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There is a saying in "Sons and Lovers": "Love should give people a sense of freedom, not a sense of captivity." ”
Many women in love think that the other party should listen to themselves in everything, and define the other party's goodness to themselves in a range, thinking that you can only really love me if you do this.
In fact, love is free, and only when both parties are comfortable with each other can they really love each other; and the love that comes from captivity is not true love, or not enough love.
Two people who really love each other will definitely stay together for a long time. He will say something heart-warming to you in his daily life,
Maybe there are only a few words, but it really expresses his deep love for you.
Getting along with such a person will make love harmonious and satisfying, and life will be comfortable.
In fact, there are some words that men say to you only once, which is a manifestation of true love for you.
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"If you like it, buy it"
There is a sentence in "Cara Lover": "I am responsible for making money to support the family, you are responsible for beautiful flowers, don't you like the house facing the sea?" Then move in with me, let's buy a house facing the sea. ”
The person who says to you, "If you like it, buy it," you must love you. Sometimes, money is the test of the authenticity of love, if true love, will be willing to give you money, for what you like will try to buy you.
Yang Guifei likes to eat lychees from Lingnan, but lychees are difficult to preserve if they are transported from the south to the north, and basically rot within a day, so she can't eat lychees.
However, Tang Xuanzong was very fond of Yang Guifei, especially the imperial power in his hands, and he could respond to everything. For what Yang Guifei liked, he must get his hands and give it to Yang Guifei.
Therefore, in order to win the concubine's laughter, he ordered people to send lychees to the palace with fast horses and whips, and many horses were exhausted for this. Although this matter could not be advocated, Tang Xuanzong's love for Yang Guifei was sincere.
If a man really likes you, he will be willing to let you spend his money.
If you avoid the topic of money, or even use the excuse of constraints as an excuse, and are not willing to let you spend more money, most such men are not arrogant. Saying that it is a lack of money is actually worrying about you and not loving you enough.
I saw a couple on the Internet, after six years of love and long-distance running, but finally lost to the bride price of 200,000. Women cried heartily, while men soon married a new couple after breaking up.
Many people show love in love without showing money, which is often his sweet "trap". People who really hurt you, money is important, but you are much more expensive than money.
Swedenborg said: "Love exists in devotion and regards the happiness of the lover as one's own." ”
The person who is willing to spend money on you really loves you, and he really thinks of you as a part of his life.
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"Rest assured, you still have me."
Zhang Xiaoxian said: "I just hope that there is someone who knows that I am not really okay when I say that I am okay; there can be someone who knows that I am not really happy when I force a smile." ”
The person who says "and me" to you really loves you and cherishes you from the bottom of his heart, because he doesn't want to see you helpless and suffering.
In The London Family, Ernest does this to his wife. When they set up their new home, there was nothing in the house.
Ernest saw his wife busy cleaning up, cleaning, and decorating the house, he would take the initiative to help, seeing that his wife was tired, he would take the initiative to let his wife rest, and he took care of all the housework alone.
Such a man really loves you, and living with him will make you feel happy. In fact, in the depths of every woman's soul, there is a longing for such a man to say to himself: "Rest assured, there I am." ”
Because, all women look strong, but in fact, they are very fragile, no woman is willing to fight alone in her life, and she hopes to have a man to shelter herself from the wind and rain.
In "Breakout", once Shi Hongxing encountered a difficult and difficult problem, the first thing that came to mind was her husband. Although two people are usually noisy, when it is critical, they will come out to protect each other.
Whether a man loves you or not, the key is to see if he can come out and be alone for you when there is something. In a person's life, there will be people who will cut thorns for you when something happens to you, which is the most true love and happiness.
The happiest thing about love is not the sweet words under the moon before the flower, but the umbrella for you in the pouring rain. Whenever you have difficulties, he will say, "Don't be afraid, I am here." ”
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"I just don't want you to suffer"
Wang Xiaobo wrote in "Loving You Like Loving Life": "You are so cute, let people love it to death." As soon as you came, I was determined not to live in a sloppy way, even if I had to work hard, even if I sacrificed. ”
Men who are good to you will not make you suffer, but will give you a better life. Such a man is the man who loves you the most, and he wants you to have a good state in your life.
My aunt and uncle have been married for more than 30 years, and their three children have already started a family. Whenever my aunt talks to us, she always praises my uncle for being shrewd, will live a life, and knows the cold and warm to the family.
She said that there was heavy work and tiring work in life, and it was always the uncle who competed to do it, letting the aunt play on the side. After more than 30 years, the uncle took care of all the household chores, while the aunt just cooked and took care of the children.
My aunt would sometimes ask my uncle, how can you be so good to me? Every time my uncle smiled and said, "I don't want you to suffer." "My aunt and uncle have always been satisfied with their lives, and the family is living very happily.
Love is a noun in the eyes of ordinary people, but it is a verb in the eyes of people who love. He needs to act on your love, not just just say it.
"I don't want you to suffer", the words are short, but the weight is extremely heavy. This sentence represents the man's sincerity, and the man knows your warmth and coldness.
As it is said in "A Sigh": "For so many years, holding your hand, like holding your right hand, there is no feeling, but it will hurt to cut it down." ”
Live together for a lifetime, maybe not. But if there is a sudden change in your life, especially when the other party is injured, it is simply heart-to-heart pain.
Only affectionate, there will be the idea of bearing all the pain for each other, only sincerity, only the other party is me, I am our thoughts.
Love may not be earth-shattering, but a lifetime of mutual affection will be greater than all the deep love like the sea.
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Take a man who really loves you, some words will blurt out, and they can't stop it
There is a sentence in "East Evil and West Poison": "If feelings can be divided into victory and defeat, I don't know if he will win." But I was well aware that from the beginning, I had lost. ”
Love is a real need, an emotional and material satisfaction, I will come to you when you need it, for your existence, I will not quit.
Don't misjudge a person in your relationship, and don't package yourself as false for love. In a person's life, true love is simple and simple, not sugar-coated shells.
So, live a good life, treat your family well, treat yourself well, and live your life like a flower, a tree like a tree, and we are more like us.