My little boy is 3 and a half years old, currently looking at a warm male child, because he is also a novice mother, need to grow up with the child, like to be in the gap after lunch, browse to learn parenting knowledge, today share and summarize a few of their own feel more important, about the habit cultivation of children before the age of 6:
1. Teach children etiquette: courtesy to elders, etiquette in public places, etiquette for guests, and learning to be grateful.
2. Teach children to learn empathy: discuss feelings with children about what happens, role play.
3. Teach children to learn to take responsibility: exercise children to dress themselves, eat, organize toys, assign housework, develop the habit of doing their own things, and ask people to help with things they can't do.
4. Teach children to plan: learn to allocate their own time, know how to follow the rules, and develop the habit of following the plan.
5, the habit of exercise: every day to let the child run and jump outside, improve concentration and exercise.
6. Regular reading: Lead by example and accompany your children to read every day and develop the habit of reading every day.
In contrast, our children do not have all of the above, and they are still practicing hard, and the key to the cultivation of habits lies in the long-term persistence, companionship and determination of their parents.
It was difficult at first, and when he saw his child crying, he was soft-hearted, and he had experienced such a situation, and he had broken his heart in order to cultivate himself to eat.
Don't think that this is just a child's business, adults must have the patience to accompany him to complete it, encourage him at the right time, and enhance his confidence in participating.
It doesn't matter if you fail today, tomorrow adjust your strategy, knock on the side, study his interests and then guide him until he accepts and gets used to it.
The last thing I want to say is not to put too much pressure on him, the whole process should be easy and fun, so that he can find the pleasure of perseverance in the process of playing.
I'm still learning myself, so let's cheer together.