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The inseparable vows between Mr. Kou Shixun and Ms. Cui Yaoqi have a long history in their carefree childhood. As early as elementary school, the two outstanding talents have established a deep friendship with each other, and they know each other every day, and that pure friendship is like a trickle of water that nourishes their youth.
Time flies, perhaps because of the deep dependence that breeds familiarity, or the deep affection nurtured by long-term relationship, this friendship gradually sublimates into passionate love.
Ms. Choi Yaoqi is a thoughtful woman who wholeheartedly supports Mr. Ko Se-hoon in pursuing her dreams. Although the road of life is bumpy, she has never complained in the slightest, but silently hopes that Mr. Kou Shixun can move forward bravely and their love can be as unwavering as a rock.
Facts have proved that Mr. Kou Shixun's outstanding performance in the TV series "Pure Love" shocked the world with his outstanding acting talent and beautiful appearance, attracting the attention of the world.
When his career entered glory and became the focus of society, Mr. Kou Shixun could no longer suppress the love in his heart and decisively proposed to his beloved Ms. Cui Yaoqi. Ms. Cui Yaoqi was thrilled and felt that she was the luckiest woman in the world.
At the solemn wedding ceremony, Mr. Kou Shixun solemnly promised his wife that he would "never abandon him for the rest of his life", and these sincere words were like sweet honey, which made Ms. Cui Yaoqi burst into tears and threw herself into the firm arms of her husband.
From acquaintance to acquaintance, to working together to spend the stormy years together, Mr. Kou Shixun and Ms. Cui Yaoqi have gone through a romantic but also twists and turns in their lives. They firmly believe that this marriage is a fateful arrangement and is destined to spend the rest of their lives together.
No one thought that the picturesque marriage between Ms. Cui Yaoqi and Mr. Kou Shixun would suffer such a heavy blow. Xu Lidan, a fan who has always admired Mr. Kou Shixun, finally waited for the opportunity to get close to his idol.
She is gentle and kind, full of endless care in her words and demeanor, and her graceful posture is even more breathtaking. She quickly caught Mr. Ko Shixun's attention.
It was supposed to be a simple relationship between idols and fans, but it quietly changed direction unconsciously. Ms. Hui Lidan's obsession with Mr. Kou Shixun deepened, and Mr. Kou Shixun began to have deep emotional fluctuations with this passionate fan.
So the two began to contact frequently, had dinner together, and the emotional connection became closer.
In the end, under a drunken impulse, Kou Shixun mustered up the courage to confess his heart to Xu Lidan, and unabashedly expressed his strong desire to include her in his family.
Although Xu Lidan has deep love for Kou Shixun, she is full of hesitation in her heart, and she can't bear to hurt Cui Yaoqi.
Kou Shixun's determination has been as solid as a rock, and Xu Lidan readily agrees to become Kou Shixun's second wife.
It all happened so quickly that Kou Shixun was caught in a deep state of contradiction and self-condemnation. On the one hand, Cui Yaoqi is his first wife, the two have gone through a long time together, she has always been silently supporting and paying behind her back, without her by her side, I am afraid that I will not be able to achieve today's brilliant achievements.
On the other hand, Kou Shixun couldn't let go of his new love Xu Lidan, so he had to return home and reveal the truth to Cui Yaoqi frankly.
Cui Yaoqi couldn't believe the facts in front of her, tears poured out like rain, and she asked her husband painfully if he planned to divorce in order to create more space for herself and Xu Lidan.
Kou Shixun sincerely said that his wish is that his wife can accept Xu Lidan and let the three of them create a harmonious and happy family atmosphere.
Cui Yaoqi is in a dilemma, on the one hand, she has to compromise and accept reality, and on the other hand, she has to face the pressure of social public opinion and the strange eyes of relatives and friends. After painful thinking, for the sake of her years of dedication, the happiness of her children, and her sincere feelings for her husband when he was young, Cui Yaoqi finally chose to compromise and accept Xu Lidan into their family.
In order to ensure that the two wives can coexist peacefully and avoid possible disputes and conflicts in the future, Kou Shixun specially purchased a three-story small western-style building and made living arrangements according to their respective wishes.
Cui Yaoqi, as Kou Shixun's first wife, lives on the top floor, which undoubtedly demonstrates her supremacy in this family, symbolizing that her core position in this big family is unparalleled.
The newly joined Xu Lidan lives on the second floor, and the ground floor is planned as a common area shared by three people.
In terms of the arrangement of family life, Kou Shixun adopted a relatively fair and reasonable distribution method. For seven days a week, he will be by Cui Yaoqi's side for four days, and the remaining three days will be left to Xu Lidan.
On the occasion of each trip, no matter who is his companion, Kou Shixun will always carry two carefully selected gifts, treat his two wives equally, and always maintain a fair and impartial attitude, and never have any selfish bias.
It is necessary to mention that Cui Yaoqi and Xu Lidan each have a son and a daughter, a total of four children, which is enough to build a warm family atmosphere of "double happiness" in the Kou family. When it comes to the upbringing of children, Ko Shixun firmly adheres to the principle of fairness and is committed to ensuring that every child in the family can be fully cared for and cared for.
In order to avoid possible family disputes and disagreements in the future, Kou Shixun resolutely decided to hand over the family's financial power to Cui Yaoqi, and all expenses must be approved by her, which undoubtedly reflects his extreme respect for his original wife, and is also a warning to himself and Xu Lidan, always reminding them to remember the promises they once made.
Good times are always fleeting, and who would have foreseen that at the moment when Kou Shixun suddenly fainted and was admitted to the hospital due to overwork, this "secret" family, which should have been secretive and low-key, was instantly exposed to the public eye.
As soon as the news of Kou Shixun's hospitalization was revealed, it immediately caused a huge sensation in all walks of life.
For a time, public opinion questioned and criticized this "three-legged" family model.
Just when the outside world's doubts and criticisms about this family were pouring in, Cui Yaoqi and Xu Lidan's performance during her husband's hospitalization made everyone jaw-dropping.
There is an unprecedented tacit understanding and collaboration between them—Cui Yaoqi always sticks to the bedside and takes care of her husband's daily life, while Xu Lidan frequently shuttles between hospitals, working hard for high medical expenses.
There was no suspicion or resentment on their faces, but they were full of care and concern for their husbands. To outsiders, they are more like a pair of close sisters than a so-called "wife-grabbing" relationship.
All this is constantly deepening the shock and confusion of the outside world about this "three-legged" family.
When asked how he felt about having two wives, Kou Shixun expressed his inner emotion in an unexpected way: "It's too hard to travel upstairs and downstairs, and if I could turn back time, I would never choose to marry two wives at the same time."
This passage is undoubtedly like a blow to the head, mercilessly awakening everyone's idealized fantasy of this so-called "perfect family". However, the truth is that under this seemingly beautiful and prosperous appearance, Kou Shixun has actually been silently suffering from tremendous mental pressure and physical pain.
In order to maintain this unique family structure, he had to mediate between his two wives with the same difficulty as he did with the "mother-in-law relationship".
Women's emotional fluctuations are already relatively strong, not to mention two women with different personalities, it is natural that conflicts and disputes will inevitably occur. Without enough patience and wisdom, the whole family can be thrown into chaos and turmoil.
Kou Shixun had obviously deeply experienced this kind of torture, which is why he let out such a deep emotion. He has to walk on thin ice every day to maintain the delicate balance between the two, lest the slightest carelessness will lose the "happiness" that he has gone through hardships to obtain.
In addition, Kou Shixun is also burdened with heavy financial pressure. In order to support the family's expenses and maintain the normal operation of this "three-legged" family, he had to work tirelessly and diligently in his career.
As the years went by, his physical strength gradually depleted, and Kou Shixun's health began to deteriorate, and he even fainted and was hospitalized after an overexertion.
There is no doubt that this veteran actor has devoted everything he has to this family and paid endless hard work. He needs to walk like a tightrope on a tightrope every day, lest the slightest mistake may cause the collapse of this carefully constructed "home" in an instant.
The 68-year-old Kou Shixun is still working hard in desperation, and the sweet love of the past has turned into a cruel reality that it is difficult to return to a home. It can be seen from this that the actor has paid a huge and heavy price to maintain this "three-legged" family.