The current epidemic situation,
Children had to "stay at home" at home.
As parents get along longer and longer,
The important role of family education continues to be highlighted.
Many parents have shown anxiety
There are 5 types of anxiety in parents:
Comparison type: Compared with others, it is not as good as self-shame
Dazed type: confused, blindly following the trend
Stress type: Set unrealistic goals
Perfect: Set the highest level of goals that cannot be completed
Far-sighted: Too many ideas, adding to the pressure
Either way, parents' anxiety can have a negative impact on their children through the details of life. Parents need to pay attention to the fact that when children are affected by parental anxiety, it is difficult for parents to detect, because not every child can clearly express their feelings. The psychological injuries suffered by children accumulate in the seemingly peaceful family atmosphere, and then affect the development from the aspects of emotions, intelligence, self-confidence, and security, and the more serious consequence is to affect the daily behavior of children, resulting in emotional fluctuations and inability to concentrate in class.
And now
A family is under one roof 24 hours a day,
I don't know how to spend my parent-child time with high quality.
On the contrary, it also exposed some problems that were not usually noticed.
Problem: The child is lazy at home and has no intention of learning
"Staying at home for a long time, the children become a little lazy." "The child only eats and does not move, and his physique declines." "Children have no intention of learning and are addicted to mobile phones." ...... In the process of getting along day and night, parents seem to be more likely to observe some of their children's "bad faults".
Solution: Cultivate habits and be a good "first teacher" of your child
Mr. Ye Shengtao said: "What is education, in a simple word, is to develop good habits. "Tree people plan, starting from children. The healthy growth of a child not only needs to learn more knowledge, but also needs parents to lead by example. Good habits are the support for a child to go further, and the foundation that can persist on the "runway". This is very important for the growth of the child. Such as: the habit of respecting teachers and re-teaching, the habit of self-care, and the habit of cherishing time.
Problem: Children are inefficient at home learning and worry about not being able to keep up after school starts
Solution: Learn together
"During the epidemic prevention and control period, parents should turn education from passive to active, give positive support and guidance to their children, and encourage children to observe, think and understand, and their educational effect will be far better than classroom learning." Sun Yunxiao, chief expert of family education at the China Youth Research Center, believes that parents should guide their children to care about society, help children carry out inquiry-based learning, combine theory with practice, and flexibly apply learning to improve children's interest in learning.
Problem: Children lose their temper at home and always quarrel
Solution: Reflective education in communication
Many adults know the importance of communication, but they do not know that the fundamental condition of communication lies in whether the mind can calm down in the end. The impetuous companionship will ignite the nameless fire at any time. In life, we have to calm down in everything we do, and we need to accompany our children even more. In the eyes of adults, things that may be very simple are wonderful in the world of children, and if we parents cannot enter the world of children and listen to the breath from the growth of life, over time, we may make a gap between each other, and even become incompatible.
A child, in life and study, will inevitably encounter many things, and there will be emotions from time to time. At this time, it is necessary to be careful, not to turn a blind eye, rough and simple. Careful adults will never easily draw conclusions, but only make correct judgments after understanding the ins and outs of a thing. We not only need to take care of our children in life, but also need to do a good job of spiritual guidance.
Homeschooling is a difficult and long process
Every choice of parents
they are all changing the path of their children's lives
Please be careful
Face up to family education
Pay attention to the growth of children
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