Copywriter 丨 Little Dance
One day in 1976, 13-year-old Cheng Qian ran to his mother in tears and asked, "People say that my uncle Cheng Zhi is my biological father. Tell me soon! ”
In the face of the sudden son, the mother suddenly panicked, and she, who was still doing housework, had to stop the needlework in her hand and tell Cheng Qian in a serious tone that this was true.
Originally, my mother still wanted to wait for Cheng to reach the age of 20, or to find an opportunity to secretly tell him when she became a year old, but now it seems that she can't hide it.
Cheng Qian's biological father turned out to be Cheng Zhi, who called the third father, how could he accept it when he was young? What is the unspeakable secret behind Cheng Qian's mother's concealment?
Cheng Qian, born in 1963, was born in the year cheng qian's grandmother took the lead and passed on Cheng Qian, who was still in his belly, to the second uncle.
Sending children seems a bit strange now, but it was very common in those days. The son was notoriously filial, and of course he chose to listen to his mother and did so.
Therefore, 15 days before Cheng, he was carried to the second uncle's house, became the son of the second uncle, and saw his biological father Cheng Zhi, and could only shout "three fathers" with great respect.
In this way, the two families reached an agreement, that is, to wait until Cheng Was 20 years old before telling him the truth of the whole thing.
Cheng Qian's biological father, Cheng Zhi, was once a famous performance artist in China, and his achievements in Peking Opera were also very deep.
Xiao Cheng had inherited to the second uncle, and for reasons that were well known, he went from Beijing to live in Jiujiang, Jiangxi, and lived a long and hard life at a young age.
Suddenly, one day, a child in the neighbor's house pointed to the screen and shouted, "Look, Wu Da Leper is Cheng Qian's father." 13-year-old Cheng Qian was confused.
The adoptive parents saw that the truth could not be hidden, so they had to frankly tell Cheng Qian the truth, and how Cheng Qian felt at that time, I think we can also guess one or two.
In 1982, Cheng Qian entered the Jiujiang Repertory Theatre by chance and began his hosting and acting career. For that past, he wanted to forget and couldn't forget.
It is said that Cheng Qian later had a youthful relationship in Jiujiang, but his adoptive mother told him, "You can't fall in love, you are going to leave Jiujiang", Cheng Qian always took these words to heart, and had to break off the relationship with his little girlfriend.
In the mid-1990s, just in time for a good time, the handsome Cheng Qianyi became a "CCTV brother" and was honored to serve as the host of the program of "Zhengda Variety", of course, this is naturally the first generation of entertainment program hosts Chinese mainland.
After seeing that his life and career have improved, Cheng Qian can't help but sigh about the visible good future, thanks to not staying in Jiujiang at the beginning, otherwise where would he usher in such a good development prospect?
Presumably, at that time, Cheng Qianqian would not have dreamed that another major life turning point had quietly touched his future plans.
It was in 1994, director Liu Guoquan asked him to act in a movie, and the cooperation was Hu Huizhong and Pu Cunxin, and Cheng Qian agreed.
I began to act while hosting, and although I was lucky, I was very fulfilling. Until 1997, the leader above told him that the host banned filming.
Since then, Cheng Qian has obviously become a three-bad artist, and after being expelled, Cheng Qian has to slip away from the TV station.
Cheng Qian's love life does not seem to be so smooth, especially the beautiful relationship with the host Dong Qing, how nai later ended without a problem, the two officially announced their breakup in 2007.
In 2011, according to media reports, Cheng Qian married a small wife who was 20 years younger than him, an outsider, and the two had a son after marriage.
With the support of a complete family, this continues to host and act. Not only did he make a splash in the acting industry, but he also starred in the TV series "Oriental Shuo" and also published a book.
To this day, after experiencing the ups and downs of life, I have also lived a peaceful ordinary life.
Once in a certain program, Dong Qing once asked before the process: Which of the two fathers has the greater impact on you?
Cheng Qian groaned for a moment, and his words choked, "Of course it is the adoptive father." After all, the grace of parenting is greater than the grace of procreation, and Cheng Qian said that his relationship with his adoptive father is very good.
In his heart, the adoptive father is a book that teaches him how to be a man, he performs filial piety in front of the adoptive father's sickbed, and he cries when his adoptive father dies of illness.
Cheng Qian had an autobiography called "True Colors", and he wrote his adoptive father into the book with ingenuity, and that chapter was called "Father is a Book".
This autobiography he poured out his true feelings, Douban scored 7.6, and some readers commented, "This is the best autobiography written by celebrities." "It is conceivable that he remembered his adoptive father's kindness to him.
Two fathers and two mothers, the complicated family relationship has brought many troubles to Cheng Qian, and he is a victim of the bad habit of sending children.
For his biological father Cheng Zhi, Cheng Qian had mixed feelings, he had not lived with his biological father and mother, and he really could not shout the phrase "Father and Mother".
In 1995, Cheng died of illness at the age of 69.
Cheng Qian rushed from Beijing to Shanghai, and in front of Cheng Zhi's body, Cheng Qian whispered "Daddy" in his ear, a claim that represented Cheng Qian's understanding and reconciliation with his biological father.
People have to go through many choices in their lives, and some choices are passive, such as such complex family ties and bonds. But we can take the initiative to choose to face and solve, and not leave regrets in our own lives.
Birth grace or nurturing grace, are the fate of our lives, the end of the article also advises everyone, and do and cherish, encourage!
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