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In June 2021, a picture of a child playing a game with a toy gun circulated on social platforms, and the child said to his friends while playing: "Kill little Japan!"
This picture sparked a discussion on social networks, and some people thought that it was not good for children to say this, which was to create anti-Japanese education;
Some people also believe that it is normal for Chinese to have such an attitude towards Japan, to remember history, not to forget the pain that Japan has brought to China, and some people support the behavior of children, believing that this is a normal Chinese reaction.
At this time, a big V saw this picture and made a comment: "Hehe, the Chinese's hatred for Japan is engraved in the bones, this is a picture with Chinese characteristics." ”
This comment immediately sparked a heated discussion among netizens on social platforms, some people think that this comment is right, Chinese's hatred of Japan is engraved in their bones, and some people think that Chinese's hatred is not good, and it should be discouraged by Zhongke.
So should we dissuade the child from expressing hatred?
1. The child's expression of hatred for Japan sparks controversy.
After the big V sent this comment, it immediately sparked a heated debate on social platforms, and the picture was also shared and forwarded by many people, and more and more people joined the discussion, and this picture and the big V's comments became more and more popular on social networks.
After Big V sent this comment, someone immediately replied under his comment, this netizen believed: "There are actually a lot of bad things behind this picture, which is obviously creating anti-Japanese education, should not support this kind of behavior, Chinese should not be immersed in hatred all the time." ”
This comment of Big V immediately sparked a heated discussion among netizens on social networks, some people supported this comment of Big V, thinking that Chinese have always treated Japan like this, of course, some people opposed Big V's comment, thinking that Chinese are too hateful and categorical came out to dissuade them.
A netizen said under this comment: "There is nothing wrong with being patriotic, but this kind of patriotic behavior is very bad, aren't you creating anti-Japanese education!"
Even if the Japanese come to China, they won't do this to our children, and you're not leading the war like this. ”
This netizen thinks that Big V's comment is very bad, he said: "We should convey the concept of love to the world, instead of being immersed in hatred all the time, this kind of unlove is passed on to our next generation, what a terrible thing." ”
Then the netizen's reply was quickly praised by other netizens, who said: "This netizen is so right, we can't always be immersed in hatred, this kind of love should not be passed on to our children." ”
But there are also some netizens who think: "What do you people think, how can you not remember the pain caused by the Japanese at all, if there is no pain, we Chinese will not hate Japan so much, our Chinese attitude towards the Japanese is very normal, what does it matter if you hate a country that has not experienced it." ”
Some people then joined the discussion, saying: "These people are so right, we Chinese attitude towards the Japanese is very normal, we must not forget the pain that Japan has caused us, and this emotion cannot be passed on to our children." ”
Second, the customer came out to dissuade.
In fact, there are not many situations like this kind of Chinese children who are unfriendly to Japan on social networks, but there are also many controversies caused by this situation, and many people are also like the comments of big V, believing that Chinese hatred of Japan is engraved in their bones.
But there are also those who believe that for children, this kind of hatred for a country they have not experienced is not beneficial to them, and this hatred will bring a psychological shadow to children.
Lizhong customers on social networks also began to come out to dissuade, they said: "You can't always treat Japan like this, you can't always carry this kind of hatred, you can't always immerse yourself in hatred, this is not good for us Chinese and our next generation." ”
Some people praised him, and some people replied to him, they thought: "What are you talking about, how can you not hate the Japanese, the Japanese are not the pain we Chinese, hating the Japanese is the instinct of the Chinese, this is a matter of course." ”
Another netizen replied: "How can you not hate the Japanese, aren't the Japanese the pain brought to us Chinese, the Chinese are peace-loving, but we must not forget the pain that the Japanese bring to us Chinese, and the children are doing the right thing." ”
This comment immediately triggered many likes from netizens, and they replied one after another under this comment: "You are so right, we must not forget the suffering caused by the Japanese to us Chinese, even if it is another hundred years, we will not forget the crimes of Japan's war!"
Third, the Chinese's hatred for Japan is engraved in their bones.
In fact, Big V's sentence that the Chinese's hatred of Japan is engraved in the bones, this sentence is true, because the root of the Chinese's hatred of Japan lies in the trauma of that period of history.
The war began in 1937, in which the Japanese invaders launched an indiscriminate bombing in China, which brought huge casualties to China, and more than 300,000 Chinese were killed in this bombing according to incomplete statistics.
This war brought great suffering to the Chinese people, and the Japanese invaders also massacred the Chinese in this war, and the occurrence of these massacres further intensified the Chinese hatred of Japan, and this war brought great pain to the Chinese people, and at the same time caused huge psychological trauma to the Chinese people.
After the end of this war, the Japanese aggressors did not apologize or compensate for their crimes, on the contrary, they also glorified Japan's war of aggression, which further intensified the Chinese's hatred of Japan.
Because Japan's war of aggression against China has brought too much suffering to the Chinese people, it is very normal and natural for the Chinese to have hatred for Japan.
In this war, the Japanese aggressors committed heinous crimes against the Chinese people, but Japan did not apologize or compensate them for their crimes, but also beautified the Japanese war of aggression, and this kind of behavior is undoubtedly an insult to the Chinese people.
The Chinese people are peace-loving and dignified, and Japan's behavior has caused great insults to the Chinese people, so the Chinese's hatred of Japan is very normal and at the same time a matter of course, because China's pain caused by Japan's war of aggression against China will never be forgotten, and the Chinese's hatred of Japan is also engraved in their bones.
4. How to deal with children's behavior.
In fact, it is not the first time that the picture of a child shouting to kill little Japan has appeared on social networks, but every time it appears, it will cause a lot of controversy, and some people support the child's behavior, believing that this is a normal Chinese reaction;
There are also people who do not support the children's behavior, believing that this is creating anti-Japanese education.
We can't generalize about this kind of behavior of children, because children are innocent, and what they do is influenced by family and society, and these influences are beyond the control of children, so we can't take some extreme behaviors against children.
This question and how we should deal with children's behavior requires some in-depth thinking.
First of all, it is very important for children to understand the suffering caused by Japan's war of aggression to the Chinese, let them remember the crimes of Japan's war of aggression, and not let them forget the suffering caused by the Japanese to the Chinese.
But we can't educate our children about hatred of Japan, and we can't immerse ourselves in hatred all the time, because this kind of hatred is not good for the children's growth, but will bring them psychological shadows.
After all, there are historical facts about the suffering brought by the Japanese to the Chinese, but we cannot harbor hatred towards the Japanese because of the suffering caused by the Japanese to the Chinese.
Because this kind of hatred has the potential to lead to a kind of prejudice and discrimination against foreigners, which is very serious abroad, and China does not want this to happen to us.
We should give some guidance to the children's behavior, we should let the children look at history in an objective way, and at the same time let them understand that hatred is not good for their development.
Because children's behavior is a reaction to the family and society, if in the children's family, it is a reasonable attitude, then the children will only have a reasonable attitude.
epilogue
In the Internet age, information is disseminated very quickly, so we must regulate the emotions and speeches of the public, and not let some irresponsible remarks cause excessive hatred and conflict.
The mass media and some public figures should also be cautious when making some remarks, so as to avoid causing unnecessary controversies and contradictions, and to create a harmonious social atmosphere.