There are many men who envy the life of having three wives and four concubines. But does this life have to be good? We don't know, because the law doesn't allow it now, and we can't afford it.
We are all familiar with a gambling king He Hongshen, and while we are touched by his patriotic feelings, we also envy his four-room wife and hundreds of billions of family property. But when we see another Taiwanese star, Kou Shih-hoon, who has two wives, we don't envy that kind of life anymore.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="40" > who Kou Shixun is</h1>
Kou Shixun is He Xuren, he is an old drama bone born in Taiwan, maybe we are not so familiar with this name, but we must have seen the TV series he starred in has an impression, he is called the old professional household,
We must have an impression of his role, his road to fame is not smooth, his road to fame is tortuous.
He was not born in the family of music and art, but he very much likes acting for his own theater career, so when he was studying at the World Journalism College, as soon as he had time, he went to participate in various acting-related activities, and set up a drama club in the school and often spent some time and often went to the place of residence to run a dragon set, so he began, his acting road, and accumulated a wealth of experience, but his appearance is not outstanding, so after graduation, He didn't get too many exercise opportunities, but none of this seemed to him to be a problem.
He continued to accumulate experience and kung fu paid off, and he finally became a hit through a TV series, but he did not feel proud of it, did not feel complacent, and began to be pretentious. He calmed down and concentrated on his acting skills, and finally succeeded. Kou Shixun, who was already nearly old, should be able to enjoy retirement, but he did not stop and continued to be active on the screen. In his words, he was reluctant to give up his acting career. But there may be other reasons, after all, he has two wives to raise.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="45" > fall in love with the same man</h1>
The roles he plays are all people with some rich family backgrounds. Often played the role of landlord, mentioning the landlord we are the same as the deep mansion compound, ten thousand family wealth, with three wives and four concubines, countless servants. One of the most classic impressions is to marry a room and a room lady, but we did not expect that this is the role he often portrays. What we didn't expect was that Kou Shixun moved the role of the old man in the play back to his home. He had two wives in his home.
He had two wives, and the introduction to his entry was often inseparable from two people, and those two people were his two wives. When he attended the event, he would bring his two wives with him, and his two wives gave us a good impression, and in public the life of their family was very harmonious, and there was no quarrel between the two wives, at least in our opinion. The love between them makes us feel incredible, and in our conception in today's life, no one can accept sharing a lover with others.
But his two wives have a tacit understanding to maintain the harmony of the family. His original wife was his young plum bamboo horse, they grew up together, and the feelings between them are indelible. When they were young, they were often ridiculed by relatives and friends, and sure enough, they came together and became husband and wife when they grew up. That's why he was able to accept that his husband had another woman. And his other lady, who also knew the feelings between the couple, agreed. Now they live upstairs and downstairs, maintaining this abnormal love triangle.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="49" > doomed to imperfect love</h1>
The love between the three of them is destined to be imperfect, and love is selfish, and no one is so generous that he can accept a share of love equally with others. In their lives, there are all kinds of difficulties in the mouth of Kou Shixun's eldest son, and we can also know that his mother, Kou Shixun's original partner, is not so happy. She has gone from enjoying 100% of her husband's love to now sharing her husband's love with others, even if she holds the financial power of the family, but what she has lost is his love.
In his son's statement. We can conclude that his original wife's life was not so satisfactory. In the description of his son, we can know that his happiness is not so happy and unsatisfactory. After all, cheating is cheating, it will not be said to be happy, after all, in the end, Kou Shixun's approach is immoral, and cheating is cheating. No amount of rhetoric can hide the fact that he cheated. Such a life will not be happy and will bring harm to many people. Just like Kou Shixun's son Kou Jiarui said: "Auntie did not live in my house, did not coexist peacefully, only came during the New Year, so I was not happy when I was young, my mother would come up during the New Year's Festival, I was afraid of the New Year, the atmosphere at home must be very tight, and there would be quarrels."
The love between them is inherently unfortunate, and even no amount of language is used to embellish the fact that there is no way to hide it. In today's life, the three wives and four concubines are not as beautiful as imagined, and this truth is told to us in the story of Kou Shixun. His story also shows that in the present, only one wife and one husband is the law of society, and it is good for all people, and the happiness of the family is guaranteed. Their love was irrational from the beginning and doomed to tragedy.
Kou Jiarui bluntly said that the incident of his father, Kou Shixun, had caused him great harm. In this way, the matter of "one wife and one concubine" is not as difficult and happy as rumored, and the harm to his family is huge, and this damage is in personality, and in various other aspects.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="54" > conclusion</h1>
We may envy the life of three wives and four concubines in ancient times, envy the life of the gambling king, but after all, it is a minority in history, not belonging to the public, in fact, we do not have to envy us in his story, we have come to this kind of life, not so beautiful, even bad.
The word marriage is beautiful in our conception represents a responsibility, a sweetness, and a happiness, but his thing makes this thing, which should be a happiness, so complicated. Is this really as good as you might think? And marriage represents a commitment, a responsibility that should not be so tired.
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