In the face of children making mistakes, I have heard many adults defend themselves like this: "He is still a child!" "Children are like this, don't make a fuss!" "It's normal for a child to be naughty!" "Don't mess with children"... However, the author has also seen many children make so-called "small mistakes": throwing stones on the road, pushing down motorcycles parked on the side of the road, throwing things downstairs, pushing down others coldly, stealing food in the pockets of the mall, etc., as for an uncivilized behavior or speech, it is everywhere! Similar to these, is it really a small thing?
Recently, in the Internet, it was rumored that in Universal Studios Beijing, a boy gave Wei Zhentian a middle finger and kicked the robot, which was "angrily criticized" by Wei Zhentian.
The video on the Internet shows three children standing in front of Wei Zhentian for a group photo, and the taller boy suddenly gave a middle finger to Wei Zhentian. In response, Wei Zhentian replied: "You don't want this finger anymore." ”
Subsequently, the boy turned around and gave Wei Zhentian a downward thumbs up, and Wei Zhentian immediately "angrily criticized": "Your mother is still here, and you lost your mother's face." ”
At this time, the boy turned around again and kicked Wei Zhentian's left leg position. An employee in blue overalls tried to stop it. Wei Zhentian said again, "There are too many bear children, and there is no brother at all." ”
After the video broke, many netizens expressed their views on the boy's behavior.
Some netizens said that who does not have a childhood? It is not good to go online. Saying that the child's world is very simple, your "Mighty Heaven" is a villain role, and it is normal for the child to provoke you, because you are just to attract people's attention, take off your armor, and the child will not necessarily have an out-of-line action against you! On the other hand, Wei Zhentian's words to the child", "losing your mother's face", are even more out of line, and more disgusting than the child's ignorant actions.
But more netizens said that this is a child who has never been beaten at all, and the family has always regarded him as a child who is provided by his ancestors. Childhood can be skinny, you can be greedy, but you can't be shameless and shameless.
Everyone has a good childhood, but without family upbringing is not the childhood of ordinary people. This child's words and deeds are very despicable, don't use childhood as an excuse! To call a child is to distinguish between right and wrong, to know good and evil, to be clear and black. Without a line of outline and rules, you will not be able to get help from friends in the future, and you will not be able to integrate into society.
The author believes that don't say anything fairy tales, in fact, many children now understand what the middle finger means.
Such behavior is not formed in a day or two, adults do not do the same thing, in the long run, there is a high probability of uncivilized speech and gestures caused unnecessary trouble or tragedy. Children do wrong things, the first thing parents have to do is to find a way to let children recognize their mistakes, know where they are doing wrong, and then correct, in the process of correcting mistakes, children are also growing, learning more and more things.
Only in this way can children grow up healthily, and their ability to be frustrated when they grow up will be stronger.