In the traditional concept of Chinese, every parent looks forward to their children becoming dragons and phoenixes, which is especially valued in some families or poor families, after all, poor can not be poor for three generations, only let children study well is the only way to change their fate and even the family environment.
Recently, a father in Xianning, Hubei Province, with a video of his daughter who refuses to study and works in the fields under the scorching sun, has become popular on the Internet, and some netizens have seen the method of educating children taught by this father by example, and they are both sad and helpless: "If you don't eat the pain of reading, you must eat the hardships of life." ”
In the video, the father brought his 11-year-old daughter to his home, and because the school teacher said that she did not want to study and talked back to the teacher, the father decided to let the child experience the hardships and difficulties of life for himself.
Dad said solemnly: Hurry up and take off your shoes.
At this time, the daughter's tears could not stop flowing,
Dad said: If you don't eat the pain of studying, you will eat the hardships of life and go into the water to work with Grandpa.
The daughter took off her shoes and stumbled toward the middle of the paddy field alone,
Scared and cried out loud: Dad, I don't dare anymore.
Dad: It's useless for you to call anyone, after digging up the lotus root tonight, I will go to the market with me to buy shrimp.
Daughter: Reading is not bitter anymore, I want to read.
Netizen views:
Some netizens commented that rural children want to come out, the road is really very narrow, and reading is the greatest hope. Maybe we tried our best and ended up only getting to the starting point of others, but that was already a breakthrough.
Some netizens also commented that maybe reading can't change too much, but reading is the bottom of the people climbing up, is the most cost-effective method.
Some netizens commented that many people are blaming this father, but I would like to say that not everyone is as obedient and well taught as your children. Some rebellious children must give him some hardships before he understands the difficulty of his parents, and does not ask you to fly yellow and tengda after reading out, but please understand the hardships and helplessness of your parents. Pity the hearts of parents in the world.
Strange Sayings Point of View:
In today's society, some parents with wealthy families think that children can not read, anyway, reading is not the only way out, you can also nibble on the old children are not hungry, but it is only best to be able to read, because this is a icing on the cake.
And some poor parents can not think so, their own family conditions are worse than others, lost on the starting line, if you do not read to change themselves, then a lifetime shorter than others, do the dirtiest and most tired work.
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