"A strict father produces filial piety, and a loving mother has many defeated children."
In our impression, Zhang Fengyi is a tough guy image. He has created many classic roles for us, so in our eyes, he is a well-deserved powerful actor.
His performance style is diverse, and he will not stick to the same type of role, whether it is a costume drama or a modern drama, he can play it with ease. And Zhang Fengyi's sense of substitution is very strong, playing what role is like what role. At this point, Zhang Fengyi is still very admirable.
However, Zhang Fengyi's private life has been criticized. So, is it right or wrong for Lu Liping, the ex-wife of domestic violence, and Zhang Fengyi, who dislikes her son?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="32" > Zhang Fengyi "abandoned his wife and children"</h1>
In fact, many people do not know that Zhang Fengyi's ex-wife is Lu Liping. The two people also had an affair with the drama when they were young, because of the cooperation of a TV series, so that they also went to real life. In fact, such situations are very common in show business, but they are also prejudiced after marriage.
At first, they had the same interests, the same hobbies, and even similar careers, so they had a lot of opportunities to talk together. When they got married, they also received a lot of attention and blessings, and after entering the marriage hall, they also began a simple life.
It is worth mentioning that their wedding was very simple, and at that time, 50 yuan included everything in the wedding.
However, according to the price at that time, this was also a very good wedding at that time. Subsequently, in the later life, the cooperation between the two people is also very pleasant, the male outside, the female protagonist inside. Two people also have the crystallization of love after marriage.
Because of having children, Lu Liping put all her thoughts on the family. For herself, she is more of a give-up. She couldn't take care of her career and devoted herself to her family.
At this time, Zhang Fengyi's progress in his career was by leaps and bounds. He became a very hot rising star of the year, and he shot many works, and the outside world has a very good evaluation of him. From this time on, the gap between the two people has been opened unconsciously.
Because she is busy with the life of the family, Lu Liping does not trim the edges all day, and cleans up the house and manages the children at home like a yellow-faced woman. And Zhang Fengyi, who has seen all kinds of beautiful actresses outside, will inevitably feel disgusted when he sees such a wife at home.
And the hobbies of the two people are becoming less and less, and the common topic is even less and less. Because all of Lu Liping's focus is on her husband and children, she has not been in contact with the outside world, but Zhang Fengyi has been exposed to many new things outside.
The dispute began at this time. Subsequently, Zhang Fengyi, like other men, did not like to go home more and more, and the two people also gathered less and more. Even in a family quarrel, Zhang Fengyi directly hit Lu Liping. Subsequently, such things kept playing out. Because she could not stand such a husband, Lu Liping decided to divorce him and raise her two-year-old son alone.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="29" > have a world of different attitudes towards sons and daughters</h1>
After the two divorced, the two of them also had a happy life. However, as the son grew larger, the broad masses found that Zhang Fengyi, as a father, did not have any sense of participation. On the contrary, when his son made mistakes or educated him, he was very strict, and sometimes even harsh so that everyone could not imagine.
Just after his son graduated from junior high school, his son said that he wanted to go on the road of acting like his parents to learn acting, but he did not expect that Zhang Fengyi, as a father, was very angry, and directly told him: If you study acting, you will never contact him again.
Such a statement may be a little too decisive, although it may be from the father's point of view, that he feels that it is good for him. After all, Zhang Fengyi has been in the show business circle for such a long time, has seen some dark sides, and knows more about the heartache. So he didn't want the child to go down this path, but he should have done it in a more euphemistic way. Instead of giving such a reason, trying to dissuade him from the personal attack.
The use of this method is really incomprehensible, coupled with the rendering of network public opinion, it has directly become Zhang Fengyi's dislike of his son's ugliness.
From childhood to adulthood, Zhang Fengyi was particularly strict with his son. And at the graduation ceremony of his son's chinese drama, he was very serious. When he knew that his son would play the male number one in the college after graduation, Zhang Fengyi instead satirized that this play could not be watched. No matter what purpose Zhang Fengyi has, saying such a thing really hurts the child's self-esteem.
Although boys should pay attention to bravery from an early age, they should accept setbacks. Being a father may also be afraid that he will be too complacent and proud, but there are pros and cons to such a way. It was then discovered that he treated his son and daughter in a completely different way.
For his own biological son, the blow is greater than the praise. But spoiling her stepdaughter as a princess was simply better for her than her biological father. On the birthday of his stepdaughter, Zhang Fengyi also specially sent a brand-name car to her, which simply regarded her stepdaughter as a pearl in his hand. Such differential treatment has also made netizens complain about Zhang Fengyi continuously.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="28" > a strict father to a filial son?</h1>
In the face of her last failed marriage, Lu Liping once said that she and Zhang Fengyi were separated, and she has always regretted it very much. If they could have dealt with the problem differently at the time, they probably wouldn't have gotten to this point. In their failed marriage, the most hurt is undoubtedly their child Zhang Boyu.
But fortunately, now that Zhang Boyu has grown up healthily, if there is no destructive education of Zhang Fengyi, he may not be mixed in such a reputation in the show business circle. And they've each found the right person, which is a good status quo for them.
For Zhang Boyu's stepfather, Sun Haiying, it may have been the pain of losing his son before, so he regarded this son as very important and gave him true companionship and fatherly love in the traditional sense.
The moment Zhang Boyu changed his mouth to call him daddy, he was really excited. He also once said that he had to endure the excitement in his heart at that time, even if he did not call this father, he would fulfill this responsibility.
Later, Zhang Boyu also said in the show that he and his biological father had a good relationship, they would play together, and they would discuss some details of acting. Although Zhang Fengyi spent little time with him when he was young, he also gave him a lot of advice.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="23" > conclusion</h1>
In fact, everyone loves their children differently. For Zhang Fengyi, he hopes that his son will become an iron-blooded man and stand tall in the sky. Therefore, it will be particularly harsh when it comes to education.
But no matter what, the son is now developing very well, and the bitterness and bitterness of this may only be known to them.