Love is nothing but madness. —Shakespeare
Being able to fall in love is a romantic and happy thing in itself, and how dare you expect to love only one person in your life. From the ignorance of the first love, to the wrinkles, looking back to find that it is still the hands that are tightly held, I can't help but sigh: the years are quiet. Holding hands with the old, a lifetime of one person is beautiful, we pursue, we wait. If there is no white head to old age, it is also a good choice to accompany each other to witness many happy moments. Love is, I want to accompany you crazy, just because of you.
When it comes to madness, Kou Shixun sits on two wives, and the two wives can still coexist peacefully, which is crazy and emotional. It is incredible that polygamy can be so harmonious in the present. The classic quote that can't tolerate a little sand in love seems to have found a counterexample, which is real.
At first, I couldn't accept it at all, and even hated this deformed love, but after carefully reading the love entanglement of the three of them, I suddenly understood that what was more sad than losing was that I could no longer have it. Just sharing her husband with other people, Cui Yaoqi really doesn't care?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="6" > we were romantic and beautiful</h1>
What I can't forget is the tenderness and affection in your eyes. Kou Shixun Cui Yaoqi has known since childhood, the two people at the most youthful age, playing with each other, doing the same table for many years, it can be said that it is a green plum bamboo horse, and even the parents of both sides will occasionally ridicule: "When you grow up, do you want to marry us Yaoqi", at that time, Kou Shixun innocently said "We have to be together all the time." "We believed that at that time he was also convinced that they would always be together.
Time passed year after year, the two also grew up slowly, and the original fairy tales faded with time, except for the memory itself that was frozen in that moment. As long as it is not mentioned again, it may be that this memory will always be turned over. It was really just providence, and the two were reunited again, already in college. Kou Shixun temporarily lived in Cui Yaoqi's house for some reasons, and the feelings of the two people who were already in love with each other quickly warmed up, and soon, they entered the palace of marriage.
If Kou Shixun's promise when he was a child was too naïve, then every word in the wedding hall should be sincere and firm, and he must have loved her very much at the moment he promised the beautiful bride in front of him. In the days after the marriage, Cui Yaoqi took care of all the affairs of the family, just to reassure Kou Shixun. Their lives were simple but happy, and Kou Shixun's kindness to her made her think that they would always be happy. After all, at that time, the light in his eyes was real.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="11" > is sadder than losing it is to never have it again</h1>
Now there is a network word "seven years of itch", to the effect that two people will appear at some point in time after becoming too familiar with each other, and seven years is just a quantifier. Just when Cui Yaoqi was still immersed in the happy life of the two, Kou Shixun's words knocked her into the abyss, and she kept asking herself: "Is he really in love with other women?" She struggled between divorce and forgiveness, and in the end, she accepted the existence of this fact, and she chose to forget as much as possible.
A momentary compromise can be a permanent indulgence. After she wronged herself to accept this fact, Kou Shixun took the second woman he loved to the house, and the two of them were bright and upright, and did not think about Cui Yaoqi for half a minute. In this way, Kou Shixun and his two wives coexist, like the plot of a certain era in the TV series. I feel sorry for Cui Yaoqi's superficial indifference and personableness, and I believe that every night she is also hysterical, crying alone.
Many comments say that such a Cui Yaoqi is too painful, why not end such a humble feeling decisively? I thought: Only she herself knew that he had long since become her whole world, and that their home was all she had. Leaving is easy, and the long pain is really difficult, but for her, as long as she is still by his side, it is not a loss. We have no right to judge someone else's feelings, as long as she feels it's worth it, it's worth it!
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="16" > I want to guard our home all the time</h1>
Home is home, a habitat for emotional sustenance. Cui Yaoqi's home is already in tatters in the eyes of the world, and even if it is sewn and repaired, it will not return to the beginning. But for her, as long as it was there, as long as he was willing to go home, she was willing to smooth out every wrinkle. She knows that Kou Shixun's heart is no longer in her, so she consumes his materials as much as possible to give herself and her children the best life possible, perhaps she is venting the anger that has been accumulated for a long time, or perhaps she wants to prove her existence in this way.
She is a qualified wife. Since marriage, she has carefully taken care of Kou Shixun's bits and pieces, she has given everything for this family, even allowing the people he loves the most to love other women, she has denied herself again and again to redeem herself, and no one knows her struggles and pains. Even if her efforts for her family were not equally rewarded, she did not leave this place that made her sad, and what she cherished was all the goodness, and these beautiful things were enough to tie her whole life.
She is a qualified mother. She did her best to maintain an incomplete home, just to give her children the best possible environment. Throughout the child's growth, both Kou Shixun and Cui Yaoqi were not absent, although she did not agree with Kou Shixun's infidelity, but Kou Shixun's benign influence on the child was undeniable. Cui Yaoqi watched her growing son getting better and better, presumably this was the only comfort. For so many years, each of Cui Yaoqi's roles has done her best.
Compared with Cui Yaoqi's selflessness and persistence, Zheng Shuang's behavior of not wanting children on the hot search some time ago is more contemplative. Cui Yaoqi can complete everything for the sake of the child, while Zheng Shuang only fosters her for personal gain. For her child, she does not seem to have much affection, may not have been pregnant in October, and Zheng Shuang is obviously unqualified for the role of mother. The quality of love should not be overly judged, but respect for life is the most basic moral sentiment of everyone.
Although Cui Yaoqi has lost a lot, she has also gained more important things under the same conditions. When you know that some things are no longer graspable, instead of complaining, it is better to grasp other equally important things. She fulfilled Kou Shixun, she made her son, and all her efforts were only because she thought it was worth it. I can somewhat understand Cui Yaoqi's persistence, because she has to hold on to not only their home, but also the whole world that belongs to her.
Every step after the age of 20 is really quite difficult, for the future, without any warning, no one will know which moment will fall into the whirlpool. If you are unlucky, think hard about how to save yourself. Love can never be forced, and having each other is the greatest romance and happiness!
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