Text/Moran
I have heard a lot of truths, but I still can't live this life well, in fact, in this life, I can really rely on myself.
A person who places his hopes on others will one day fall from the peak of hope to the bottom.
In this world, no one can always be your safe haven, because everyone wants to be safe from the wind, and only their own harbor is the most reliable.
Many times, throughout your life, you will find that your parents are not a retreat, your partner is not, your children are not, and the person who can really accompany you through this life is still yourself.
Therefore, only if you are useful, you are truly reliable.
You are useless, and it is useless to rely on anyone
I once heard a saying like this: "You don't work hard yourself, others want to pull you, and they don't know where your hand is." ”
A person must first work his own, so when others want to help you, they can hold you.
You always want someone to help you, but you have to fight for yourself.
The road is to walk on your own, never put your hopes on others, at the critical time, others can push you, but it is impossible to completely replace you.
In this world, no one can help you all the time, not everyone can rely on you, even if others can rely on you, it is not necessarily possible to give you in time.
When you have no value yourself, it is actually difficult for others to do it, and it is too laborious to help.
Therefore, only by working hard and being useful can you really help yourself.
Don't always think about hiding in other people's eaves, no matter how big other people's eaves are, it is better to hold an umbrella yourself.
Whoever you rely on is not as practical as yourself
It is said that the mountain will fall, rely on everyone will run, and only relying on oneself is the most practical.
If you want to expect others to change your destiny, the end result may be a constant waste of time.
The help that a person can give you is limited, and some things must learn to think for themselves, accumulate experience by themselves, see more and learn more, and will always help you.
Most of us, in fact, are an ordinary ordinary person, no strong connections, the real thing to do is to shine on your own, through your own ability, let others notice you, live the life you want.
Relying on what others give is always not as solid as what you have bought through your own efforts.
Life is actually a vast ocean, and the only people who can really grasp the direction are themselves.
Only by being the master of your own life can you control your destiny
A person can probably only resist all risks if he is strong.
In this world, no one can stand by your side and help you all the time.
Only if you make yourself strong and become the master of your own life will you have better control over your destiny.
Relying on the help of noble people, it is all unattainable, people still have to be good at seizing opportunities, have the opportunity to get started, to learn, when you become strong enough, you don't need others.
In fact, long-term relationships are more about maintaining mutual independence. Interpersonal relationships are more of an equivalent exchange, only if you show your own self-worth, then others will feel that you are valuable, and will take the initiative to come to you.
A person should never take someone else's map, find his own way, and be good at finding the answers he wants.
In this life, you may meet many people, but in the end, you still have to start by meeting yourself and making yourself stronger.
summary:
This society is very realistic, when encountering problems, you must learn to solve them yourself, do not expect others, the only one who can really help you is yourself.
Only if you are useful, you are the most practical, you don't have to fear all the wind and rain, you have enough confidence to resist fate.