Marriage, which connects two people in different families. In order to achieve marital happiness, each other must work hard to assume family responsibilities. At the same time, the most important thing is to expect as little as possible from the other party, and if he finally reneges on his vows, at least it will not be so uncomfortable.
Because, in a marriage, all romance is leisure and entertainment after both parties share family responsibilities. Most of the unhappiness of marriage stems from excessive expectations, if you are already disappointed in a person, will you carefully investigate what is wrong with him?
Cui Yaoqi, after Kou Shixun married his little wife, turned sadness into a driving force for moving forward, grasped the financial power of the family, and lived out the value.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="3" > is not afraid of worldly rumors</h1>
For the news gossip in the entertainment industry, the most interesting thing should be the emotional life of the star. Especially as a traffic artist, once there is a love affair scandal, it will inevitably receive the attention of countless melon-eating masses.
The current entertainment industry, infidelity, divorce and other events, without exception, will rush to the hot search, and even most of the time will be attacked by a small number of people. However, these all happen under monogamous conditions, but there is such a star who marries two wives, he is the old drama bone Kou Shixun.
Speaking of polygamy was a bad habit of the old society. In ancient times, the most prosperous people in the family or those who had the conditions would marry several aunts and wives. However, with the progress of social civilization, this polygamy behavior has long been abolished. Taiwanese artist Kou Shixun is an exception.
Kou Shixun has two wives, and both wives live in the same neighborhood, upstairs and downstairs. According to rumors, the two wives get along very well, but can sharing the same husband really be as peaceful as the outside world knows?
Kou Shixun and his first wife, Cui Yaoqi, came together from Qingmei Bamboo Horse. The marriage of the two has become the object of envy of many people. From classmates to lovers and eventually into marriage, the feelings between the two should be very deep.
Marriage is a very sacred thing, adhering to monogamy, coupled with the selfless efforts of both parties is the greatest respect for marriage. Most people with new loves are fascinated by their new partners and fall for them.
Kou Shixun's little wife is "Miss Bodybuilding" Xu Lidan. The two met at a banquet, when Kou Shixun was already famous, Xu Lidan admired his style very much, out of admiration for his predecessors, Xu Lidan began to chat with this senior frequently. One after the other, the two sides have feelings for each other. Kou Shixun is ready for a showdown with his wife, and Xu Lidan also said that as long as the two are together, they can not care about the world's rumors.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="5" > Cui Yaoqi's wisdom</h1>
For the original monogamous family, the emergence of "new members" may cause extremely dangerous harm to the family, especially for the contradiction between new love and old love, which is difficult to control. A husband's preference for a new lover may trigger greater family conflicts.
When Cui Yaoqi learned of the situation, she was very sad and difficult to accept for a while, but out of consideration for her husband, Cui Yaoqi finally agreed to her husband's request, after all, Kou Shixun is an actor and reputation is very important. Therefore, Xu Lidan lived in the same neighborhood as Kou Shixun's wife.
From this incident, it is not difficult to see that Kou Shixun is a person with high emotional intelligence, and he has exchanged clever words and handed over financial power in exchange for the understanding of the big house.
From then on, Cui Yaoqi was in charge of the financial power in the housekeeper, xu Lidan did not worry about eating and wearing, but in the financial affairs needed to ask Cui Yaoqi, and Kou Shixun enjoyed a happy life of polygamy. Although the scenery is infinite on the surface, the acid in it is also unknown.
Cui Yaoqi could have had a happy family, and now she can only share a husband with others, but having the family's financial power and decision-making power has won her back a city in face. Although Xu Lidan married into the rich as he wished, as a little wife, he did not have real family power, and he had to look at the face of the big house everywhere. Sandwiched between the two wives, Kou Shixun may not be as happy as the outside world rumors, and more often it should be to regulate the contradictions between the two wives.
Entertainment industry things are originally half-truths and half-lies, many times, happy life is only the appearance, most of them are specially marketed. Kou Shixun's two wives should be inseparable from open and secret struggles in life. Moreover, the two wives have given birth to a son and a daughter for Kou Shixun, for their own small family, Cui Yaoqi and Xu Lidan should also do some things to make themselves more profitable. Family situations like this should be difficult to do harmonious coexistence.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="7" > happy life of polygamy? </h1>
Kou Shixun once said in an interview: If life comes again, he will never marry two wives. Kou Shixun is now 66 years old, and he is working hard for the lives of his two wives, although the burden of the two families is overwhelming, but he still has to work hard. The 66-year-old Kou Shixun is still active in the entertainment industry.
Kou Shixun's family life has always been careful, he must always pay attention to every detail of family life, to achieve equal treatment of the two wives, otherwise it is easy to have family conflicts. Today, Kou Shixun is 66 years old and relatively old, so his physical condition is not very good. Because of the stroke, hospitalization when severe is very worrying to everyone around them.
However, when Kou Shixun was hospitalized, the two wives would take turns to accompany her to the hospital. Although Cui Yaoqi and Xu Lidan often argue about small things in their daily lives, they have always done their best to take care of Kou Shixun. Every time Kou Shixun was hospitalized, Cui Yaoqi, who held the financial power, ran at various counters and paid the fees, while Xu Lidan was at ease to take care of Kou Shixun.
Today's Kou Shixun can also be regarded as a double harvest of family business, although the achievements in the film and television circle are not particularly high, but there is no shortage of resources, do not worry about food and clothing, family relations are also handled well, when it is a winner in life.
Cui Yaoqi and Xu Lidan gave birth to a son and a daughter to Kou Shixun respectively, and the children between the two small families can also get along harmoniously, and now, Kou Shixun's family life is also happy and happy. Although Kou Shixun's polygamous marriage has been criticized, it is undeniable that he is a good father and has indeed paid a lot of effort to the family.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="9" > conclusion</h1>
Marriage, it is really difficult. If you want to stay with the people you are with for a long time, you really need to have a strong and tolerant heart. Cui Yaoqi lived very transparently, she could accept Xu Lidan's entry into the door, but also made the most favorable choice under the balance of pros and cons, and it turned out that her decision was right.
Today, she has both children and daughters, controls the financial power of a family, and is the true head of the family.
And Kou Shixun, who strives to maintain family relations, fulfills the obligations of husband and father, and we really don't need to keep complaining about his character in the past. I hope their future is happy and fulfilling!
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