Hope son into dragon, hope woman into phoenix.
Every parent wants their children to study hard and live a better life than themselves in the future. But children, often "teenagers do not know the taste of sorrow", do not feel the good intentions of their parents, and think that reading is the most painful thing under the sky.
In Xianning, Hubei Province, Mr. Ye, a single father, has a daughter who does not love to study, she is 11 years old this year, is in the rebellious period of youth, and usually does not like to read. Some time ago, the teacher reflected to him that the child said that he did not want to read at school, and he also talked back to the teacher and worried about him.
On April 24, taking advantage of his daughter's weekend vacation at home, Mr. Ye decided to "teach" his daughter a good lesson and drove her out of the lotus field to help the family pull the lotus belt under the scorching sun.
My daughter has never done this job, just got off the lotus field, all kinds of discomfort, crying and complaining to my father: "Something bites my foot" "I can't go, my father saves me"...
Although Mr. Ye was very distressed in his heart, he still urged his daughter fiercely: "No one will save you, hurry up, hurry up" "If you don't eat the pain of reading, you will eat the pain of life"...
In this way, Mr. Ye let his daughter bask in the sun for 4 hours, and her face was red and shedding her skin.
When he was ready to go home for dinner in the evening, Mr. Ye asked her to come up and ask her "whether it is bitter to study", her daughter hurriedly said "not bitter, not bitter", Mr. Ye cross-examined "this (farm work) is not bitter", and her daughter cried "I don't want, I don't want".
Seeing that his strategy had begun to bear fruit, Mr. Ye decided to "add another fire" and told his daughter to go to the market with her father at two o'clock in the evening to sell shrimp.
With the spread of related videos on the Internet, it has aroused heated discussion among netizens.
Some netizens praised the education method of this single father, so that children can understand the difference between reading and not reading earlier, which is good.
Some netizens said that their children are also in this situation, and it seems that they also need to let him dig up lotus roots.
Some netizens think that this method is not advisable, children do not want to read books may not really want to read, may not understand the knowledge in the book, or do not have self-confidence and are criticized by the teacher, slowly tired of learning, parents should talk to their children well, the right medicine is good.
Some netizens also think that the reality is cruel, this is no way, life is bitter, people are here to suffer, now many children are like flowers in the greenhouse, they don't know what is suffering, and each child has a different personality, not every child listens to the parents' big truth.
Judging from the comments in the comment area, most netizens agree with the good intentions of this single father. Although I can't bear to let my child suffer and suffer, in order to make my child realize that reading is better than doing farm work, I still put my heart to force her to suffer and suffer once, so that she understands that the truth of life is not so comfortable as she thinks, it is nothing more than her parents helping her to block all the wind and rain, let her correct her learning attitude, and no longer work with the teacher after returning to school, and read seriously.
In the author's opinion, this kind of labor education is necessary in the process of cultivating children, when we were young, in addition to class, every day after returning home from school to help the family do farm work, did not affect the academic performance, but through comparison, I think it is better to read, not so hard to do farm work, more serious reading in school. At the same time, in the process of participating in the work, the body and will are also exercised.
Of course, now that the living conditions have become better, many parents are reluctant to let their children work and be affected, but this also makes the children lack a sense of understanding and attempt at life, and for the children, it is not a loss.