preface:
Maybe you won't understand until the end that "fit and like" are two different things.
Since ancient times, the ancients have warned us that "fish and bear paws cannot be both obtained", which is the so-called gain and loss.
Things in the world are like this, love or life, will always make you give up something. I don't believe you see Tang San hiding between love and career, can't you have both?
When we were young, we were young and crazy, did not believe in the separation of the world, and never put ourselves on ourselves. Like is like, dislike even if you are beautiful in the eyes of others, I don't bother to look at you.
But when we grow stubble and bulge our beer belly, we understand that things in this world are not as simple as they seem. Sometimes likes may not like, dislikes may also be likes...
At my age, I have seen too much and too much involuntarily.
Some people, in order to stop worrying about themselves for their parents, rush to marry the object who only wants to kiss once. Some people have reached the age of establishment, regardless of the strange eyes of others, and still insist on waiting for their own crush.
Those who choose "suitable", they have not insisted, but in the face of the pressure of reality, they have to bow their heads and compromise.
Those who choose to "like" will not be, I admire their courage is commendable.....
In fact, I would like to ask you:
Do you really want to gamble, in this era of deception, betrayal, and wanton behavior, at any cost, waiting for a favorite, sincere person to appear?
In fact, I don't have an accurate answer to this question, and I don't think which one to choose is the wrong choice.
If there is a choice, we will certainly not hesitate to choose "like", but often this is the case, in many cases you do not have to choose.
I saw a saying on the Internet that said:
"Sometimes things go on a lot of drama, you marry someone you like, and you may end up finding out that life is a chicken feather.
You reluctantly marry a suitable person, but you never expected that your married life would be so harmonious and happy. ”
Therefore, of course, liking in a relationship is crucial, but the right amount of this weight will not be much worse than liking!
Maybe for you, the difference is only the attachment and unwillingness in your heart.
Conclusion:
The last thing I want to say to you is that no matter which one you choose in the end, don't give up the love of life.
Life is sometimes like Pandora's Box, you never know what kind of surprise it will bring you, and it is often hidden when you are not hopeful.