As the saying goes: "Once in a lifetime and a couple", in order to describe the loyalty of both men and women to each other in love, it is widely spread. In the new era, the discussion of the new model of love has always been quite controversial. The old drama bone Kou Shixun sits on his two wives, which has caused great controversy.
For Kou Shixun, with the company of his wife Cui Yaoqi, who has hair, but he has a heart for another woman, which is a betrayal of beautiful love. However, Kou Shixun's calmness allowed him to gain the companionship and love of the two women for a lifetime, and in the end, it was envied.
Looking at Kou Shixun's entire life experience, it is not without excitement, he fulfilled his promise to his wife who married his hair when he was a child, "marry you when he grows up", and also gained another love of his own in middle age. And behind Kou Shixun's sitting on his two wives, is it really just the eldest wife Cui Yaoqi who has no choice but to compromise?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="7" > love cracks, helpless to compromise</h1>
Throughout Kou Shixun's entire life experience, he is like the male protagonist who came out of the novel, and he met and fell in love with his wife Cui Yaoqi, which is very full of fairy tale love story meaning. The regrets in the song "You at the Same Table" are all perfectly made up in reality, which makes people envious.
Perhaps Kou Shixun did not expect that when he was a child, he said to Cui Yaoqi, "We will always be together", which would come true after meeting again after several years of separation. In the blessing of the public, the two entered the temple of marriage. At that time, Cui Yaoqi did not imagine what kind of changes would happen in her next life, immersed in the beauty of "one life and one couple", unable to extricate herself.
In order to support Kou Shixun's career, Cui Yaoqi returned to the family and began to be a housewife wholeheartedly. Even though life was hard at that time, Cui Yaoqi was exceptionally happy. But as Kou Shixun's career began to go uphill, the perfect love in her heart began to crack.
For any one person, sharing their partner's love with another stranger is an incredible thing and an absolute impossibility. However, in the things that everyone thought were incredible, Kou Shixun did it hard. Under the regulation of Kou Shixun, his two wives were able to "live in harmony".
Cui Yaoqi was angry when she knew that her marriage had been intruded, but after weighing the pros and cons, she chose to compromise and forget. She loves Kou Shixun deeply, and she also knows that Kou Shixun is still inseparable from herself, and for the sake of her children's future and the stability of her family, Cui Yaoqi has to choose to compromise.
But over time, Cui Yaoqi discovered the instability of this relationship. For the sake of the future of the family and children, Cui Yaoqi and Kou Shixun agreed on the three chapters of the law, and after formally shaping this relationship, the prototype of "sharing love", which had been puzzled by outsiders, began to appear until it was stable.
In the eyes of outsiders, this is incredible, and for Kou Shixun and Cui Yaoqi, this is the best choice after weighing the pros and cons. For Kou Shixun, his confession is the guilt of his wife. For Cui Yaoqi, this is undoubtedly responsible for the future of the children and the family.
Cui Yaoqi's choice reflects her cleverness. Instead of refusing to live in the shadow of her husband's possible departure at any time, it is better to make this matter clear. Cui Yaoqi, who holds the economic power in the family, understands the deeper truth in marriage: only the sense of security created by herself is the most reliable, and since love is shared, the finance must be in her own hands.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="17" > Cui Yaoqi's cleverness</h1>
In a relationship, what can make people feel at ease often comes from the sense of security given by the partner. And security, however, is a mysterious and wonderful feeling, which can make a relationship better or worse, and is an important judgment in love.
When we feel secure, it is when the relationship is most comfortable. However, in the incident of "sharing love" exposed by Kou Shixun, Cui Yaoqi set a precedent for more women.
The existence of a sense of security is not only something that the partner can give. When Cui Yaoqi held the economic power in the family, and even Kou Shixun was sick and had no money, and the woman came to Cui Yaoqi to get money, a sense of security in a relationship was given by herself. I have to say that Cui Yaoqi is far smarter than we think!
In this long run of "sharing love" of love life, Cui Yaoqi is rational and Kou Shixun is real. Kou Shixun wisely confessed his inner thoughts to his wife and had the courage to communicate with his wife, at this point, Luo Zhixiang and Zheng Shuang, who had overturned the car in the past two years, were thousands of miles away. Compared with Kou Shixun, they only have a serious communication.
Compared with others who cry and make a fuss after knowing that their partner is mentally infidel, forcing the two to leave the relationship, Cui Yaoqi's cleverness lies in her ability to examine the degree of seizure and calmly analyze. And this has already made her win most people.
In fact, in the life of accepting her husband's almost outrageous "sharing love", Cui Yaoqi has gained more security from the family. She holds the economic power of the family, and Kou Shixun obeys her words, even if there is another woman who is loved by Kou Shixun, she is unique.
Cui Yaoqi's love is great, for the sake of the family and children, she shares the love of Kou Shixun with others, in the new era of materialistic desires, this may become an effective means of resolving family conflicts later. Compared with Wu Yifan, Luo Zhixiang, Zheng Shuang and other almost distorted views of love, the love of Kou Shixun and his wife has slowly gained the understanding of most people.
In the current mode of infinitely accelerating the pace of life, the fixed mode of feelings will also usher in a new round of change. Maintaining an open attitude, to protect their love and rights, to create their own sense of security, to improve their quality of life, is the experience given by Kou Shixun, and it is also worth our thinking.
The recent entertainment industry, from the Zheng Shuang incident to the detention of Wu Yifan, to the current Huo Zun being publicly accused by his girlfriend, all tell us that love has become a luxury in the entertainment industry.
However, in Cui Yaoqi's body, what we see is a woman's persistence and dedication to the responsibility of the family and children. Since the two were married, they have been working together for 39 years. Today, they are male and female, Kou Shixun is filming outside to support his family, and Cui Yaoqi runs his family happily. His son Kou Jiarui inherited his father's business and entered the show business circle, because the filming of "Little Nyonya" has become a little famous.
Cui Yaoqi's family happiness did not collapse because of "love being shared", but in this relationship, Cui Yaoqi gained a full sense of security. For the sake of the future of the family and children, Cui Yaoqi's way of changing her thinking has to be praised. Her seemingly helpless compromise is actually a clever trade-off between the pros and cons, and we can't learn it.
In fact, there is no perfect emotional model in the world. When we explore new emotional patterns, we must pay attention to the emotional situation of others and not live up to our sense of responsibility. And the sense of security in love, sometimes, is also obtained by yourself. As an operator in love, Cui Yaoqi's choice makes people have to marvel: the greatness of love is nothing more than this.
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