Yesterday I went to a two-dollar shop opened by a Chinese compatriot who had worked before to buy something, and one of the clerks was a very young little sister who had just come to Australia to study for three or four months, and she came and asked me very directly with an innocent smile:
"Sister, I like Australia so much, the boss said that the best way to immigrate to Australia is to marry an Australian native or a Chinese with PR. He said you were lucky enough to marry a good Australian man. Sister, how did you meet your husband? Maybe I can learn to ha! ”
I said to her sincerely:
"Everything was a coincidence. I was supposed to apply for a working holiday visa to New Zealand, but I missed it and applied to come to Australia. I didn't expect to meet my husband and get married. Fate arranges it.
Australian men, most of them have a very family mentality, yes. Should not be paid, do not bring work home, very industrious, change diapers for children, cook, wash clothes, mow lawn, etc. will do.
However, don't simply think that you are lucky to marry an Australian native. I know a lot of women from Asia, some from Thailand, some from Vietnam, some from Indonesia, and they are also married to Native Australian men, but many of them are not so lucky because they encounter family, violence, or husbands take unemployment benefits at home, and let them go out to work to earn money, which is not good for them at all. So these women's lives are actually not happy, even if they stay in Australia, there is no real happiness in their hearts.
In addition, there are differences in diet, language, culture, thinking habits, etc., marrying an Australian husband, married life is also challenging. Language is many, many more inclusive and communicative. ”
The little girl smiled and said, "It turns out that not everyone is very lucky, and not every Australian man is very good!" I said, of course. She said, then I will rely on myself and strive to stay in Australia.
In fact, if you come to Australia, you will find that many international students have graduated, in order to stay and get PR, try to do all kinds of ways, and have been doing their best to fight, it is not easy.
When I was working, I met a girl from the north, and she was a rare beauty. Once, a foreigner with an honest and a little shy face said to me, "Your colleague is so beautiful!" ”
In order to stay in Australia, she applied for different student visas, work visas, etc. after graduating from graduate school, and has been in Australia for six or seven years, and I heard that she is still in line. Age may be a factor that makes people more anxious, this year is 34 years old.
But everyone thinks differently, so there will be different choices. As long as it does not break the law and does not break the law, there is nothing wrong with it. Blessing.
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