(Disclaimer: This article is purely a fictional story, not my own experience, if there is any similarity, it is purely a coincidence)
Presumably every man wants to find a "virtuous and simple" wife, after all, there is such a wife, and "family and everything is prosperous" are all at hand.
However, after I married a virtuous Indian girl, she would clean the house every day and keep it spotless, but my mother always wanted to pick her thorns for some reason, and in her eyes she always felt that her daughter-in-law was pretending to be industrious, and even when I got home from work that day, I heard my mother shouting there: "How can you pretend to be so good?" Isn't it okay to be honest? ”
01
I grew up in a happy family in the countryside, and the only thing I was uncomfortable with was that I was the only child in the family, and I didn't even have a younger sibling except for my playmates in the village.
I was young and ignorant, and from time to time I would say to my parents: "Dad, Mom, can you give me another brother and sister, I'm too bored at home."
However, the mother said, "Son, you see how happy you are now, no one takes any good food and fun from you, and your father and I are only good to you, if you have a younger brother or sister, then these things will be separated, are you willing?" ”
Even if I wanted to, it would be useless, because after all, the mother didn't want to continue to have children, she felt that one child was enough, and it was she who was under pressure to have so many children.
Childhood is always short, and in the blink of an eye, I have already started to go to university, and with excellent results in the college entrance examination, I was successfully admitted to a school in a foreign country.
When I first went to school, my mother gave me a lot of money and said to me: "Your father and I have never been out of the field much, and we don't know how the expenses are outside. ”
My mother's thinking is really avant-garde in my impression, and it is easy to keep up with the footsteps of young people, or it may be that she sells more clothes, and she usually comes into contact with a wide range of people.
When I was in college, I would help out in the cafeteria from time to time, so that I could save money and buy clothes and shoes for myself.
The four years of college really mean that the past is over, and it is over before I have time to take a commemorative memory.
At that time, I didn't look for a job on my own, but I found a suitable job at the job fair at the school, and I discussed it with my parents, and they all agreed that I would go out and see things for a long time, which would only be good for me.
On the first day of my employment, I found that the pace of life here is very fast, everyone does not dare to stop at all, all of them are immersed in hard work, even when the team leader introduced me as a new team member, these colleagues still symbolically raised their heads to look at me, applauded twice and then lowered their heads to work.
He looked at the team leader with a puzzled face, but he also knew what I was thinking, so he just said: "It's normal for you to come on the first day, and when you get used to it, these colleagues are actually quite good." ”
After working here for about a year or two, a colleague of mine didn't know how to introduce me to an Indian girlfriend, and I wondered, "Where did you know each other, is your circle of friends so extensive?" ”
However, my colleague said, "What, this is my college classmate, but I happened to be in a city when I was looking for a job, so I was thinking that you were still single, and I would like to introduce you." ”
How could I have thought that I would be able to have contact with a foreign girl in this life, and after some introduction, I learned that her name is Naal.
Over time, I found that the two of us were quite compatible, and with the help of colleagues in the middle, we were able to establish a relationship in a month or two.
02
After talking for a year, Nal suddenly said to me: "Zhang Chen, when will we get married, we've been talking for so long, you don't just want to play with me, right?" ”
I was stunned when I heard this: "I don't have such a mind, I also want to marry you, but we have only been talking for a year, and I am thinking about talking about marriage for another year or so, and I am discussing marriage."
But Nalle felt that after talking for so long, it was time to get married, and in desperation, I first called my mother: "Mom, don't you also know that I have a girlfriend?" Now that we're ready to think about getting married, what do you think? ”
The mother said earnestly: "Then why don't you bring it back to show me, what's the matter if you haven't met."
After patting his head, he remembered that he hadn't shown his parents what Nala looked like, so he found a time to book a ticket and returned home.
When I first arrived at home, my mother said, "Son, where is your girlfriend?" Why are you here alone? ”
Before he finished speaking, Naal walked in from the side: "Auntie, I am Zhang Chen's girlfriend, please take care of me when we meet for the first time." ”
The mother was shocked, and began to stumble when she spoke: "Where are you, you, and where are you, how do you look different from us?"
I smiled and said, "Mom, people are from India, you see you haven't seen the world." ”
And my mother pulled me aside: "Why did you find a foreign person, can she live?" Don't end up being a lazy daughter-in-law who doesn't work. ”
I briefly told my mother about the experience between me and Nal over the years, and my mother was a little relieved, but she was also afraid that it was just what she pretended to be before marriage.
Fortunately, in the end, we managed to get married and live happily ever after.
After Nal got married, I didn't let her find a job to work, but went to the fields at home to do a little farm work like my mother, or clean up at home or something, which was not very tiring.
But my mother has some doubts about Nal from the bottom of her heart, and she always thinks that foreign girls are so diligent? Could it all be that she faked it all.
I remember very clearly that I was resting that day, and my mother said to me the night before: "Son, I want to test it to see if my daughter-in-law is really so diligent, don't be angry." ”
In order to verify this point of my mother, I didn't say a word to Naer, knowing that at eight o'clock the next morning, I rested naturally to wake up naturally, but Nale got up without saying a word, and I asked hysterically: "Naer, have you woken up, you got up?" ”
Nal said very energetically, "I woke up, I wake up like this every day."
Then I went back to sleep, and Nal began to sweep and mop the floor and make breakfast for my parents, although they called me during the meantime, but I didn't respond, because I really didn't want to get a good night's sleep.
In the afternoon, my mother sneaked up to me and said, "Have you leaked the secret between my doors?" ”
At this time, I was already impatient and said, "Mom, what are you doing, Nal has always been so diligent, why are you suspicious every day?" As for that? It's not enough to have someone to do the work for you! ”
03
I was a little aggrieved when I told my mother, and I felt that this temptation was for my sake, but in my opinion, this was a distrust of Naal!
Especially when I got off a morning shift that day, as soon as I arrived at the door, I heard the high-pitched voice of my mother at home: "Nar, what kind of ecstasy soup did you pour into my son, so that my son trusts you so much, and quarrels with me in order to speak for you, can you stop pretending, in my eyes, all your efforts are pretended!" ”
I hurriedly rushed into the house and comforted Nal and said it was okay, but as soon as Nal saw me come back, she cried bitterly: "Zhang Chen, I didn't pretend, why did my mother say this about me!" ”
I don't want to have too many disputes with my mother: "Mom, don't say it, the two of us buy a house and go out to live, so that you can also be clean, out of sight and out of mind!" ”
Turning around and taking Nal back into the house, I saw what my mother was going to say, but I didn't give her a chance, because I knew she must have all sorts of rebuttals.
Since then, in order to prevent Nal from being wronged again, I went out to buy a house, and I am tired of paying off the loan, I can't keep making this girl who married far away angry!
(Disclaimer: This article is purely a fictional story, not my own experience, if there is any similarity, it is purely a coincidence)