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Zhihu saw a question: "Is it true that all crushes and ambiguities will end in the end?" “
Remembering Rainie Yang's "Ambiguous" very early, perhaps the lyrics are the best answer.
"Ambiguity makes people feel wronged, can't find evidence of love, when to move forward and when to give up, and don't even have the courage to hug."
1. I haven't even started ending love
What does regret about a relationship look like? But it is that I run to you, and you choose to back off, or even leave.
When talking about her recent relationship, my friend said: "Even if she gives me a memory of what she has given, she didn't even give me this opportunity." “
For many people, moths fighting fire is not a beautiful thing, and even for people who are desperate for love, more people can't understand.
However, in the eyes of those who expect the story to happen, in fact, the moth fighting the fire is also an ending, at least they have intersected.
I can run to you without even asking you for anything to give me, as long as you can accept me.
However, for my efforts, all you give is a cold response and turn away, no contact. That's what I can't accept.
After all, there was one person who had appeared in my life, though she was fleeting like a meteor flying in the sky.
But at least, because of the presence of this man, at some point, she had illuminated my dim night sky.
2. Doomed to no results, do you still want to start?
There was once a question on the Internet: "If you knew that this story did not have an ending, would you continue?" “
In the answer, most people chose no, after all, a story without an ending is a waste of time.
However, some people say that they will choose to start. But the premise is that this story is the plot that I am looking forward to happening.
It's like we've come across a hidden level in the game, and of course no one will choose to simply miss it.
Even if we know that this level will not end in the end, or even when everything is back on track, this past may be cleared.
But, at least we've experienced it before, and just having this memory in my head is enough to make me happy.
The person who is doomed not to have an ending with us is like that hidden level, mysterious and precious, although short and rare.
3. Some people, just pass by
In everyone's life, there will always be a few people who will pass you by, but let your eyes stop for a long time.
It's just that short glimpse, but it leaves a place in your heart that belongs only to the other party, even if you know that you will not have results.
Remembering the story of the protagonist of "Desert River Ballroom", in the years after she left, he did not remarry, and only occasionally danced there alone.
As she had once been, they danced in the dim light, and at that time, the only thing in their eyes was each other.
Perhaps, some people have asked those whose beloved people have left, met that person, and made you regret it?
Most of their answers were simple and affirmative: "I regret it, but I regret that I didn't know him earlier." That way, we'll have more time to spend together. “
Although they had also met, that encounter was too short, and it was too late to even leave anything behind, and it was over.
But there are really people who, relying on such hasty memories, slowly try to live their lives.
4. Just don't let yourself regret it
In fact, for the matter of love, any choice has only one purpose, that is, not to let yourself regret it.
Whether it is a first love or remarriage, every choice you make, please be responsible for yourself, which is also respect for the other party.
Perhaps, crush and ambiguity will not bear fruit. But now that it has begun, then, without results, is also a result.
Life is short, at least, don't let yourself be too upset.
Above all, I wish you a good dream and good night.