How to accompany an 8-year-old boy through the rebellious period

The previous article talked about my family's first four-year-old rebellion, and now I want to recount the 8-year-old rebellion period that is happening now. At the beginning of this summer vacation, Toot Bao was still relatively well-behaved, and he carefully completed all the homework assigned by His Father every day, including the books I gave. When did the rebellion begin? It should have started at the end of July, when you will find that he is always in violation of our words, you say east, he prefers the south and northwest, just don't come according to your meaning, or in other words, you come in reverse, at that time we did not realize that this was his second rebellious period, during this period we were both relatively relaxed with him because it was summer vacation, we both went home every day more tired, did not find communication at the first time, and thought it was also our parents' problem. When we realized the seriousness of the problem, it was already a big outbreak of his rebellion, and the problem of communication the night before was immediately re-committed the next day, and he did not admit his mistakes, thinking that it was someone else's problem. Almost every day will be beaten, the mouth is always shouting away from home, homework will never touch a word, every day with a variety of tricks to deceive grandma's mobile phone to play, we talk to him less than two sentences is angry to run away, fight can not work, scolding can not work. Colleagues often joke that I have to go through two battlefields every day, during the day is work, at night is a child, and I will joke with My Dad that the tuba training is wasted, let's reopen the trumpet. Jokes are jokes, in the end, you still have to continue, ask Toot Bao's aunt, what to do if you encounter this situation? Toot Bao's aunt is a teacher and also has a sister who is two years older than Toot Bao. Toot Bao's aunt said that Toot Bao's sister also had this stage last summer, let me find a point to go back to praise him hard, think about when Toot Bao was at home every day chicken flying dog jump and have to go back to praise him, I and Toot Dad cheered each other up, we were not easy to be mentally prepared to go back to praise him hard, it was really useful, but it was also the effect of one night, the next day as usual. It really collapsed at the time, but I had to hold on. Then change the tactics, use his love for me, and at the beginning of that day I decided to chill him for a while, ignore him for two days, and let Toot Dad and grandparents do assists. This method worked again, he began to be afraid of reflection, I think if you start to reflect, it should be a manifestation of progress! The summer vacation will also be over, and I hope to adjust my mentality before the start of the semester and face the new semester together!