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In feelings, it is impossible to truly love someone.
You can't control your psychology, you miss it unconsciously, you know you can't do that, but you can't control your emotions.
Once a person falls into love, he will slowly fall.
If you want a person to be fascinated by you, in fact, it is more important to understand the love skills, women understand these psychology, will make a man unable to extricate himself, completely fall.
Prepare surprises at random
People often can't predict that things will have particularly high expectations, and it is actually easy to give each other some surprises in the relationship, in fact, it is easy to capture the other party's sincerity.
In fact, people like that kind of unexpected surprise and touch, never know what will really be given, this random uncertainty, will strengthen people's behavior, let people have more impulsive desires.
Why people like that kind of uncertainty is because they expect it to bring different surprises and emotions.
The same is true in love, if you give the other party some random surprises and touches appropriately, it will attract the other party to get closer to you and fall unconsciously.
Women should learn to guide men to give, rather than blindly pleasing men.
Leave room for work
I once heard of such a psychological study called the "Zeigoni effect".
It refers to the fact that people are born with a drive to do things from beginning to end, and the reason why people forget the work they have done is because the motivation to complete has been satisfied.
If the work is not yet completed, he is impressed by the same motivation.
In the relationship, women can take advantage of this effect, leave room for doing things, do not do too much, and let the other party act with the desire.
People have a perfect psychology and hope to do one thing well.
Then in the process of getting along, leave half of the work, and let the man do the rest, on the one hand, you can meet each other's needs, on the other hand, you can let the other party be needed, so that it is easier for men to immerse themselves in it and enjoy this feeling of being needed.
Divert attention
In a relationship, one thing that women always have to understand is not to invest in everything and focus too much on a person.
Learn to divert attention and avoid the other party from causing a psychological gap.
If you blindly pay for a person, in fact, the other party will get used to it, and after getting used to it, it is often not too cherished.
If you know how to divert your attention, take some time to focus on your own things, and make the other person feel that he is not the only one, then he will start to invest energy in you.
If you care too much about one person and treat the other person as the whole thing, it is easy to lose yourself and will not be valued.
Only by learning to divert attention and find yourself will the other party realize the importance of you, and if you care too much, you will lose yourself.
Only by learning to love yourself and not focusing too much, the other party may slowly approach you and eventually fall.
summary:
Feelings of this kind of thing, or pay attention to skills and methods, not blindly pay and please.
Only by grasping the right balance and maintaining balance will the feelings be long-lasting and will be as you wish.
Therefore, at any time, we must learn to love ourselves, on the basis of preserving ourselves, and then let the other party fall.