01.
In the British drama "Downton Abbey", the love between Mary and Matthew, the manor lady, is the most touching.
Between them, after experiencing all kinds of tribulations and separations, they can finally come together, simply because they always have love and concern for each other.
In the beginning, because of the British succession law of the time, the heir to the manor would be the distant nephew of the Earl's Court, Matthew. In order to preserve the property of their eldest daughter Mary, they unanimously decided to let Matthew marry Mary.
At first, both people showed rejection of the marriage that everyone around them was matching.
They all hope to be able to enter the palace of marriage with their other half because of love, not because of external things such as titles and money.
In addition, there are differences between the aristocracy and the middle class, which also becomes a gap that hinders their getting along and understanding.
But fortunately, over time, they eventually slowly got closer to each other.
Although Matthew resisted the marriage, he did fall in love with Mary at first sight, and Mary changed her opinion of Matthew after getting to know him better.
But fate always played one joke after another with these two young people, they loved each other, but they could never come together.
Later, war breaks out and Matthew leaves, while he is already engaged to another girl.
02.
Once upon a time, they all thought that in this life, they would miss each other like this.
Mary's heart, still deeply in love with Matthew, but never showed it.
Later, the misunderstandings around the two people were finally resolved, and they also released their previous suspicions and came back together.
Matthew once said to Mary: As long as you are alive, in this world, I cannot be happy with others.
They finally entered the palace of marriage as they wished, and the life after marriage was so sweet and beautiful.
However, fate did not let go of the couple.
On the day Mary gave birth to a boy, she only had time to come home to see Matthew, who was married and children, and then suffered a car accident while going out.
The marriage came to an abrupt end, leaving Mary with endless thoughts and sorrows.
However, she is still happy, much happier than many people in the world.
Because she has tasted true love and has such beautiful romantic memories.
Later, Mary, after a long time, finally trekked out of the pain of losing her lover.
But she will never forget the unforgettable heart that Matthew brought to her, and there will never be a man who can bring her such happiness.
03.
In this world, there is a kind of love that can make us happy when we have it, and not want to die when we lose it.
Many people are tirelessly pursuing it, and there are some people who eventually lose to life and lose to reality.
True love, is it really so hard to find?
Like Mary and Matthew in Downton Abbey, they love each other so much that there will be no one else in this world who can replace each other.
However, after experiencing the initial contradictions and misunderstandings, in the end, the couple still failed to grow old in vain, so they were separated forever.
Having every kind of love comes at a cost.
And the meaning of true love is this: true love, no matter what obstacles there are between you, even if you have to face the discrimination and opposition of the whole world, you must firmly follow your heart.
In this life, it is really rare to meet someone who wants to come with you no matter what.
Even if you still have to separate in the end, there will still be regrets, and you should not give up the present for the sake of the future.
Strive to pursue, strive to have, is what we want to do.
04.
A female friend of mine had such an emotional experience.
She and her boyfriend met when they were at the same company and came together.
Unlike this friend, who is the only daughter of the family and has a good family, the boy is from the mountains, and the old family has two younger brothers who are in junior high school.
This relationship was not favored by family and friends from the beginning.
Mom and Dad bitterly advised her that what you will have to support in the future is their family, and living a life is not as simple as having a full drink of water.
She was unusually determined. She said: "I chose to be with him because I loved him, and what I loved was not his appearance, but seeing him as a responsible, self-motivated man.
I am ready for what will happen to our future lives, and most importantly, as long as I am with him, no matter how hard life is, I am willing.
Later, they did get married. In the first few years of marriage, life was very difficult, and her parents did not give her any financial support because they were disappointed in her, and everything depended on themselves.
In the end, the boy really did as she said, and made a big splash in his career, and after a few years, he not only bought a house, but also brought his parents and family to live.
He said to her, I will give you everything I can, although it may not be as much as your parents have given you, but I will try.
In our lifetime, being able to meet and have such love, even if it is only for a moment, is enough for us to be happy for a lifetime.
After all, life in the world is to bravely pursue the people and things you love, if you have to tie your hands and feet in everything, and think too much about those things outside your body, you may really miss the only opportunity that belongs to you.
Like the love between Mary and Matthew in "Downton Abbey", although it was so short-lived, although after Matthew left, Mary was once in great pain and sorrow.
But she finally stood up strongly. If it wasn't for that deep love, how could there be such courage?
Life is short, if you meet someone who can bring happiness to yourself, cherish it.
Instead of having so many concerns, it is better to give each other enough trust to face the unknown of the future with him. True love is not easy, don't wait until you miss it, and then regret it for the rest of your life.