Xu Zhimo was involved with three women in his life, and the last person to marry him was Lu Xiaoman. In order to marry Lu Xiaoman, he even forced his original partner to divorce himself.
After marriage, Xu Zhimo is also super good to Lu Xiaoman, to meet her luxurious life, no matter how tired he is, as long as Lu Xiaoman needs money, even if he has several positions, even if he asks his friends to borrow money, he also tries to meet all her needs.
In 1931, Xu Zhimo's plane crashed, and Lu Xiaoman left one step at a time, and when Lu Xiaoman died in 1965, Zhuang Chi, the son of Lu Xiaoman's cousin, asked Xu Zhimo's son Xu Jikai to let Lu Xiaoman and Xu Zhimo be buried together. Xu Jikai did not hesitate to refuse Zhuang Chi's request. There are three reasons for this.
First, Grandpa never recognized Lu Xiaoman as the daughter-in-law of the Xu family, although after his father's death, Grandpa still funded Lu Xiaoman's life, but this was only Grandpa magnanimity, not the intention of accepting her.
In the Republic of China, the feudal parents' thinking was still relatively serious, even if the son and the daughter-in-law married and obtained a license, but if the old man in the family has not been willing to recognize the daughter-in-law, then the daughter-in-law can not be buried with the old man's son after death.
Second, the relationship between the father and his stepmother has been broken. The reason is that before the father died, when he finally saw his stepmother, the stepmother still hit his father with a large smoking pole, and if the father did not hide quickly, he would have hit the father. Fortunately, he only broke his father's glasses.
At that time, Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman were indeed in conflict, and after Xu Zhimo's death, Lu Xiaoman did not help to handle Xu Zhimo's aftermath, but Xu Zhimo's original partner Zhang Youyi helped to handle it.
Third, after his father's death, Lu Xiaoman has been mixing with Weng Duanwu ghost, and the two people often smoke together. The two men are ostensibly friends, but everyone knows that they are actually a sister-in-law relationship. How could such a woman with bad manners be buried with her father after death? And if his father had not died, his marriage to Lu Xiaoman would certainly not have lasted long.
I have to say that Xu Jikai's three reasons are all justified, and each of them has a hard poke at Lu Xiaoman's bad place. If Lu Xiaoman hadn't died, he would have been ashamed to see these three reasons.