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Recently, a little boy in Universal Studios Beijing caught fire, but the cause of the fire was not a good thing. At that time, three children were looking for the "robot" Wei Zhentian to take a group photo, and this little boy was the tallest of them.
The naughty little boy gave Wei Zhentian a middle finger, very indecent! "Robot" Wei Zhentian teased, "Do you still want that finger?" You will eventually pay for your actions! ”
The little boy unconvincedly drew his fist at Wei Zhentian again, and Wei Zhentian continued, "Your mother is still here!" You're losing your mother's face! The little boy who couldn't say anything angrily kicked Wei Zhentian. Wei Zhentian did not kick back, but said, "You don't look like a brother at all~ it's your family and not me that you should worry about." ”
I have to say that the actor of this "robot" Wei Zhentian speaks very artistically, and in the face of the naughty "bear child", there is a deep meaning behind the sentence.
In fact, such children are also easy to encounter in our lives, which makes people deeply disturbed, such as on the train or high-speed rail, everyone is resting, "bear children" running around, loud noise and frolicking; on the subway do not pay attention to civilized behavior, "bear children" stand on the seat and so on.
So why are these unscrupulous "bear children"?
In fact, the main thing is the problem of parents. As the saying goes: if you don't teach, it's the fault of the father. Parents are the best teachers for children. The reason why children become "bear children" is that parents are mainly responsible.
Let's take the example of a noisy bear child running back and forth on the high-speed train to analyze it.
Generally at this time, a parent will stop in time to discourage the child's behavior of disturbing others. And remind the child to pay attention to what the people around them are doing, what you should do, and educate the child to be soft in public and not to make loud noises, so that it is a good child.
The other parent does not care and condones the child's behavior. There are also generally two situations in this kind of parent:
First, cognitively, they don't feel that their child's big fuss is a behavior that needs to be stopped or changed. Maybe when they were at home, they would chase and fight with the children and shout. So in public, when children behave like this, they still feel normal and don't need to interfere or manage.
Second, I feel that my child is the proud son of heaven, and you all have to let my child. Therefore, with the accumulation of time, the temper of the child's "little bully" has developed.
Both parental mentalities are undesirable. When children appear in public to make loud noises, play and play, and disturb others, parents should stop them, or even make slight criticism. At the same time, do not even if the child's rude behavior in daily life, do not spoil the child, guide the child to behave in a civilized manner, so that the child understands from an early age what kind of behavior is correct.
Because, as Wei Zhentian hinted: if you don't educate your children, there will always be others in society to educate them for you. The price to be paid at this time may not be small.
How many children have been ruined by the phrase "I'm still a child"!
Here Yixun will tell you a little story.
Once, Aunt Liu took her son to the home of her girlfriend Aunt Du, accompanied by Aunt Li and Aunt Zhang, as well as their children.
At lunch, Aunt Liu's son Xiaoming pointed to the sweet and sour ribs on the table and said, "I want to eat this, this is delicious!" Aunt Liu said, "Don't do this, it's so rude!" Aunt Du listened and said, "Oh, child, it doesn't matter, what do you want to eat!" So, Xiaoming complained, "Yes, I am still a child!" After saying that, he ignored the feelings of the other people on the table and put the sweet and sour ribs on the plate into his bowl one by one.
After the meal, Aunt Liu went to the bathroom, and happened to hear Aunt Du whispering with Aunt Li, and Aunt Du said, "Oh, you see Xiaoming that child, it really didn't work, I don't understand politeness at all!" It's a laugh to death. "So angry that Aunt Liu didn't even want to go to the toilet, she pulled Xiaoming home."
Back at home, Aunt Liu said to her son Xiaoming, "You are so rude today! "Aunt Du said I was a child, it doesn't matter," Xiaoming argued. Do you know what Aunt Du thinks of you behind your back? So Aunt Liu told Xiaoming what Aunt Du said behind her back, and continued: "You are a child, but you are also a child of our Chinese nation." The most important thing for the Chinese nation is etiquette! Etiquette is the embodiment of a person's inner qualities, but it requires daily behavior to show. You don't respect your elders at the dinner table, you don't care about your image, you only have yourself in your eyes. It's not just your own face that's lost! We children of the Chinese nation must understand etiquette from an early age, do you understand? ”
Therefore, Xiaoming realized his mistake and said sincerely: "Mom, I know, I am wrong today, I will definitely be a good child who talks about etiquette in the future, not to shame our nation, nor to shame you." Since then, Xiaoming has kept this matter in mind. When he grew up, he also became a person who paid great attention to his own behavior and etiquette.
So, in the end, the reason why there are bear children is related to the parents' way of education. Don't think that your child is still young, just let it go and neglect discipline. When it is bigger, it will be more difficult to manage.
As the saying goes: three years old to see the beginning, seven years old to see the old. Helping children develop good behavior habits from an early age is the best help for children. You are spoiled and pampered by children at home, and when you go to society, society will not get used to him/her, and it is inevitable to experience the beatings of society. As Guo Degang said: Instead of letting society educate its children without any importance, it is better to let me come. I'm being tough on him now, and in the future he'll be able to suffer less. Because parents at least know the measure, but also can follow the good temptation, so as not to let the child leave a psychological shadow in society, it is difficult to adapt. In other words, Guo Qilin is still relatively good.
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