The recommended article of the 680th article of the Jane Book
The author of the jane book is | Xiao Yu'er's house
I remember that a few years ago, when I encountered a little painless thing in my life, I would send a picture to the circle of friends, or a complaint from myself, or go to a restaurant to eat, or watch a movie.
I don't know when it started, slowly reduced the frequency of hair rings, but also rarely brushed circles, once good friends also slowly faded out of their lives.
We always think that there will be many people who are paying attention to themselves, but if you share happiness with the wrong person, it becomes a show off; if you share the wrong person, maybe others will laugh at you behind your back.
I don't know if you have found that more and more people do not send much circle of friends, and people who often insist on hair circles are either micro-business, or various sales, or sell courses and the like...
So, if your circle of friends can't bring you income, I advise you to stay away from the circle of friends and focus more on things that can create revenue for you.
1. Where time is spent, the result is there
This is something I have felt deeply in recent years, before I was aimless, when I was idle, I couldn't help but open the little red dot in the circle of friends, or chat with friends about daily life, and the day passed like this, and nothing was done.
After writing full-time, there was no income, the pressure became greater, and I had to force myself to export things often, so I stayed away from the circle of friends, away from the "likes" in the circle of friends.
Although we don't take up a lot of time every time we swipe the circle of friends, if you open it several times a day, it is really a very waste of time, so it is better to put this time on reading a 20-page book.
I think that after entering the university, a person should plan to run his "total life time".
Everyone's time a day is 24 hours, our time is spent where the results are, we should cherish the time to do things that will help the future, in order to realize the compound interest value of time.
2. Clean up your social circle
Those micro-businesses, sales and other people who do not know when to add, are not useful to you, just delete or block the other party's circle of friends as soon as possible.
There is no need to feel that unilateral deletion of people is not polite, there is no need to have "social attrition", and the decisive deletion of the deletion.
Those friends who join the micro-business array, if they send something that interferes with you, please also decisively block the other party's circle of friends, do not waste 1 second of time on this, because wasting time is equal to wasting life.
Too small a circle is one of the important reasons that hinder a person's development. Taking the time to clean up your social circle and learn more from good people is much more useful than brushing up on meaningless circles of friends.
3. The circle of friends does not output "emotional garbage"
After coming out to work, everyone will have a new life and circle, and the former classmates and brothers/girlfriends will gradually become familiar strangers, at this time, your sad emotions may not be suitable for sharing with former friends, nor is it suitable for hair circles.
Teacher Li Xiaolai said:
"A true friend should be someone who has done at least one thing with you."
Therefore, the hearts of adults, try not to send the circle of friends, rack their brains to edit the text, send it out but no one comforts, it will be more sad.
Away from the circle of friends, at the same time, it is not easy to output negative emotions in the circle of friends, everyone likes positive and optimistic things, your complaints, it is likely that they have long been blocked by others as "emotional garbage".
4. Read more books and live a pure life
"Be a light and cheerful woman, write noble love letters to yourself."
I loved this sentence so much that I forgot where I saw it at the time, and it used to be my introduction inspirational words for a long time.
I yearn for a pure and elegant life, I long to learn a profound skill, the circle of friends things are too messy, always not suitable for people to precipitate.
If you are often distracted by the small red dots in the circle of friends, always unconsciously brush up the circle of friends, you can turn off the small red dot function of the circle of friends, this small move will greatly reduce the number of times you click on the circle of friends Oh ~ ~
Circle of friends small red dot off steps:
Click WeChat My Settings, click [General] - [Discover Page Management] - [Circle of Friends], and turn off the function of "Notify me when there is new content"
Finally, A word from Yataro Matsuura:
"Whether you're reading or talking to people, in short, try to do and see the things that you think will be helpful in the future."
Immerse yourself in something, make it a daily lesson, and confidence will slowly return. ”
Life is short, far from the circle of friends, away from things that have nothing to do with their own development, immersed in things that will help in the future, although it is very bitter, but it is worth it.
Above all, good night.
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