Text/Wan Shi Rain
When Tong Nian met Han Shangyan, Han Shangyan was in the glory period of entrepreneurship, while Tong Nian was a graduate student.
Tong Nian fell in love with Han Shangyan at first sight, but Han Shangyan did not seem to feel affection for the beauty of the other party.
30-year-old Han Shangyan, single-minded in his career, has a lonely personality, has never been in love, is very cold to his suitors, does not like to laugh, and is a bitter melon face all day.
When Han Shangyan said to Tong Nian: He has no intention of falling in love, nor does he have the energy to fall in love, you go, you don't have to say goodbye, and you won't see you again in the future.
He cut off Tong Nian's admiration for himself, but in the end he was moved by Tong Nian. This man is the legendary straight-talking appearance.
In life, Han Shangyan, who has always been rational, treats love step by step, so there is a later deep love.
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Han Shangyan is very good in his career, but his education is not as high as Tong Nian, and his age is older than Tong Nian, but both of them have their own shining points and have achieved achievements in their respective fields.
Han Shangyan's team members are very fond of Tong Nian, she is good-looking and cute. When everyone chatted together, Tong Nian said that he was in graduate school and went to college at the age of 15.
When Han Shangyan heard the last sentence, he was still attracted to look up at her.
At the age of 15, many people have not yet graduated from junior high school, she has already been admitted to college, and she is simply a genius girl in the eyes of others.
However, he learned from his cousin that Tong Nian also participated in the International College Student Programming Competition, with good results and won the third place.
College students design the top competitions in the program, and they are all participated by college students from all over the world, and it is not easy to get the third place.
Later, he learned that Tong Nian's family and his own family were family relations, and from not having the energy to fall in love to seeing each other together.
In the interaction between the two people, Han Shangyan found that Tong Nian was very efficient in doing things, from programming to making software that the team members needed to measure hand speed training, she did it in one go.
Han Shangyan was attracted by Tong Nian's wisdom. She was so good, but she wasn't high-profile at all, and she always liked herself, just to satisfy his vanity.
At the beginning of a relationship, only close, there may be likes.
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The players got into a tantrum with Han Shangyan because they were too tired of training for the game.
Tong Nian didn't want to see Han Shangyan sad, and used to comfort him: "Don't be sad, they are still children, they don't understand things." ”
Han Shangyan asked again, how old are you?
But Tong Nian still succeeded in amusing Han Shangyan, because Tong Nian had always been treated as a child in Han Shangyan's eyes, so Tong Nian used an adult tone to comfort Han Shangyan, and he was very surprised.
Many people say that Han Shangyan's personality is strange, and they don't know why Tong Nian likes him. He is harsh, does not like to laugh, likes freedom and does not like to be bound, and his temper is quite smelly. But for Tong Nian, he is good everywhere, good looks, kind, filial piety, righteousness, and ideals.
When others think that Han Shangyan is playing with computers, he is not doing business. Tong Nian will come forward to explain that his profession is a serious profession, they are network security talents, they can win medals in competitions, and they can get bonuses.
There is also Han Shangyan's grandfather who does not understand the industry he is engaged in, worrying that he is 30 years old and still plays with computers, and what to do if he can't find a wife.
The appearance of Tong Nian resolved many contradictions between Han Shangyan and his grandfather, and explained the industry with his family with patience.
Tong Nian is like a han shangyan reassuring pill, Tong Nian's bright smile, let him really feel Tong Nian's understanding and support for himself, so he is no longer irritable because of being denied by his family.
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Tong Nian knew that when Han Shangyan was busy at work, she would sit quietly and not disturb.
Han Shangyan saw Tong Nian asleep in the chair, and he carefully lay on the chair to secretly watch Tong Nian sleeping, so serious and focused.
Perhaps, only when you really fall in love with someone, you will observe each other so carefully, look at each other quietly, want to move but are afraid of disturbing.
Han Shangyan said to Tong Nian: "You are different from what I thought. ”
He thought that Tong Nian's only daughter who grew up in a happy and rich family would be arrogant and willful, but he did not expect that Tong Nian would be sensible, well-behaved, and enthusiastic.
In feelings, "sensible and well-behaved" and "docile" are not the same, a sensible and well-behaved person, at least have their own thoughts and opinions to do things, and docile people often have no self, everything is obedient to each other.
When one day in your own feelings, you find yourself submissive to the other party, this is not love, but humble love.
Once, two people sat in chairs, and Tong Nian took out his mobile phone and showed Han Shangyan the software he had made.
Tong Nian used 2 nights to make this software game, is to give Han Shangyan to play and relax when he is stressed, and to teach him how to operate.
And Han Shangyan's heart has been attracted to this little girl, she is smart, optimistic, and the look of thinking only for herself is very cute.
Therefore, he looked at it and wanted to kiss Tong Nian, who was talking.
Like a person will always have a variety of choices, Han Shangyan likes Tong Nian because she is talented, empathetic, well-behaved and sensible, and even sometimes because Tong Nian is more mature than herself.