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After becoming a parent, you not only increase the experience of raising children with children, but also gain a lot of additional skills, "acting" is one of them. Acting almost runs through the entire process of bringing a baby, and a mother who can't act is definitely not a good actor.
This mother "stole" the apple when she took the baby, took advantage of the baby's lack of detection to quickly bite it, and then chewed it in her mouth at the speed of lightning speed, sensing that the strange baby looked back, and the mother immediately stopped chewing and looked around as if nothing happened.
After observing the mother for a while, did not find anything unusual, the baby turned back to continue watching TV, and the mother also took the opportunity to quickly chew the apple in her mouth and swallow it.
Seeing this picture, when the mother is very empathetic, it is such a small thing as eating apples, and the mother also has to sneak in, just because there is a "hungry" baby.
Families with children, parents have the experience of eating with their children on their backs, a couple in Henan concealed the 1-year-old baby to eat snacks, the result was found by the shrewd baby, feel that the baby abandoned by the parents also with diapers staged the "run away from home" drama.
It seems that the matter of hiding the baby's food is really a last resort for all parents, and what they want to eat when they see it is also the characteristic of all babies under the sky.
Why do children want to eat everything when they see it, is it really because they are hungry?
Every child has such a stage, see what they want to eat, in the hands of parents, in cartoons, in the hands of strangers, and even many babies see toys, slippers, can not control the drooling, but also to the mouth ...
However, this behavior of the baby is not the "hunger" understood by the parents, but has entered the period of oral desire. Babies who enter the oral period need to satisfy their various desires through their mouths, because they have not yet established a correct understanding of things, so they see nothing and put them in their mouths without exception.
The arrival of the appetite period means that the baby will establish his own preference for food, sour sweet, soft and hard, can be understood through chewing and licking, see others eating, the baby is eager to understand quickly.
It's really not because of hunger, but the period of appetite that prompts the baby to behave this way. Of course, in addition to the oral period, there is another important reason for the baby's behavior, that is, curiosity.
Babies begin to grow teeth around four months, they also from "using their hands to understand the world" to "explore with their mouths", and eating, for toys, home items, and even human bodies, the baby must first put into the mouth to establish a "file", convenient for future search.
Especially for things with strange shapes, bright colors, or things that the baby has never seen before, driven by curiosity, the baby must put it in his mouth to be at ease.
What do parents do to see what they want to eat, and what can parents do for such a baby?
Although it is a necessary stage of growth, if the "see what to eat" is not guided and corrected in time, it will have a negative impact on the baby's behavior when it grows up, and it still requires appropriate intervention from parents.
In the face of others eating things when the baby asks, what can be done is to divert the baby's attention, parents need to teach the baby some truths, such as not eating snacks given by strangers, guiding the baby to understand the right to things, if there is no good situation in life, you can use cartoons to teach the baby these truths.
If the baby likes to eat a variety of items, parents can not be severely criticized and stopped, will affect the baby's exploration, the only thing that can be done is to clean and disinfect the things that the baby likes to put in the mouth to avoid breeding bacteria and viruses.
If the baby at home has this habit, be sure to put dangerous small objects in the place where the baby can't reach to avoid accidental ingestion and cause greater harm.
When the child asks for food or toys from others, parents should not be angry for the so-called face, although the baby can not understand the speech, but will also analyze the parents' state at that time according to the voice and expression, and the tantrum and labeling the baby will hinder the baby's exploration of the world and the establishment of self-awareness.
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Do you eat with your baby on your back at home?