother found the conference room and scolded him, and he actually knelt down for his mother in front of all his subordinates.
These two things have made me remember since then, there is a tutoring school called New Oriental, and there is a person in New Oriental named Yu Minhong.
Later, "Chinese Partner" came out, and I watched this movie at least five times, which gave me a new understanding of their entire entrepreneurial process and Yu Minhong as a person. Yu Minhong, played by Huang Xiaoming, I think this is the peak of Huang Xiaoming's acting, as long as he does not play cool, does not play handsome, in fact, the true color of the performance, really quite good.
Later, the "real" Yu Minhong frequently appeared in the public eye. I just learned that this tall, thin, mandarin-speaking, direct-talking, and straight-talking person was the man from New Oriental. I think the description in the book is too good, too real, Yu Minhong should be such a person. Haha, isn't it a bit like a little fan girl!
After talking about my origin of the name Yu Minhong, everyone should understand why I can read his 56 diaries in one go! Yes, I like this kind of person with real temperament, real ability. He's the kind of guy I see, and you say he's not shrewd? It is impossible, not shrewd to make the enterprise so big, and it is still enduring! No, he knows the world and is not sophisticated, it is his feelings, his responsibility.
Here are some of his understandings of human nature, morality, the country, and the law that I have learned from his epidemic diary! Hope to have some enlightenment for us!
The first is his strong desire to survive in the role of women in a family and in a society. After all, the passage he said a few years ago was bombarded by the whole Network, and even the Women's Federation talked to him, but I think his meaning at that time was the same as it is now.
I sincerely believe that in a family, the level of the mother or wife will determine the living conditions of the family more. Women's mood, temper, temperament, knowledge level and ability to deal with problems largely determine the child's growth process. Now women in China are very hard, they have to run a family inside and work outside. Men are more just focused on their work. Therefore, men who have become a family, especially those with children, should know how to understand and be considerate of women. I moved Nan Huaijin out, and he also thought that women were very important: "Chinese culture has been able to maintain for three thousand years, and a large extent depends on women. Only when a family has a good housewife and a good mother can we talk about the way of the family. ”
I would like to praise his words, which also perfectly interpret the old saying "good woman Wang Sandai", how important it is for a family to be a gentle and generous hostess.
The impermanence of life does not mean that we do things impermanently. Maybe we have to leave this world tomorrow, so let's live every day well, so that even if we leave tomorrow, we won't leave with too many regrets; maybe we are still alive at a hundred years old, so let's connect every day into the future. And this future, because of our efforts and reserves, after we have experienced it, must be worthy of our memories. Our whole life is a memoir. When you're old, you're probably the only one who can read this memoir. When you read, whether you are pale and weak, the content is empty, or whether you are full of emotions and tears, it all depends on how you start writing today.
This is his understanding of life, cherish today, prepare for tomorrow, live up to this life, and be ashamed!
As Maupassant said, "Life can't be as good as you think, but it can't be as bad as you think." I think people's vulnerability and strength are beyond their imagination. Sometimes I may be so fragile that I burst into tears with a single word; sometimes, I find myself gritting my teeth and walking a long way. "After the pandemic, we really have a long way to go.
People are originally flesh and blood, the normal feelings of seven emotions and six desires, when they are vulnerable, they cry and cry, and then they will continue on the road after crying, just like Yu Minhong cried and said that he would not do it, but he did it earth-shatteringly. They are all people, and they don't have to be too harsh.
Over the past four decades, reform and opening up have put China's development into the fast lane. At the same time as the rapid economic development, the social order of the whole of China has undergone earth-shaking changes, from a closed and non-mobile agricultural society to an extremely mobile and extremely rapidly transformed social structure into an information-based society. Under this new structure, how to build a new type of rule of law society and civil management mechanism is a big challenge for the government. How information flows, how the people guide, how emotions are channeled, how to prevent crises, how to safeguard state authority, how to protect people's rights, how to make the judiciary more fair, and how to enforce the law without crossing the line are all new problems and challenges facing us.
This is a person with a sense of family and country thinking about the country, I don't understand much, I am not good at speaking, I can only say that the country needs such people, needs such people with independent thinking ability.
This sentence also has great implications for our lives: whatever we deliberately do, we will go to the opposite side of these things. If you are deliberately kind, you are not kind; if you are deliberately sincere, you are not sincere; if you deliberately show love, you are not true love; if you are deliberately grateful, you are not truly grateful. Only when we do everything like a spring of water flowing naturally, nourishing all things without knowing it, is the true feelings flowing from the bottom of our hearts.
This is a bit refreshing, but thinking about it is also like this, what is deliberate, it is fake, it becomes boring, do you think?
A society that only talks about morality, only calls for conscience and conscience, and does not have fair and just rule of law norms to ensure that everyone sticks to the bottom line will only develop in the direction of chaos.
Hu Shi once said: "In a dirty country, if everyone talks about rules instead of morality, it will eventually become a normal country with human taste, and morality will naturally gradually return." True morality can only be derived from the dimension of the rule of law, or only from the rule of law can a moral world be truly opened up. ”
This is his thinking on the rule of law and morality, and it is the requirements for the quality of the future population and society, these truths are understood by everyone, but it is really necessary to implement them to everyone, and there is really a long way to go, and the road to civilization is heavy and the road is long!
How can we establish a common bottom line for humanity so that everyone can live more peacefully? How to better protect the environment and let people and nature coexist in harmony? There is still a lot more we can do in both areas. Human greed can never disappear, and what we have to do is how to put greed in a cage, or how to use greed (desire, enterprising) for the better welfare of mankind. To tell the truth, many times we need a belief that "although tens of millions of people are looking forward to it", we need a character that does not believe in superstitious authority and only believes in facts, and we need to dare to speak out and ask for the people's lives. Don't let people who tell the truth look ahead and be afraid, don't let telling the truth become a kind of sadness and an adventure, and don't let the fear of telling the truth and not telling the truth become a kind of self-protection and sophistication. Let people tell the truth, the sky will not fall!
This height is not something that ordinary people can achieve, I excerpt it, you can take a look at it, in fact, many times in China there are a group of brave people protecting us and moving forward together. This is also the so-called "knowing the world and not being sophisticated"!
On this, in fact, there is too much content, the amount of information in it is too large, some I don't understand, directly over, and some are particularly interesting, such as he said that Trump is a "demon" in the history of the president of the United States for two hundred years, haha! Like his language style! Sharp and thorough!
He also excerpted a passage from someone else, which made me very happy, and everyone could also watch it, just have fun!
"My daughter-in-law's day: get up, scold me, eat, scold me, scold the child, clean up, scold me, eat, help with homework, scold the child, scold me by the way, eat, sleep. My day: being scolded, getting up, being scolded, eating, looking at the phone, being scolded inexplicably, eating, being scolded inexplicably, playing with the phone, being scolded, being scolded, sleeping. Finally, don't forget to say: "Wuhan refuel!" "Chinese characteristic humor, we have overcome one difficulty after another.
Finally, I put Yu Minhong introduced to everyone to see the books and movies to sort out, interested may wish to take a look, after all, the big guy pushed the book, can not go anywhere! And it can also be seen that a successful person is really not a casual success, a person who is busy and has reading habits, his life will not be worse!
book:
Lin Qingxuan"! Hongyi" Robert Marx "The Origin of the Modern World" Shi Jihang "Tone of the Song Dynasty" Xu Zhiyuan "Young Reformer Liang Qichao", "The Three-Body Problem" Zhou Guoping "Nietzsche: At the Turning Point of the Century" Nietzsche "The Birth of Tragedy" Fukuyama "The Origin of Political Order" Yan Lianke "The Days I Walk Alone Have Residual Temperature" Zhou Youguang "My Life Story" Xu Qiuyun "Ancient Rivers" Tang Degang "From the Late Qing Dynasty to the Republic of China" Zhou Chenggang "Education Search Across the World" Lin Yutang "Su Dongpo Biography" Tara Westford " You fly like a bird to your mountain"
Movie
"Extreme Panic", "Afternoon with Margaret", "Atonement", "Chernobyl", "Love Before Dawn Breaks", "Love Before Dusk sunset", "Love Before Midnight Falls", "Brilliant Life", "Decisive Midway", "They Are No Longer Old", "Flu"
Well, that's all I can understand, and here's what I need to understand. Hope that helps.
If you have time to be interested, you can read it carefully, it should be greater than I have gained.
Yu Minhong, born on September 4, 1962 in Xiagang Subdistrict, Jiangyin City, Jiangsu Province, is the founder of New Oriental Education Group and an expert in English teaching and management. He has served as the chairman of New Oriental Education Group, the co-founder of Hongtai Fund, the vice president of China Young Entrepreneurs Association, and the member of all-China Youth Federation.
In 1980, he was admitted to the Spanish Department of Peking University, and after graduating from the university, he stayed on to teach; he resigned from Peking University in 1991, founded Beijing New Oriental School in 1993, led New Oriental to be listed on the New York Stock Exchange in 2006, won the CCTV Economic Figure of the Year in 2009, and was awarded the 50 most influential business leaders in China in 2012. Too long back, that's it!
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