Hello everyone, this morning Thanbi opened his eyes and saw the reader scolding me in the background, yesterday again.
It is like this, yesterday I brushed a video at the small broken station, just look at the title, the mood is quite complicated. Until now, I have not eased up, and I want to dig up a heart socket with everyone.
At the beginning of the video, a middle-aged woman in plain clothes tilts her head and slowly slides a bowl of cut bananas into a pot that is rolling hot oil.
As the banana fell, the oil in the pan seemed to be lit up, and it exploded in all directions, and Bibi shook his hand and almost threw the phone out. But the woman in the video can't dodge and is hit by hot oil.
Looking at her face again, a smile of embarrassment appeared, as if the hot oil just now was splashed because of her carelessness.
Bibi realizes that she is the blind mother in the title.
Shocked to see her finish cooking, the camera turned, and there was a person lying on the bed, which should be the "cerebral palsy son" in the title.
Although the appearance is no different from ordinary people, the body is twisted, and the limbs are obviously several sizes smaller than ordinary adults. Only the hands and feet of the whole body can simply swing, but because of the atrophy, it cannot be stretched.
The process of eating is even less smooth. The blind mother first blew the food cold, and then fumbled to find the location of her son's mouth and delivered the food into her son's mouth.
Then, the blind mother covered her son's mouth and helped him chew and swallow so that the food would not fall out.
Seeing this, Bibi's first reaction was:
Do the mother and son have other family members? Why didn't anyone help them?
So, Bibi went to the home page and looked at it. This blind mother, named Cao Shimei, has a family of three with varying degrees of disability.
Although Cao Shimei's husband can see it, as the only labor force in the family who can go out, he usually has to go out to take care of the fields, raise poultry, and earn a small income.
Therefore, the task of taking care of her son basically fell on Cao Shimei.
Three meals a day is particularly important, but those quick dishes that can be easily handled in 5 minutes have become a dark weapon that hurts people without blinking on Cao Shimei's stove. Usually Bibi cut vegetables are most afraid of encountering round potatoes, large peppers, they are a slippery, Bibi's small hands may be shorter. Not to mention that like Cao Shimei, blindfolded, with earthen mines hanging from his hands at any time.
In order to know whether the food is cooked or not, Cao Shimei often has to use his bare hands to cook the pot and use his flesh to test the softness of the food.
For example, once, a well-wisher sent a duck, and Cao Shimei wanted to roast the fire to shave. Her hand kept wandering by the fire, and several times she was almost burned, and Bibi's heart was twisted into a ball.
But even more heart-wrenching than I am is Cao Shimei's son. From the video description, it can be seen that although he suffers from cerebral palsy, he is only unable to act autonomously and cannot speak.
His thinking consciousness is not much different from ordinary people. Compared to ordinary people, he was like being buried alive in a mummy.
Whenever he saw his mother being scalded with oil, he could only struggle the side, trying to make an a--ah- cry.
Seeing this, Bibi choked up, but I also had doubts:
The whole family has limited mobility, so who is the one who took the video?
Bibi went to search. The video shooter, who is the grandson of Cao Shimei's family, usually has his own job, and the number of returns to the village is limited, so he uses his daily free time to help them shoot videos in order to get the attention of well-wishers.
Bibi also went over to see one of Cao Shimei's earliest videos.
In 18 years, the family lived in a house with no sunlight, the walls were dirty and dilapidated, and the kettle on the stove was covered with dust and rust. The smoke pipe next to the stove can only be wrapped in a waste paper shell.
At that time, in their food, they could often see tree roots and wood. Occasionally, I got a piece of meat, and the old two were reluctant to eat a bite, all of which was given to the bedridden son.
Three years have passed, and now, with the help of netizens, the life of Cao Shimei's family has improved slightly.
She ate her first fried chicken leg:
Her face also opened a smile because she wore a brand new sweatshirt for the first time and slept in a clean and tidy bed
With the help of volunteers, she also washed her hair refreshed once:
Despite the shift in life to the good, the problems that reality has to face are still rolling.
In a recent video, Cao Shimei and her husband went to see their cemetery. Now that they are nearly 70 years old, they should make plans for their son with cerebral palsy early when they can still move independently, and choosing a cemetery close to home is one of them. When Bibi saw this, his nose was almost sour.
In the comments, I saw one like this:
From the perspective of exposure and coin making, it is indeed "selling miserably".
But think about the people around Bibi and Bibi, most of the misery we have experienced may bring frustration in life, may make our lives into a dilemma, but most of the dismal frustrations, there is always the hope of bitterness.
But Cao Shimei's pain can only be reduced, but it will not disappear. She can only show embarrassment for a glimmer of life. After them, there are many people with disabilities who do not even have the power to speak out online. As lucky ordinary people, it is not a help not to be overly suspicious of their motives and to respect their behavior of exposing their lives.
Today I will nag here, hang up, and I hope that everyone will pay more attention to these people in difficult situations, and everyone will have a good night.
Author: Zi Quan
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