Marriage has always been a matter for two people, and it needs to be run jointly by both husband and wife.
But when the third person breaks in, how should the parties in the marriage deal with themselves?
The marriage of the two became a threesome, and Cui Yaoqi, as Kou Shixun's wife, stayed in this home for 38 years.
Who is the poor person in this seemingly ridiculous relationship?
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > be together for a lifetime</h1>
As Kou Shixun's first wife, in fact, Cui Yaoqi and he had known each other for a long time.
They have known each other since childhood and have been at each other's table for a long time in elementary school. At that time, they were always inseparable.
Seeing that the relationship between the two children is so good, the parents also teased and asked Kou Shixun, "Do you want to marry a little girl when you grow up?"? Every time he heard this, Kou Shixun nodded and promised, "We will always be together."
But most of the children's feelings come and go quickly. The two of them grew up slowly, went to different cities to study, and under the pressure of busy academics, they naturally broke off contact.
The friendship that once existed has also dissipated with time.
Fortunately, after growing up, the two were reunited by chance.
At that time, just when the university was registering, Kou Shixun, who had come to school, was in urgent need of finding a place to stay. And Cui Yaoqi's home has become the best choice for Kou Shixun. Therefore, Kou Shixun took the initiative to visit their family and explained his intention to borrow it. As former old classmates, their family naturally will not refuse.
Under the same roof, the two get along day by day, and the friendship of the past is slowly found. There was gradually an ambiguous feeling between them, and Cui Dad and Cui Mom all looked at it and were happy to see it.
Later, Kou Shixun fulfilled his childhood promise and made a marriage vow with Cui Yaoqi to "be together for the rest of your life".
They walked into the halls of marriage and became the ones who were closest to each other.
After marriage, cui Yaoqi returned to the family and took care of the elderly children in order to make her husband feel at ease. Relying on the meager salary of Kou Shixun, the family lived a simple and simple life, but Cui Yaoqi felt that she was probably the happiest person.
Although the husband's income is not high, he is self-motivated, and he is very good to himself and his children, such a man is really unattainable. Obviously, she was not the only one who thought Kou Shixun was good.
< h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > share love? </h1>
As usual, Cui Yaoqi got up early to clean up the hygiene of the house and make breakfast for her husband. But this day became an important turning point in Cui Yaoqi's life.
Cui Yaoqi happily ate breakfast and enjoyed a rare leisure time with her husband. She was in a good mood and had a good appetite, but her husband did not eat breakfast and was very worried.
"I recently met a girl who liked me and I liked her too. But having been married to you for so many years, I have long been accustomed to having you, and we still have children, and I can't be separated from you. Can you understand my feelings? ”
The rice in Cui Yaoqi's hand could no longer be eaten, and Kou Shixun slowly revealed the secret in his heart.
Cui Yaoqi never thought that her husband would like others, and it was naturally difficult to accept this fact. She watched her husband silent, watched him go out to work as usual, and her mood fell to the bottom.
After so many years of mutual encounters, she struggled to give birth to a pair of children for him, gave up her career to become a housewife, and circled around the pots and pans every day, wasn't she just for this family?
Cui Yaoqi thought about breaking the jar and breaking it, and the two could not be separated. But as before, she still loved her husband deeply. Divorced, what about the two children? Will that woman be nice to her children?
That day, she reassured herself that her husband still respected her. I don't want her to waste her time on herself, there is someone she likes outside, and she told herself at the first time, and he did not mention that he wanted to divorce himself. It seems that for this home, the husband is also nostalgic.
So after that, she chose to forget and compromise.
If you live as before, you should not know these things. Treating that woman as a play in his acting career may not be so hard to accept.
But one day, when her husband informed him that he had taken his beloved woman downstairs, Cui Yaoqi really recognized the reality. It wasn't acting, he really had other women, and it was right under his own nose.
Cui Yaoqi wanted to go downstairs and scold the woman, but she had a bunch of manuscripts in her heart, but she hesitated when she left the house.
Didn't you accept the existence of the other party long ago? What a difference between where to stay. Why make such an ugly scene, and finally disappear around Kou Shixun, I am afraid it is myself.
At this point, Cui Yaoqi completely accepted the existence of that woman. But good thing, how can it be tight to that woman?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > the confidence of a legitimate wife</h1>
Cui Yaoqi and her husband said that they agreed that she would live downstairs, but with conditions:
"First of all, it is absolutely impossible to marry her into the door. I have been with you for so many years, we have already had a marriage contract, do you want others to see jokes? Secondly, I will manage all the money in the family in the future. You're going to use the money, I'll give it to you. ”
To be able to live up to anyone, Kou Shixun is naturally willing, and such a result is the best of both worlds for him.
Although Cui Yaoqi had been mentally prepared to get along with each other. But when she really shares her husband with another woman, she will still have grievances and unwillingness in her heart.
When they were together, they occasionally quarreled like a normal couple, but the man who used to coax her was now silent and went straight outstairs. That place seems to have become Kou Shixun's "refuge", so what is his home?
Kou Shixun's attitude changed, but the woman always made strange moves.
Obviously, it was Kou Shixun's turn to stay in her house, but she couldn't find anything from time to time, and from time to time something happened, and kept calling Kou Shixun to come down. The man softened his heart every time and hit her trick.
Unable to be satisfied in terms of love, Cui Yaoqi used materials to find it back. She spent the money Kou Shixun earned lavishly, without the slightest pain.
Buy the best for a pair of children, use it yourself, eat well, anyway, these money will not be spent, and others will spend it for you in the future. Keep an eye on the money bag, and the woman can take advantage of it again.
As he grew older, Kou Shixun was hospitalized for a minor stroke. Although the situation is not serious, it needs to be treated in the hospital for a period of time. This time, Cui Yaoqi finally saw the importance of herself.
Every time the doctor asks what project to do to make money, doesn't the woman come to find herself? In the end, she is Kou Shixun's legitimate wife, and she is required to come to all major family matters.
Today, her marriage to Kou Shixun has gone through 38 years. The eldest son, Kou Jiaruizi, inherited his father's business and became an actor like Kou Shixun. Cui Yaoqi's life, is not still quite successful?
She gave a pair of children a complete home, so that the children's lives were rich enough to be considered a good mother.
And her husband has come through so many years of ups and downs, selfless love to this point, I believe that Kou Shixun in her heart, she is also a good wife. Doing a good job in every role in life, Cui Yaoqi is very content.
< h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > concluding remarks</h1>
Love is inherently selfish, and who wants to share a loved one with another woman? Cui Yaoqi knows her way, but even for the sake of her children, she must guard her precarious home so that her children can live in a complete family.
Moreover, in this marriage, she has always had the initiative in controlling the economic power. The love shared can also be comfortable, after all, the sense of security created by oneself is not more reliable than relying on others?
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