After watching the movie "Chongqing Forest", I especially want to ask you a question, will you like someone because of chatting?
Yes or no, please give me your answer by voting.
Of course, you can also tell a story on the message board about what you have experienced or is happening.
In the memo, I wrote this sentence saying,
"Too frequent communication can easily create an illusion of love, an illusion of speculation, adaptation, habit and joy."
Chatting with a person for a long time, there will always be a very ambiguous sense of intimacy, more feelings are actually the expectation of each other, you expect him to speak first, look forward to the other party to share the parents and the trivial work, of course, also look forward to each other's care and greetings.
Once it sinks, it is likely to be unable to extricate itself.
A few days ago, on Zhihu, I saw a passage that was particularly touching:
If you are too attached to a person, in fact, there is a problem with yourself, it is that you need a relationship too much, and then he just appears, and all his good is the aura and filter you give him, not how good he is. What you like is actually a fantasy, not how much you like this person, it's just that you are too lonely.
What you like is actually a fantasy, not how much you like this person, it's just that you are too lonely. "
But I would like to say that it is less to dwell on whether you are not good-looking enough, your personality is not gentle enough, you are not as good as others, and so on.
You know, not being loved is the norm, being loved is the accident.
There are many reasons why people like each other, just like broccoli, you may not like to eat it since you were a child, but there are still many people who will not get tired of eating it.
So please stop denying yourself and consider your own joy beforehand, but don't let anyone or anything that makes us depressed let him enter your world again.
Rainie Yang sang in the song "Ambiguity": "Ambiguity makes people suffer a lot of grievances, and they can't find evidence of love." When to move forward, when to give up, not even the courage to hug. "
The feelings generated by chatting are like allergies, and they come and go quickly.
You may think that those "you talk to me" are proof of love, but for him, maybe chatting with you is just his boring pastime.
Just like the classic line in "Chongqing Forest", "Understanding a person does not mean anything, people will change." Today he likes pineapples, tomorrow he can like something else. "
So across the phone screen, you never know what the other person is thinking.
Just because you're back in seconds doesn't mean you're his only one.
Don't think that being single equals loneliness, to put it romantically, we are completely free.