Guiding words: Love is always more beautiful than reality, and it is like meeting, and so is goodbye. We think that love is very deep, very deep, and in the coming days, we will let you know that it is only very shallow, very shallow. The deepest and heaviest love must grow with time.
1, love is like chewing gum, the time will be flat, feel bland and want to give up, and no matter where it is lost, it will leave an indelible trace.
2, do not feel that there will be love without understanding. When we don't understand, we just like it, we can't reach love. When each other's shortcomings are exposed, many times this liking will also end. Love is tolerance, loving everything about each other. Fall in love with someone you don't understand, and perhaps, you only love his novelty.
3) Don't cheat on your lover. Remember, if you don't lie to him for a lifetime, then tell him the truth. When lies are repeatedly debunked, it's possible that it's all over.
4, do not take the surrounding environment too seriously. It is you who are in love, and what do you have to do with the people around you. But please be kind to each other's family, friends. A lot of things, just excuses for yourself.
5, do not believe the so-called Japanese and Korean soap operas, because you can't make each other happy and leave. Have you ever thought that you are each other's happiness? Love is not an escape, it is an effort. It is not to escape the responsibility of giving each other happiness, but to strive to achieve the obligation to make each other happy. When you say you leave to keep the other person from getting hurt, you've already done the most harm to the other person. Love is about working together.
6, do not say something too radical because of the impulse. No one wants to exchange enthusiasm for indifference, thoughtfulness for hurt. Impulsive words may have broken his heart. Nailing a nail is easy, but pulling it up, can you fix the hole in the fence? If you have already said it, then please apologize and use your gentleness to try to make up for it, but whether it is useful or not is not certain.
7) Don't be considerate of being afraid to leave each other. Understanding is because of love, not because of fear. Love is a responsibility and cannot be easily left. The person who makes you afraid to leave is not a lover, even if you pay more, the person who wants to leave will eventually leave.
8, do not circle between several opposite sexes. Love is the existence of two people, and there is no room for a third person. Anyone who thinks they can hug left and right is nothing more than someone who reads a lot of online YY novels. Love is dedicated, please remember.
9) Don't put too much pressure on each other. Proper distancing from the opposite sex is good for your love. Too close a distance, perhaps inadvertently, to embarrass each other.
10, do not think that appearance will become a big obstacle. 60 years later, is there anyone who can be free of wrinkles and gray hair? Who can not be old, not short? Maybe you don't have looks, but you have talent. Maybe you don't have talent, but you're gentle. Maybe you don't have tenderness, but you will have other... Maybe you have nothing, but maybe he's in love with your ordinary.
11 Don't think that if he loves you, he won't leave you. Under your repeated hurts, he will also leave, because you do not know how to cherish, do not deserve his love. Only by knowing how to cherish can we understand love.
12, do not play missing. People who disappear for ten days and half a month for no reason are difficult to give people a sense of stability. It can also make people worry about your safety.
13) Don't trample on your dignity. You can live without him, but you can't live without your own dignity. Remember, he doesn't love you, and he can't see what you do.
14, do not make promises easily. Promises that cannot be done are more abhorrent than promises that are not made. Maybe many men and women like the blank checks, but when you find that each one can't be cashed, will you still love this liar?
15) Don't live just for yourself. People don't live just for themselves. Parents, lovers, children. Maybe we're going to do a lot of things we don't like to do, but for their sake, please don't complain. Because love is a responsibility, a responsibility.
16) Don't give any hope to someone you don't love. The greater the hope, the greater the disappointment. Maybe you just like the feeling of being loved, but when the disappointment comes, you may be disgusted by the other party because of your greed.
17, do not regret. No matter what choice you make, whether it is the right choice or not, please don't regret it. Time cannot be turned back, and everyone is responsible for everyone's faults. A mature person needs to know how to take responsibility for his actions. Many times, what you missed will never come back.
18, we always like to verify the promises made by others to us, but rarely to verify the promises we have made to ourselves.
19, go to a place, miss a place, all because of the people there, not the scenery there, a city will be connected with itself, but also because there are the same people as themselves.
20, like, is a faint love; love, is a deep like...
21 Before love begins, you can never imagine that you will love someone like that.
22, before the end of love, you can never imagine that such love will disappear.
23, before love is forgotten, you can never imagine that such unforgettable love will leave only a faint trace; love, you must say it out loud, because you will never know, tomorrow and accidents, which will come first!
Editor's note: Because of expectations, we will be disappointed. Regret is also a kind of happiness. Because there are still things to regret. Pursue love, and then find that love has always been a thing that has changed a thousand times.