Zhang Xuejin married three wives in his lifetime, and people have a lot of criticism of the changes in his marriage, because divorce was a big thing in the 1980s and 1990s. In addition, Zhang Xuejin is a celebrity, which is particularly eye-catching. Zhang Xuejin divorced and remarried, and then divorced and single, many aspects of married life, not a sentence can be said clearly, more people do not know the pain That Zhang Xuejin has endured in his emotional life outside of his art for so many years, Zhang Xuejin wrote about his first two marriages in his autobiographical book "Life is just in time", but the final outcome is hastily taken in a sentence, without mentioning a word, if you use the Traditional Chinese "from one to the end" to measure love and marriage, then, wrong, not in Zhang Xuejin. However, Zhang Xuejin was very kind. He wouldn't mention it. This "Life is just in time" is based on the stories accumulated by Zhang Xuejin himself in the diary he wrote for many years, all his stories, or the real experience of his emotions, are all recorded in the diary that he has been taking notes from 1962 until his death, he can't say everything in the diary clearly, but I think those stories will be recorded forever in Zhang Xuejin's diary, which is filled with a whole suitcase. Dust off.
Zhang Xuejin has been living alone for more than twenty years after his divorce, and he sometimes turns on the TV very loud, and the apprentices will think that his ears are not good, and I think this is nothing more than a way for him to pass the lonely time and enrich the empty home. The emotional suffering encountered and the loneliness of the old age made Zhang Xuejin, who did not say much, even more taciturn, and from the outside, he was very serious or even very severe, and many people did not dare to talk to him more and did not dare to go near him. But one thing I experienced impressed me deeply, a mapai enthusiast who came from afar to find Zhang Xuejin to learn "Three Niangs Teaching Son", there is a singing voice that always does not perform well, Zhang Xuejin keeps showing this ticketer, once not, twice, three times, four times, five times, six times, seven times, break open and knead the talk, careful and patient. I thought: He is such an artist, what artist can not dislike the ticket holder as a layman, so seriously teach him? In fact, Zhang Xuejin's heart is made of water, and it is hard to freeze into ice. As long as there is a little warmth toward him, his heart melts. Everyone needs love, let alone an old man living alone at the age of seventy. When he met Zhang Limin that year, his heart was warmed, and the flower of life bloomed in his heart.
There is no way to know how Mr. Zhang Xuejin knows the other half of his life, and Zhang Limin said it very clearly: I married him to take care of him! He was such a man of artistic talent that he could not live such a lonely and helpless life. The day of box office activities has arrived again, Zhang Xuejin is always very interested in calling Zhang Limin, about to go together, Mr. Zhang Xuejin is suddenly full of energetic talk and laughter, so that many friends around him are clearly feeling the re-bloom of Zhang Xuejin's flower of life.
"Li Min, Xuejin is coming for you." A friend kindly showed Zhang Limin, as a woman, with such a sensitive heart, how can she not feel Zhang Xuejin's enthusiasm and the release of her life belief. The dignified and quiet Zhang Limin is gentle and amiable, Zhang Xuejin needs a woman who treats him gently, a woman with temperature, Zhang Limin feels that this big brother not only needs love, but also needs to be taken care of. Zhang Limin said: He is such an artist, but there are many things missing. Once Zhang Xuejin and Zhang Limin went to a box office event together, when entering a revolving door, Zhang Xuejin accidentally tripped up, a stumbling, almost fell, Zhang Limin hurriedly supported Zhang Xuejin, Zhang Xuejin himself muttered a word: Really old... Looking at Zhang Xuejin's appearance, Zhang Limin's heart was broken.
Once, Zhang Limin said that the bird's nest and water cube stadium that had just been built had not yet been seen, Zhang Xuejin immediately took Zhang Limin to take a walk once, the twilight was slight, Zhang Xuejin confided his heart: You see people a couple of people are out for a walk, how good it is to have a companion in the old age! Zhang Limin said: You can find one! Zhang Xuejin said: I have already found it. Zhang Limin asked: Who? Zhang Xuejin said: You! Zhang Limin said: You allow me to think. As the conversation continued, what Zhang Limin did not expect was that ten years ago, Zhang Xuejin had been full of good feelings for Zhang Limin, but he had never expressed it, and had been secretly hidden in his heart. Zhang Limin, who has also lived alone for many years, murmured: Why didn't you say it earlier? Waited for ten years...
Zhang Xuejin always has a dramatic explanation when he talks about the combination with Zhang Limin, and he will joke with the people around him: My father (Zhang Junqiu) stands on the cloud head, holding a broom, pointing at her (Zhang Limin), and I am a student who belongs to you. Indeed, if it were not for the art of bonding, not because Zhang Limin was a disciple of Zhang Junqiu, Zhang Xuejin might not have been able to find Zhang Limin in such a vast sea of people, and might not have been able to extend his more wonderful life. Zhang Xuejin once said to Zhang Limin: I think you are suitable. Zhang Limin asked: Where is the right place? Zhang Xuejin said: You see that you are not engaged in this line of work (engaged in Peking Opera), but you are not a layman, this is very good! Yes, an actor needs a confidant on stage, and he also needs someone in life who can listen to his feelings of mountain flowing water. This person made Zhang Xuejin wait.
In that warm summer, Zhang Limin agreed to the combination with Zhang Xuejin. Every year Zhang Xuejin has to go to the hospital regularly to check his body, somehow, Zhang Limin vaguely has a little worry about Zhang Xuejin's hepatitis C condition in his heart, and Zhang Xuejin does not think much, he said to Zhang Limin: If the examination is good, you must marry me? Zhang Limin looked at Zhang Xuejin's eager eyes, smiled and nodded. When the inspection report that had been anxiously waiting came out, when he saw this report, Zhang Xuejin's sky was dark, a thunderclap sounded, and a heavy rain poured on Zhang Limin's body. The report reads: Malignant tumors of the liver! Zhang Limin did not know how to help Zhang Xuejin into the elevator, and the world around her seemed to have no consciousness. As soon as the elevator door closed, Zhang Xuejin couldn't bear it any longer, hugged Zhang Limin and cried, sobbing vigorously and repeating a sentence: How can this be? It's mine...... The good days have just come... Zhang Limin did not know how to comfort Zhang Xuejin, she did not understand why Zhang Xuejin's life fell again. Fatal fall! She felt that Zhang Xuejin was like a child who had nothing at this time, standing alone in this world. She could not accept what she knew about Zhang Xuejin's emotional purgatory-like suffering for seventy years, and now another cold report sheet ruthlessly tore up everything about Zhang Xuejin. Zhang Limin cried and asked Zhang Xuejin: What now? What do we do? Zhang Xuejin said: I will go with you! "I'll go with you!" Zhang Limin realized that the meaning of this sentence was too heavy.
Driving through one overpass after another, Beijing under the gray sky entered the twilight of autumn, and at an unknown length of time the two people cried in the car, their eyes were blurry, they could not see the direction in front of them, they could not see anything clearly... Zhang Limin took Zhang Xuejin to live in her home and received a marriage certificate, and Zhang Limin and Zhang Xuejin were officially married. We don't say anything about the sublime, in fact, no one thinks about the sublime, and if there is love, such an outcome should come.
Zhang Xuejin and Zhang Limin's interaction has always been very low-key, and Zhang Xuejin feels that he is looking for someone who has an old companion. Ma Pai actor Mu Yu said: One day, Master asked me to bring him something, saying that I was waiting for him at the entrance of the theater, a black car drove past me, I didn't think at all, as a result, my master poked his head out of the car window and called me, I saw a woman driving in the front seat of Master, my heart beat very hard, will she be my master's wife? Ma Pai actor Zhu Qiang said: Master Niang is particularly good to Master, Master Niang's greatest credit is to put all of us disciples together and surround Master, before we were all afraid of Master, did not dare to talk more, now with Master Niang, we are like a family, Master likes to talk and laugh, we can also coax Master to be happy, where Master goes, what to do, Master and Mother are accompanied, Master is suddenly much younger. Mu Yu also said: Master did not say to my master, Master just arrived at home, the newly bought solid wood furniture, my master sat down and said a word: hard. The next day all changed to leather sofas. The teacher changed! You wonder how good my master is to my master. Ma Pai actor Gao Tong said: That time Master's birthday, the apprentices all arrived, ate at a Shanghai cuisine restaurant, after eating and going out, Master said: Let's get together more in the future. You know, Master rarely said this before. He was really happy that day. The woman warmed him. Ma Pai actor Song Haoyu said: My master is very strong, so seriously ill, did not take it seriously, if it were not for my master's wife, he would not be like this.
Zhang Limin does not dislike Zhang Xuejin is a patient, hepatitis C is transmitted through blood, usually normal meals together is not related, but even so, hepatitis C patients' meals are still divided meal system, everyone is divided well, Zhang Limin feels that this will make Zhang Xuejin feel strange, in the party and dinner, Zhang Limin and the apprentices broke the meal sharing system, all eat with the master, the same food, is Chinese long-standing habit, is the concept of "family" with the heart. Only by establishing this concept can we dissolve the "ice" in Zhang Xuejin's heart. Zhang Xuejin felt that everyone at the table loved him very much.
Zhang Xuejin is like a changed person, in the bright sun, still open brightly colored flowers, occasionally, he will also appear at the live TV concert, sing a paragraph, full of silver hair, wearing a silver gray suit, full of spirit, extraordinary style of him, the audience can not see that he is seriously ill. Whether it is a dashing Ma Pai or not, the actor must maintain this state, and Zhang Xuejin must also maintain this state. Otherwise he would not be Zhang Xuejin. Zhang Xuejin bravely began his loving life, he did not think about how long this life can last, Zhang Limin brought him courage and faith, turned into endless happiness. He was happy, willing to live longer, and had not yet enjoyed this life.
That morning, the sun just penetrated the window, Zhang Limin began to do hygiene for the living room, Zhang Xuejin came out of the house, looking at Zhang Limin wiping the floor, half a day, Zhang Xuejin came up with a sentence: What do you say you are fighting with this floor? Rub so many times? Zhang Limin said: How to do without wiping, the new home should be hygienic, do you know? Zhang Xuejin's "Oh" did not speak. Zhang Limin glanced at Zhang Xuejin: What are you doing looking at me? You have to work too! Zhang Xuejin said: Then what do I do? Zhang Limin said: Well, then you took a rag and wiped the bedside table. Zhang Xuejin found a rag and went into the bedroom. Zhang Limin looked at Zhang Xuejin and smiled. After a while, Zhang Xuejin's voice came from inside: Wife! Come on! Wife is coming! Zhang Limin said: What's the matter? Zhang Xuejin shouted in the room: Wife, come and see if the bedside table I wiped is clean or not!
The little memories have been Zhang Limin's lingering sadness after Zhang Xuejin's death.
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