The so-called husband and wife are two people, one man and one woman. Marriage has always been run by two people, can not tolerate the intervention of a third party, when there is a third person in the marriage, how will the husband and wife get along?
In ancient times, there was King Xuan of Qi who "had nothing to do with Zhong Wuyan, nothing to do with summer and spring", and now there is Kou Shixun who "has something to do with Cui Yaoqi, nothing to do xu Lidan". The old drama bone Kou Shixun this marriage of three people, who is the biggest winner?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="4" > green plum bamboo horse, two small no guesses</h1>
Lang rode a bamboo horse and went around the bed to get green plums. Kou Shixun and his eldest wife Cui Yaoqi, the two have known each other since childhood, and are really green plum bamboo horses. Because of the two children, the relationship between the two families is also close. When he saw Kou Shixun and Cui Yaoqi playing together, the adults would always ridicule him, set a doll kiss, and marry the little girl home when he grew up?
At that time, Kou Shixun was full of joy and hurried to accept it, but the words of the young man would be counted after that. Busy life always makes time fly by. As they grew up, the two went to school in different places, and their studies were heavy, so they naturally broke off contact, and the jokes of childhood dissipated with time.
Fate cuts constantly, allowing them to meet again in the sea of people. Kou Shixun, who went to college, came to the city where Cui Yaoqi was located, in the new environment, he was not familiar with life and urgently needed to find a foothold, once a neighbor, Cui Yaoqi's home became the best choice for Kou Shixun, through the friendship of the two families, Kou Shixun was able to live in Cui Yaoqi's home.
Near the water tower platform first get the moon, the sunflower flowers and trees are easy to meet in spring. Living under the same roof, the feelings of two people come naturally. For Cui Yaoqi, at the age of the wind and cranes, she met a teenager who was bright as sunshine, and when she was not careful, she fell in love. And Kou Shixun, in the process of getting along with each other, has long longed for Cui Yaoqi.
The love of the young people is the most beautiful, and the two people who have secret feelings have come together smoothly and have also been recognized by Cui Yaoqi's parents. Kou Shixun finally fulfilled the promise he made when he was young, and the two entered into marriage. From the same table in the student era to the couple who share the same bed, the love of the green plum bamboo horse is naturally deeper.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="30" > confidante and love</h1>
After marriage, Cui Yaoqi supported her husband Kou Shixun's career and was willing to return to the family, become a housewife with her husband and godson, and become the woman behind Kou Shixun. Although the family's livelihood is only supported by Kou Shixun's meager income and is not rich, with the company of her husband and children, Cui Yaoqi feels that she is the happiest woman in the world.
In addition to the pursuit of fame, status, and money, men also have the pursuit of beauty, as the world says, there is no bad man in the world. Kou Shixun, who has been married for many years, met a woman named Xu Lidan at a party, and it was the appearance of this woman who broke Kou Shixun's calm married life.
Xu Lidan, a feminine and colorful bodybuilding lady, has become the dream lover of many people with her superior looks. Such a popular beauty, but only for the elderly Kou Shixun has a special love. When I met Xu Lidan, Kou Shixun's career was in a period of rise, and he was already a well-known popular student in the circle.
Such a Kou Shixun is extremely attractive to Xu Lidan, she admires Kou Shixun's talent and fame, and does not hide her love after meeting Kou Shixun. No man can refuse to take the initiative to send the beauty, without exception, and Kou Shixun is the same. But when he thought of his wife and young children, who had been married for many years, his heart was full of guilt.
Xu Lidan is a very intelligent woman, she can see that Kou Shixun's sense of responsibility for the family is very heavy, but it is not this quality of Kou Shixun that can attract her own attention. After understanding Kou Shixun's concerns, Xu Lidan said to Kou Shixun sympathetically: "I know that your heart is very struggling, you take care of your family, but if I choose to like you, I can understand everything about you, I just want to be with you, regardless of fame." ”
Hearing Xu Lidan show love so bluntly, where Kou Shixun could still sit still, everyone was willing to follow him regardless of fame, but he was still hesitating, really sorry for the sincerity of others.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="31" > sits on two wives and wins in life</h1>
Xu Lidan's heart-wrenching words made Kou Shixun secretly make up his mind, but he also did not want to marry his wife Cui Yaoqi, who had been paying silently for many years, and after struggling, he decided to confess to his wife. On an ordinary morning, after the couple had finished breakfast as usual, Cui Yaoqi saw that her husband was full of worries.
Out of concern for her husband, Cui Yaoqi asked with concern, "What's wrong with you?" A worried look. At this time, she did not know what kind of sunny thunderbolt she was about to face. Kou Shixun saw that his wife cared so much about himself, it was a little difficult to open his mouth for a while, and after several struggles, Kou Shixun decided to be a negative person, and after that, he listened to his wife.
"I'm in love with someone else, a little girl I met at a party, a very nice person, and I feel very happy to be with her." I know I'm sorry for you for saying this, but I can't control my heart. When she heard her husband's first words, Cui Yaoqi could not bear it, and her former lover expressed her love for other women so frankly to herself at this moment.
For a moment, Cui Yaoqi didn't know how to react.
Kou Shixun saw his wife stunned in the same place, and his inner guilt was even worse, but the words he said were like spilled water, irreparable. And Cui Yaoqi, she knows in her heart that her husband is so frank, this relationship is doomed to be irretrievable, but he hesitates, is still concerned about this family and children.
After a long time, Cui Yaoqi first opened her mouth to break the silent situation. "I'm not going to get a divorce, it's the family I've worked so hard to run, my kids, my hard work is all here. I know that emotional things can't be forced, I don't mind you coming together with others, but only one thing, in the future, the family's finances must be managed by me! ”
Getting his wife's response, Kou Shixun is very understanding, Cui Yaoqi's efforts over the years he has seen in his eyes, even if his wife makes more excessive demands, he will agree to them one by one, which is his own debt to her. After that, the husband and wife reached a consensus, and Xu Lidan, also smoothly with Kou Shixun, moved to Cui Yaoqi's downstairs, and the three lived together.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="32" > Cui Yaoqi seems to concede defeat, but in fact lies down to win</h1>
The love of Qingmei Bamboo Horse failed to go to the end, and the marriage of the two eventually became the story of three people. Today, Kou Shixun has two wives, and both families have children. Some people will say that in this three-person marriage, the legitimate wife Cui Yaoqi has been wronged and become a loser of the marriage, but is this really the case?
Xu Lidan seems to be a winner, but she is only the one who got Kou Shixun, not the complete Kou Shixun, she has always been just a third party, what she wants to do, what money to spend, must be approved by Cui Yaoqi, facing Cui Yaoqi, Xu Lidan also has to respectfully call her a big sister, grievances to the extreme.
Cui Yaoqi, the legitimate wife, after not getting the love of her husband, simply abandoned this concern, grasped the real power, and held the financial power. She saved her family, protected her children, and won her lifelong security, and in this marriage war, Cui Yaoqi is the real winner!
When it comes to feelings, everyone is selfish, and no one wants to share their husbands with others. But after the failure of the marriage, there are very few who can make themselves invincible and grasp the initiative. Compared with the erratic love, Cui Yaoqi's own sense of security is more reliable!
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