Fu Lei: Treat your son as an equal, and organize your thinking point 1 by writing letters: Treat your son as an equal. Point 2: Stirring up thinking through deep communication with your son Point 3: Sorting out your thinking by writing letters Point 4: Focusing on academics and focusing on thinking Point 5: Leading by example Point 6: Treating others with sincerity

<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="2" > Point 1: Treat your son as an equal. </h1>

As a father, Fu Lei never treated his son as a child. Instead, he treats his son as an opponent and friend who can discuss art and music. Talk to my son about music, about performance, about literature, about painting, about philosophy, about Eastern and Western cultures. Come out and talk to your son about art in equal and communicative language. Guide his son's vision, see the growth of day by day, to climb to a new height in the music world.

"The son has become a friend, what in the world can compare with this happiness?" 」

<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="31" > Point 2: Stirring up thinking through deep communication with his son</h1>

As a middle-aged man, Fu Lei desperately wants to communicate with his son. To stir up some of the unique feelings of the son's young people. In this way, we can gain new insights about thought, art, and life.

Therefore, he showed great interest and concern for what he saw and heard when his son traveled around the world to perform. Fu Lei said: Although we will grow old, we are not far behind, and we always want to follow behind you.

<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="32" > Point 3: Organize your thinking by writing letters</h1>

Fu Lei wanted to achieve the goal of sorting out thinking and systematizing thinking through the training of letters.

Mr. Fu Lei believes that a person's thinking is unlikely to be systematic without writing, and it will be let go after a long time, or even forget, it is a pity!

Fu Lei encouraged his son to write more letters with substance. Therefore, in addition to the trivialities of life, the content of the letter is more to discuss art and life, and encourage his son to be an artist with both moral integrity and art and excellent personality.

"While writing letters to sort out your thoughts, you will find that you have a lot of new ideas, whether it is music, life, piano skills, there must be new inspiration at any time, which will help future life."

Mr. Fu Lei told the child explicitly by writing a letter. Writing letters can improve the level of cognition, thinking ability, and life realm.

<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="33" > Point 4: Focus on academics and more ideas</h1>

Mr. Fu Lei not only cares about children's academics, but also gives children comprehensive care and education in the field of ideology and morality.

Fu Lei will guide children to understand what love is. "What artists need most, in addition to reason, is love." "This love is by no means the feelings of a vulgar mother-in-law, but a warm, sincere, white and noble, fiery, selfless love. Only in this way can art be understood and expressed. ”

Fu Lei will also guide children to have a broad mind. To be an artist, you must first learn to be a person. Only by having a broad mind can we accommodate the "vast world of art". Accept the "infinitely changing forms and colors" to get to know any work of art.

Teach your child to be sincere. Only with sincerity can there be humility, so as to continuously make progress.

Guide children to set lofty educational goals: first as a person, then as an artist, then as a musician, and finally as a pianist.

<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="34" > Point 5: Lead by example</h1>

In the process of educating children, Mr. Fu Lei sets an example for children everywhere at any time. Whether it is in terms of being a person or in the details of life, or in terms of artistic cultivation, in terms of playing posture.

Fu Lei believes: "The most powerful argument in the world is like practical action; the most effective education is like leading by example." ”

He not only took this word as his creed, but also made it his whole action.

<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="35" > Point 6: Treat people with sincerity</h1>

Communicate with sincerity and be realistic. The valuable thing about Mr. Fu Lei is that while he educates his children, he will also put himself in it, and what he has not done will do ruthless self-analysis to guide his son to seriously treat his own problems and deficiencies and do a good job of reflection.

In summary, after reading the Book of Fu Lei's Family, I. The role of family letters in the communication process between Fu Lei and his son has four places: 1. discussing art, 2. stimulating ideals, 3. training writing and thinking, and 4. being a faithful mirror.