As a parent,
There will always be moments of collapse:
Shout out to the child in the morning to get up,
Shouted countless times,
Even breakfast was prepared,
The child was found
Or play it yourself,
If you don't grind and rub, look at it in a daze...
You're in a hurry to go to work,
Worry about traffic jams on the road,
After good persuasion is ineffective,
it will be grumpy,
"I count three,
You dress me well.
3，2，1…… ”
The child is still indifferent,
You gave the child's ass two strokes...
"Don't fight for three days, go to the house and uncover the tiles;
A day without beating, the body is uncomfortable. ”
Not long since
"Filial piety under the stick"
It is the mainstream concept of education.
Even now,
Some parents also think
This is the right way to discipline.
But you know what?
Corporal punishment of children,
Such as spanking, pricking the ears, slapping the slap, kicking,
Will be physical and psychological to the child
Causes long-term damage.
Today(April 30),
It's "International Day Of Not Playing Children",
Promote the concept of anti-corporal punishment of children,
Hope parents
Accompany children to grow up with tolerance and patience.
Is it really useful to hit a child?
Not necessarily.
Gently patting twice to scare scares is not a real fight,
What we oppose is the sum of fists and feet!
We all know that hitting people is not right,
But hitting a child is also hitting someone,
Hitting is pain, scolding is love (no
Why don't you hit adults with the same mistake?
Because you may not be able to beat it.
The essence of hitting a child is to beat the weak,
It is the parents who use their own physical advantages,
Thus inflicting violence on the child.
Long-term use of this "short flat fast" method,
May work in the short term,
After the fight, you ask the child, "Do you know if you are wrong?" ”
The child will definitely say "know".
This may not be a sincere confession,
It is a temporary softness that does not want to suffer from the flesh and skin anymore.
The child does something wrong,
Often lacks better cognition,
Or a lack of care and compassion for others.
These deficiencies have a lot to do with age.
None of them can pass
A violent beating can solve it.
Contrary at this time,
Educating children requires more patience,
sympathize with the difficulties (of the child),
and more explicit directives.
Fighting really can't solve the fundamental problem.
There is no kind of love,
It needs to be expressed through violence.
Actually, hitting a child is for
Vent your emotions,
Vent your inner helplessness,
This is not appropriate!
As a parent,
To be educated by scientific means,
Win the kids,
Instead of using violence
"Won" the child.
We will become "children" when we get old,
There will always be no movement,
It was useless to fight that day.
Parenthood is a kind of "practice",
Inseparable from self-growth,
It takes more patience and tolerance,
Control your emotions,
The fire "on the head" is going to move before it starts
Be sure to think twice.
The child will beat him because of you,
And do not love themselves,
Become inferior, cowardly, extreme,
Even loves to lie and ask for peace;
Or imitate the appearance of a parent,
Also use violence to solve problems,
Hurt other children.
Because from the moment you hit him,
"Fear", "Violence", "Anger"
The seeds have been planted.
In psychology,
Children will use more misconduct,
Reciprocating "the punishment of parents taking back their love".
Love children,
It's like loving yourself as a child.
This "under-beaten" child in front of you,
Isn't it like you were back then?
May the children all thrive,
Happy every day,
Freedom from violence,
Not just on April 30th,
And in 365 days!
Would you hit your own children?
【Source: CCTV】