As the saying goes: husband and wife themselves are the same as the forest birds, and they fly separately when the big trouble comes. To put it aside, the feelings between husband and wife cannot withstand the test of reality, especially after one party's promotion and salary increase, if the other party stagnates, it will open up the distance between the two people, and eventually lead to the breakdown of the marriage.
Recently, a woman named Zhang Yuhua suffered such misfortune, because her husband was admitted to the civil service, had to divorce her, and said: You are not worthy of me now.
1, the husband was admitted to the civil service and began to dislike her
Zhang Yuhua originally had a good job, she was working in the substation, she and her husband had a son after marriage, and she was living a very happy life, but her husband was dissatisfied with the status quo and wanted to take the civil service examination, and after the result, he slowly changed.
Zhang Yuhua said that when her husband walked on the street and saw a beautiful woman, he would constantly claim praise, and looked back at her with disgust: How do you wear such ugly clothes? Also ran out to shame people. Her husband's words were like needles piercing deep into Zhang Yuhua's heart.
Her husband not only began to dislike her, but also often cold violence against her, once during dinner, Zhang Yuhua asked her husband to hand her chopsticks, but her husband said: You yourself will not take it? Don't you have long hands? I'm a civil servant now, and you're still asking me to get out!
Her husband's words became more and more mean, and he had already broken through Zhang Yuhua's inner defense line, and he stimulated her like this every day, making her miserable.
2, the wife constantly reflects on herself, but waits for the divorce agreement
Zhang Yuhua constantly reflected on herself, why her husband had become like this, whether he was doing a bad job. But the last thing she waited for was the divorce agreement.
Recently, the husband suddenly filed for divorce, and brought a group of people to Zhang Yuhua's work unit, took away his son, and did not let Zhang Yuhua see his son again.
Zhang Yuhua came to her husband's work unit, she took her husband's arm, begged bitterly, wanted to return to her son, but her husband was indifferent and said: The substation is irradiated, which is not good for her son's health. No matter how Zhang Yuhua cried and pleaded, her husband did not want Zhang Yuhua to see his son.
3, the old man said that the son-in-law is the contemporary Chen Shimei
The husband said that since the wife gave birth to her son, she felt that she was very meritorious and had to listen to her everything, and now that they had been separated for two years, he had filed for divorce, and she was still here to do it.
The old man listened to the son-in-law's words and was very angry, he said, the son-in-law is the contemporary Chen Shimei, he is a playboy, he plays with women have a set, the daughter and he are not like two people, he has never taken his daughter to go shopping together.
4, the husband has been divorced with an iron heart
The staff of the community women's federation said that Zhang Yuhua is quite honest and responsible, the problem may appear in her husband, they have also mediated, but her husband is reluctant to come forward again, he is determined to divorce, and he does not want Zhang Yuhua to see the child.
Write at the end:
It seems that Zhang Yuhua's marriage has been irretrievable, the feelings of the two have come to an end, I advise those women who are still hovering at the intersection of marriage, once the relationship is over, do not go to retention, so that you can only let yourself be hurt, leave some dignity for yourself, dry your tears, and find your happiness again! The next few days are only for myself to slowly heal my wounds.