Friends who have children at home may know that once a child enters puberty, naturally, he will be a little rebellious!
Parents casually say a few words, as long as there is a wrong sentence, it may even cause language conflicts between parents and children, or between families.
I believe that many friends will understand this.
No, Mr. Ye of Xianning, Hubei Province, has recently encountered similar troubles.
This year, Mr. Ye's daughter is 11 years old, and according to common sense, this age is a good time to study!
But what bothered him was that his 11-year-old daughter refused to study.
No matter how hard Mr. Ye tried to persuade him, it would be to no avail.
This made Mr. Ye very confused, and he could not find a good education method for a long time.
Mr. Ye, is a lotus digger, he is well aware of the hard work of digging lotus, does not want his next generation, in the future, also do similar hard work.
Therefore, fiercely hearted, decided to take the child down to the pond to dig lotus roots, let her experience the daily labor of father and grandfather.
The scorching sun was scorching, the heat was unbearable, and the 11-year-old daughter, who had just arrived at the edge of the pond, did not stand for long, and was a bit unbearable.
So, he burst into tears.
As a father, Mr. Ye saw it in his eyes and hurt in his heart, and he couldn't bear to let his children continue to dig lotus roots in the field.
However, after thinking about it, if at this time, the child is allowed to go home, then, there is no effect of education and punishment at all.
When you go home, your child will still rebel or not be able to read well.
Therefore, Mr. Ye was fierce, gritted his teeth, and decided to stick to the child and continue to dig lotus roots in the field.
In this way, Mr. Ye's 11-year-old daughter stood for 4 hours under the scorching sun, and her face was sunburned and peeled.
Mr. Ye also felt very distressed, but think about it: if the child does not eat the pain of reading at this time, then he will definitely have to eat the hardships of life in the future.
In the future, it is better to let the child understand this truth at this time.
Mr. Ye's educational methods, after being transmitted to the Internet, triggered a heated discussion for a time.
For Mr. Ye's educational methods, some people agreed, but some people expressed their understanding and even opposition.
Some netizens said: Dad's education method is obviously wrong, what is this? This is corporal punishment, this is child abuse;
Some netizens also joked: I didn't like to read before, my father also educated me in this way, and from then on, I liked digging lotus;
Some netizens said: This kind of education method is not advisable, Dad looks down on workers, everyone wants to squeeze into the office as a white-collar worker, who goes to dig up lotus?
In short, mr. Ye's educational methods are more controversial.
There are praisers and critics.
My view on this is:
I think Mr. Ye's ideas are still more insightful.
Although his approach is a bit rough, his motivation is good, and he hopes that his daughter will study well.
In Mr. Ye's words, it means that if you don't eat the suffering of reading now, you will have to suffer the hardships of life in the future.
Instead of regretting it in the future, let your child understand this truth now.
Poor parents in the world!
Every parent with a child, I believe, understands why.
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