How can the mother of the three views of chaozheng not have a capable son?

#2021 Vitality Assembly #The mothers of the ancient sages are relatively strong, and sometimes the father is absent.

Who was the father of Yue Fei, Confucius, Ouyang Xiu, and Mencius? Almost no one knows.

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Wang Ling was once a powerful man in Pei County, and was recognized by Liu Bang as his elder brother.

In the Chu-Han war, Wang Ling occupied the Nanyang area and was very powerful, and Xiang Yu detained Wang Ling's mother in the military camp in order to win over Wang Ling.

Wang Ling had no choice but to send emissaries to meet Xiang Yu and agree to submit.

Wang Ling's mother asked to send the emissary of the tomb herself, and when she was leaving, the queen mother said to the messenger: "Tell the king for me: Serve the king of Han well, the king of Han is a loyal elder, don't be upset because of me." ”

After saying this, Wang Ling's mother drew her sword and committed suicide.

Xiang Yu was furious and threw the body of the Queen Mother into the pot and boiled it.

Later, Wang Ling loyally followed Liu Bang and was regarded by Liu Bang as a candidate for future chancellor.

The "Chronicle of History" records: "The mausoleum mother sent emissaries privately and wept: "For the old concubine Yu Ling, carefully serve the king of Han." The king of Han, the elder also, has no old concubines, and holds two hearts. Concubines send messengers to their deaths. "He died with his sword."



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Zhang Tang enforced the law harshly, and won the respect and trust of Emperor Wu of Han, and served as the imperial master, second only to the chancellor Zhuang Qingzhai.

Someone stole the treasures from the tomb of Emperor Wen of Han, and The Chancellor Zhuang Qingzhai dragged Zhang Tang, the imperial master, to apologize to Emperor Wu of Han.

Zhang Tang believed that this was not his duty and refused, so the chancellor and his three subordinates, Changshi, plotted to frame Zhang Tang and incite people to sue Zhang Tang.

Eventually, Zhang Tang was forced to commit suicide.

Zhang Tang was very incorruptible, and when he died, there were five hundred taels of gold in his home, and the three long historians repeatedly verified that they were all rewards from the emperor, and in the end they could not connect Zhang Tang's family.

Zhang Tang's brothers and nephews planned to bury Zhang Tang thickly, and Zhang Tang's mother said: "Zhang Tang is the minister of the Son of Heaven, who was framed and died by the adulterous minister, how can he be buried thickly!" ”

Eventually, they put Zhang Tang's body on an ox cart and buried it with only a coffin and no rafters.

When the emperor heard this, he said with emotion: "Without such a mother, how can we give birth to such a son?" ”

Emperor Wu of Han came down and killed the three long histories of Cheng Xiang, frightening Zhuang Qingzhai to commit suicide and die.

The Book of Han records: "The sons of Kundi wanted to bury Tang Hou, and Tang Mu said: "Tang is the minister of the Heavenly Son, and he died of evil words, he Hou buried it!" "Carried by an ox cart, there is a coffin and no rafters." He said, "Unless this mother does not give birth to this son." "It is according to the three long histories of the curse." Qing Zhai committed suicide. ”

03

In his youth, jun was heavily influenced by the violent victory of the cool officials, and was promoted to the qingzhou assassin in one fell swoop.

During the reign of Emperor Zhao of Han, Jun bu was appointed as Jing Zhaoyin because of his rebellion against the King of Yan, and the officials and people around the capital were very afraid.

However, jun's mother was very strict with him and hoped that he would be generous and benevolent.

Every time jun went out to inspect the crime cases in the state and county, his mother always asked him: "Have you ever been rehabilitated this time?" How many people were saved? ”

If there are many unjust, false and wrongly decided cases in the trial and rehabilitation, then the mother will smile and eat, and the food will increase;

If there were few wrongdoings in the interrogation, the mother threw her face and refused to eat.

Therefore, Jun bu doubts that being an official is very majestic, but he is not called a cool official like Tyrannosaurus.

The Book of Han records that "the people of the Capital Division respected his prestige. Each line of county record prisoners also, and his mother asked without doubt: "There is some rehabilitation, how can you live?" "That is, when there is no doubt that there is much rehabilitation, and the mother laughs, and speaks differently from him for eating; or when the dead are born, the mother is angry, and does not eat for it." Therefore, there is no doubt that he is an official, strict but not cruel. ”

04

Wei Renpu, the prime minister of the early Song Dynasty, came from a peasant family, and his father died of illness at an early age.

Once, after school, Wei Renpu saw his mother running around, borrowed a coarse cloth, and rushed to make summer clothes for himself.

Wei Renpu said movingly, "As a son, I can't provide for my mother, but my mother borrows cloth to make me clothes, how can I be at ease?!" ”

After saying that, Wei Renpu burst into tears.

When Wei Renpu went to Luoyang to study, when he crossed the Ji River by boat, he took off his mother's jacket and swore: "This life is not noble, and I will never cross this river." ”

Later Wei Renpu was the prime minister, generous and generous, diligent and thrifty.

How important is a good mother!

The "History of Song" records: "The young orphans and poor, the mother made a summer dress for the fake yellow silk, Renpu thirteen years old, sighed: 'For the Son of Man not to give support, but to make the loving mother ask for a loan to clothe me, I can be at peace!'" 'Weep for generosity. Cimu Luoyang, the JiHe River sinks in the middle of the flow, and vows: 'Not expensive, not to cross here again!' ’”

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The Eastern Jin Dynasty general Tao Kan was poor at an early age, and because he had no connections, he could only work as a small official in the county.

In the middle of winter, when the snow is thick, Xiaolian Fan Kui of Poyang County passes by the Tao family as a guest.

In a hurry, Tao Kan could not take out wine and vegetables at home.

Tao Kan's mother took out scissors to cut off her long hair and asked Tao Kan to exchange them for wine and dishes, and even Fan Kui's servants were very thoughtful.

Before leaving, Tao Kan sent Fan Kui for more than a hundred miles.

Fan Kui was moved to recommend Tao Kan to serve in Lujiang Taishou Zhang Kui, and thus began Tao Kan's open life.

The Book of Jin records: "Poyang Xiaolian Fan Kui tasted Kan, shi cang was unable to wait for guests, and his mother had her hair amputated and double-haired, and drank happily with easy wine, although the servants also expected it." ”

Tao Kan, who had been a petty officer in charge of the fishery, took advantage of his position to get a jar of pickled fish and rushed to give it to his mother.

The mother asked solemnly, "Where did it come from?" ”

Tao Kan told the truth.

The mother put on a seal and scolded Tao Kan, saying, "As an official, giving me the things of the government not only does me no good, but increases my sorrow." ”

The "New Sayings of the World" records: "When Tao Gong was young, he worked as a fish and beam official, and tried to feed his mother with a crucible. The mother sealed the envoy, and retorted to the letter: "Ru is an official, and he is paid with official goods, not only is it not beneficial, but it also increases my worries." ””

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When Su Shi was a child, his father Su Xun was busy traveling around the world, cared for and taught to read by his mother, Lady Cheng.

Lady Cheng read the "Biography of Fan Huan" in the Book of Han to Su Shi, and she went deep and simple to produce a vivid image, and she also sighed and wept.

Fan Huan was a well-educated scholar at the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, who was killed by traitors with an iron face of justice.

Before his death, Fan Huan was not afraid to say goodbye to his mother: "I want my soul to return to Huangquan, I can't honor my mother, I hope that my mother can endure the pain of separation, and don't increase my sorrow." ”

Fan Huan's mother said proudly: "It is worth it to be on a par with Li Bing and Du Mi." How can longevity and good reputation be combined! ”

After hearing this, Xiao Sushi took his mother's hand and said, "In the future, when I grow up to be a person like Fan Huan, will my mother allow it?" ”

Madame Cheng said, "If you can be Fan Huan, why can't I be a person like Fan Huan's mother?" ”

The "History of Song" records: "Father Xun traveled to learn in all directions, and mother Cheng personally taught books, heard the successes and failures of ancient and modern times, and was able to speak his essentials." Cheng Shi read the Eastern Han Dynasty's "Biography of Fan Huan", and was so relieved that he asked: 'If Shi is a huan, does the mother promise it?' Cheng Shi said: "Ru can be a mother, but I can't be evil for my mother?" ’”