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As the saying goes: "Tiger poison does not eat children". For animals, they still know to protect their children, and as a human being who is more advanced than animals, if they do not protect their children well, or even abuse them, it really makes people feel that "animals are inferior".
Biological fathers are emotionally out of control and abuse babies: 4 slaps, 2 neck pinches
For men, domestic violence wives are already very outrageous, but if you don't even let go of the baby that was just a few months old, the behavior is really outrageous.
Recently, a video of a man beating his young son circulated on the Internet, and the picture in the video made many people feel angry, and they were very upset with the children in the video.
At the beginning of the video, the child's mother is feeding the baby, and the child is not noisy. Then the child's father came out, did not know why there was an argument with the child's mother, and then suddenly pressed the child's head, hurt the baby, and the baby began to cry loudly.
After that, because the child was crying, the man repeatedly slapped and pinched the neck of the infant who was still sitting on the baby's chair. Across the screen, we could all hear crisp claps.
The child's mother stood up to dissuade, but was pushed away by the husband, and even more excessively went forward to cover the crying baby with her hand, so that it did not make a sound, the baby was covered when crying and could not breathe for more than ten seconds, and finally the baby's small hands were trembling before suffocation.
The whole video is only 33 seconds short, but it is shocking to watch. In this half a minute, the baby experienced four slaps, one covering the mouth and nose, one pinching the neck, and there was no hesitation or pity for the abusive biological father.
Watching the video, I think many people are like Tuanzi's mother, the whole person's hands are trembling, but they can only watch the child from the initial crying, slowly to the final face purple, and finally powerless to lose his voice.
Is it an ordinary couple, a biological father and son, abusing children because of emotional loss of control?
Slaps, neck pinches, covers nose and mouth, across the screen, we can feel the degree of force of men, such behavior for an adult, are fatal, especially the back of the neck for several seconds, for a baby who screams and arrests, it will lead to permanent injury.
In the face of a powerful adult, the child has no strength to resist at all, and even a cry has become extremely difficult, "tiger poison is still not eating children", it is difficult to imagine what kind of deep hatred can make him attack a child without hesitation.
What is even more speechless is that when the child's mother first faced the husband's act of slapping the child, although there was a behavior to prevent it, it was not the first time, and later in the face of the husband's more intense behavior, she chose to call the police.
After the child's mother called the police, the police quickly arrested the man and issued a relevant notice about the incident. The notice made it clear that the incident was caused by family trivia, and that the two were also in a normal marital relationship, and that the man would beat the child because he was out of control.
If the notice is true, then this family does not have any deep hatred, nor does it have any complex relationship background in this family, as netizens speculate, and can only be ordinary couples, father and son.
The reason why the fists are thrown at each other is only the result of a father's emotional loss of control. But it is precisely this reason that makes people feel more terrible. Couples, family chores, emotional out-of-control, these are problems that will occur in many families, but if the emotions are sent to such a young child, how extreme the psychology of adults should be.
It is funny and heart-wrenching for a young child to throw all the punches of an adult at a young child, only because the father is out of control.
Having an emotionally out-of-control parent, the child's sadness, can have a long-term negative impact
Nowadays, the pressure of life has increased sharply, and many parents are running back and forth between work and family for the sake of their lives, during which it is easy to have work troubles, coupled with the problems of taking care of children, all the time to pluck the string of parents' emotional outbursts.
In the beginning of parenthood, we will also be very much looking forward to this new life, but with the longer we are parents, the naughtiness and various unhappiness of the child, it is easy to blind the eyes of the parents and forget the original intention of loving the child.
But no matter what the situation, it can not be a reason for your emotions to lose control and vent to your children. Every parent is carefully selected by the child in heaven, and naturally parents should treat their children the same way.
As a parent, what needs to be learned is tolerance, control and acceptance, once you choose to use your fists and insults, such harm will bring not only physical pain to your children, but also serious psychological shadows, and even become a nightmare that will linger for a lifetime.
Today's topic: What do you think about the father's abuse of his children for several months?