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Universal Studios Beijing began to become popular in early September last year, began to explode in mid-September, and then became a hot Internet celebrity at Universal Studios in the following days.
On April 21, a series of operations by a young boy wearing yellow and blue short sleeves in front of Wei Zhentian caused dissatisfaction throughout the network. The little boy took his younger brothers and sisters to the stage to take a photo with Wei Zhentian, and as soon as he went up, he raised his middle finger at Wei Zhentian, which was very impolite. Looking at the mother who was taking pictures of the three people, Wei Zhentian asked, "Is this all your child?" ”
Then Wei Zhentian said to the little boy, "Do you still want that finger?" You will eventually pay for your actions. Your mother is still here, and you have lost your mother's face. There is nothing like a brother at all! Let's go, it's your family that's worrying, not me. Before the words could be heard, the little boy turned and kicked Wei Zhentian twice. Fortunately, the staff dissuaded him in time, and the little boy stopped the violence.
After the video was posted online, it caused public outrage. Netizens have said: "Wei Zhentian is right! "Wei Zhentian is right, it is the mother's face that is lost!" "Parents are like that, don't guess." "What kind of parents, what kind of cubs are taught." "Loving mothers have many defeats, and they will have good fruit to eat later." "Terrible, such a family actually gave birth to three."
What does "vertical middle finger" mean? If that mother didn't understand, I really wanted to help her popularize it. "The vertical middle finger contains contempt and provocation, with a strong contempt and contempt. The tone of the embodiment is very heavy, often with disgust and disgusting meaning, which is very impolite. ”
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Some time ago, my daughter came home and told me that a boy in the class who was very naughty on weekdays had recently learned this action and liked to give people a middle finger at every turn. I immediately asked my daughter if she knew what the middle finger meant, and she replied, "It's contempt, it's contempt." "In this regard, I would like to say that my seven-year-old daughter knew that the middle finger was extremely impolite, and how could a mother who had three children be unaware?
In recent years, there has been a particularly popular saying: "Behind every bear child, there are bear parents." "Come to think of it, it's true.
The neighbor has two daughters, the eldest daughter is 7 years old and has a calm personality; the younger daughter is 6 years old and very naughty. When her parents are too busy with work to pick them up from school, her youngest daughter is like grasping a life-saving straw and always wants to stab someone else.
She would not feel that it was already a grateful thing for her aunt to help her parents pick me up from school, but would frantically ask: "I want to eat ice cream, you help me buy it!" "I want toys, you buy them for me!" "I want to play that game, you give me money!" In the face of this operation of the little girl, it is easy to shock everyone.
I remember one time, we met to go to the mall. Her mother was walking behind her sister, discussing which one she wanted to buy. As a result, she deliberately ran up and led me, naïvely I thought she just wanted to walk me purely, and within five seconds we happened to pass by a row of game consoles, and she led me forward quickly, telling me in a commanding tone: "I'm going to play this, you buy me coins." ”
Stunned, I instinctively broke free of my hand and said to her, "Find your mother yourself." She even said unforgivingly: "My mother will not buy it for me, you will buy it for me." "I felt like the air was frozen, how could there be such a child?"
Later, I found out that there was a reason why her youngest daughter had to go to such a field at such a young age!
Her mother always couldn't help but praise her little daughter in front of others, and one day in order to prove her own view that "little girls have high emotional intelligence", she told us in front of a group of people: "I have a few classmates who came to play at our house last year, and my young daughter has never seen them before." When I was cooking, they said they wanted to go to the community, and as soon as I got downstairs, she coaxed my classmates to buy her a big bag of snacks. She really has social NB, and when I came back, I was almost laughing and cramping, and I was able to coax other people's snacks at a young age, thinking about it was also a skill! ”
Asking for snacks from uncles and aunts that they are not familiar with, in the eyes of ordinary people, is extremely impolite behavior, in their family education concept, it is actually the embodiment of extremely high emotional intelligence. It's shocking to think about!
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What bear children have done over the years has refreshed our cognition again and again.
Some play with fire to ignite willows to cause large-scale fires, some high-altitude projectiles smash passers-by, some scratch vehicles with branches, some pee on elevator buttons, some play with firecrackers to ignite houses causing death and injury, some kick and hit movie theater screens, some deliberately stretch their feet to trip over others, some burn test papers at home, some kick bad doll machines and take away dolls, some smash museum cultural relics, some throw 2 fire extinguishers from the 16th floor...
Parents are an important guide on the road to children's growth, if we fail to set a good example for children, when the children have principled errors, we fail to carry out timely and correct guidance, then in the future parents and children will pay for their own mistakes.
Do you have bear children around you? What kind of bear children are they? Feel free to leave a message in the comments section and let's explore it.