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Getting married is a lifelong event and must be treated with caution. Before marriage, both parties should know more about each other, and if they cannot accept each other's situation, they should not get married, so as not to live unhappily after marriage.
When in love, be more picky, look at each other's shortcomings, and measure whether you can accept it. After marriage, don't be picky anymore, be more tolerant, and look at each other's advantages. For each other's shortcomings, we must turn a blind eye and not be too calculating.
In order to know each other more, it is necessary to have a longer time of interaction and not rush to get married. If the two people really have a relationship, come to Japan for a long time, not in a hurry at this time, or better to know more. Some couples get married, it is easy to lay the foundation for married life, because there is not enough understanding.
However, whether it is a flash marriage or not, since you are married, you must manage the marriage well. For the ex-boyfriend or ex-husband, it must be broken cleanly, and the connection cannot be broken, otherwise the marriage will definitely be affected.
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Zhu Ming and his wife were married by flash, and at that time, both of them were in a bad mood because of the loss of love, so they reported to the same tour group to relax. In travel, because each of them is alone, it is natural to travel together.
At the end of a week's trip, the two flashed into marriage, and both felt that their union was providential. After getting married, Zhu Ming and his wife lived in the city, and his parents lived in the countryside. In fact, in the matter of the son's flash marriage, the parents are very disapproval, they feel that it is too hasty, but the son insists on flash marriage.
Since it is a flash marriage, Zhu Ming and his wife are equivalent to getting married first and then falling in love. In the common life, the two found that there were many differences, such as Zhu Ming likes to eat spicy, but his wife likes to eat sweet; his wife likes to listen to music, Zhu Ming feels that it is too noisy; Zhu Ming likes to play games, but his wife does not like it at all...
Because of these differences, the two will inevitably have friction, but after all, they are still newly married, and both parties are still as tolerant as possible. But an incident that happened three months later made Zhu Ming unable to tolerate it, and he directly filed for divorce with his wife.
03
At noon that day, Zhu Ming and his wife were having lunch when she received a phone call. After listening to the phone, the wife said that there was a friend and husband who quarreled and wanted to talk to her, so she put down the dishes and chopsticks and went out with her bag.
Zhu Ming thought that his wife's girlfriend had a quarrel with her husband, so he didn't ask much. After his wife went out, she didn't come back until dark, and Zhu Ming called her. The wife said that she would not come back to live, her friend was very sad, she had to accompany her friend, afraid that the friend would not be able to open.
Listening to his wife say this, Zhu Ming guessed that the friend's situation might be quite serious, so he didn't say anything more. He feels that everyone needs to be accompanied by friends when they are sad and sad, and his wife should accompany her friends, which is also deserved.
The next day, his wife still did not return, and Zhu Ming called his wife again. The wife said that in order to distract her friends, she and her friends went on a trip and would not return until tomorrow. This time Zhu Ming asked, "Which friend of yours is this?" The wife said, "You don't know." Then I hung up the phone.
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Zhu Ming and his wife are flash marriages, and for his wife's friends, Zhu Ming does not know many of them. He thought that he would wait for his wife to come back and ask her in detail!
On the third day, when his wife finally returned, Zhu Ming asked her what the situation was, and she was torn apart, and Zhu Ming felt a little strange. Later, Zhu Ming went out to buy vegetables and met a colleague on the road, who came to attend Zhu Ming's wedding. He said that he saw Zhu Ming's wife at the high-speed rail station yesterday and took a photo with his hand!
Zhu Ming looked at the photos taken by his colleagues, only to find that his wife was traveling with a man, and he immediately understood why his wife was torn apart. After Zhu Ming and his colleagues separated, they had no intention of buying vegetables again, so they immediately folded back and went home.
Back at home, Zhu Ming asked his wife, who is that friend? The wife could not see it, and could only honestly say that it was an ex-boyfriend, Zhu Ming was surprised! The wife immediately said that she and the ex-boyfriend did not have anything, because the ex-boyfriend and his wife quarreled in a bad mood, she just accompanied the ex-boyfriend, told Zhu Ming not to think about it.
How could Zhu Ming not think wildly? Lonely widow, alone for three days and two nights, but also two people who once loved each other. Zhu Ming immediately proposed a divorce, and his wife did not want to leave, but Zhu Ming was very insistent and finally divorced.
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The marriage between Zhu Ming and his wife is like a farce, coming and going quickly.
The two people are in a state of lost love, because of a short trip and flash marriage. Since you have flashed marriage, let's have a good run-in and live a good life. But the wife received a call from her ex-boyfriend, and immediately went to accompany her ex-boyfriend, which shows that she has not forgotten her ex-boyfriend in her heart.
No matter whether anything happened in those three days and two nights, a married woman who was alone with her ex-boyfriend, no matter which husband would have an idea. Married people should always remind themselves of their married identity, pay attention to the impact, consider the feelings of their spouses, and cannot be as self-righteous as Zhu Ming's wife.
Flash marriage always does more harm than good, so try not to flash marriage as much as possible, and when you fall in love, you still have to know more about each other and have more time to run in. Marriage is not a child's play, don't tie the knot for a while, leave for a while, this is not good for anyone.
Author: A creator in the field of emotions, focusing on various issues in the field of emotions, welcome to pay attention. Life has warmth because of love and love, let us grow in love, and spend every day in true feelings.