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"It's all right, little kid, peeing pants and wetting the bed is normal!"
This is something we often comfort others, and in fact, it is true that it is very common for children to wet their beds and pants.
However, under the premise that the method is guided correctly, the child can really not wet the bed and not wet his pants.
If your baby has done it, of course, you don't need to learn from it, I am not showing off how good your baby is, some babies quit diapers at the age of 2, and rarely wet the bed, I just want to share the process of guiding my child, hoping to help some confused new mothers.
Don't rush to quit diapers
Because I deal with children every day, the babies in the community, as long as they often play in the community, I can basically call out the name, but I am interested in the growth and development of the child, so I often talk to the parents about this topic.
There are several babies in the community who have not used diapers, and some babies do not use diapers until they are 1 year old.
According to our normal thinking, these babies who have not used diapers or use diapers less often should be the first to achieve control of urination, but in fact, they are not.
Until the age of three or four, these babies still have the habit of wetting the bed.
This shows a problem, early withdrawal of diapers does not allow children to control urination earlier.
Diapers are not "flood beasts", diapers are a very good invention, for parents to solve a lot of practical problems, such a good parenting items, there is really no need to rush to quit.
Nor can you rely too much on diapers
Diapers are very good and a very good parenting helper, but over-reliance is also not allowed.
For example, the daughter of the good friend Fang Fang's family has always been helped by the mother-in-law, and Fang Fang is a bit grinning and pays little attention to the growth and development of her daughter.
In order to save trouble, the mother-in-law has been using diapers for her granddaughter.
Fang Fang's daughter is her birthday in September, so she enrolled later than her peers, and by the time she enrolled, she was four years old and was still using diapers at this time.
There has been a certain dependence on diapers.
For a four-year-old baby, many babies have achieved free control of bowel movements, but Fang's daughter still relies on diapers.
The process of quitting diapers is a tough one.
It's too late to quit diapers at the age of 4, so the process in between will be very difficult.
Give your child a diaper off, in a few big steps, the mother may wish to try
The message of "quitting diapers" begins to be given to children when they are 2 years old.
Some parents will think that "one and a half years old" can quit diapers during the day, this time is a little early, because the baby's expression ability is limited at this time, quit diapers, will definitely go through the process of peeing pants.
If you want your child to pee less pants and quit diapers as soon as possible, you have to wait until your child is 2 years old.
First, the first step is to guide the child to "want to pee and tell the mother"
We want to give the child to quit the diaper, not that the parent has this idea, just take off the diaper for the child, if you do this, no matter how old the child is, there must be a process of peeing the pants.
The first thing we have to do is to guide the child to "tell the mother or other parents around when they want to urinate."
Basically, when the child is 2 years old, it will be able to do this.
When the child does this, parents should not rush to give the child to quit diapers, there can be a transition period of a few days.
The second step is to quit diapers during the day
When the child has formed a habit and wants to pee, take the initiative to tell the mother or other parents around, this time means that the child can take off the diaper during the day, and the child basically will not pee the pants.
Even when I first take off my diapers, I'm a little unaccustomed to it, but once or twice I get used to it.
Some babies may have a transition period in which they have given up diapers, but when they want to pee, they still have to wear diapers.
My baby had such a transition period that lasted about half a month.
Urinating once in the toilet, I completely quit my diapers during the day.
Third, guide the child to pee at night and tell the mother
Quitting diapers during the day is the first step, my baby quit diapers during the day for more than 2 years and 2 months, completely quit diapers during the day at 2 years and 3 months, and quit diapers at night when he was less than 3 years old.
I quit diapers during the day and still had to use diapers at night.
In fact, the mother will find that the baby does not wet the diaper every night, but only occasionally wet the diaper.
When the baby wants to urinate at night, it is usually from deep sleep to light sleep, and the direct manifestation is to turn over, and basically turn over at the same time every night.
This actually shows that the baby has the intention of peeing, you can gently call in the baby's ear: "Baby do you want to pee?" ”
If the baby does not wake up, do not call the baby, if you wake up, let the baby urinate in the toilet.
Slowly, your baby will wake up naturally while urinating, which will not affect your baby's sleep.
It is best not to wake up the baby, otherwise it will affect the quality of the baby's sleep.
Fourth, quit diapers at night
When to give your baby a complete diaper at night? When your baby's diapers don't get wet and wake up every night to urinate, you can give your baby a diaper off.
If the time is well grasped, the baby will not wet the bed after quitting the diaper, but may wet the pants.
These experiences are shared with the confused mothers, keep patience, step by step, the baby will easily quit diapers.