Nowadays, our life is almost inseparable from supermarkets, and many people habitually buy daily necessities in supermarkets, because it is really very convenient.
Especially for some mothers who need to bring children, supermarkets are undoubtedly the best choice, the environment is safer and healthier, and can effectively avoid children running around in the vegetable market.
Xiao Li first took the child to play badminton outdoors in the morning, and then waited until the supermarket opened and took the child to the supermarket to buy vegetables.
There were not many people in the supermarket in the morning, and the dishes were also very fresh, and Xiao Li quickly picked a basket full of dishes.
When she turned back to look for the child, she found that the 5-year-old had unscrewed a bottle of mineral water on the shelf.
She had no time to stop it, and could only watch as the child drank the mineral water to the sky.
Under her questioning, the child said that because he was too thirsty, he could not bear to drink all the water.
Of course, the child did not forget to remind her that when the food was bought for a while and checked out, do not forget this bottle of drink.
Hearing the child say this, the originally angry little Li suddenly lost a lot of anger, although she had warned the child not to move the supermarket things casually, but the child knew to pay for his own behavior, which was also a good thing.
However, when Xiao Li handed the empty bottle to the cashier to scan the code, he was told by the other party to claim 10 times the price.
Xiao Li is somewhat dissatisfied with this, believing that such a clause is a hegemonic clause, and directly finds the supermarket manager theory.
The manager told her directly that according to the supermarket's regulations, they did indeed have to be fined ten times for such behavior.
Xiao Li was very angry, but still kept calm, she said that the child's behavior was not stealing, because they took the initiative to take out the empty bottle when paying.
Moreover, the child did not hide the empty bottle after drinking the water, and did not directly flee the supermarket.
So whether subjectively or objectively, their actions are reasonable, and perhaps they did violate their shopping rules initially, but they did not evade, so they should not be claimed.
I have to say that Xiao Li's remarks are reasonable and very clever.
In the end, the supermarket also chose to give in, and after Xiao Li settled the shopping money, he left with the child.
What should parents pay attention to when taking their children out?
1. Make an appointment with your child in three chapters in advance
No matter where parents take their children, they should let their children know that their behavior must be subject to certain constraints, and they cannot do what they want to do as they do in their own homes, otherwise they must take responsibility for their own actions.
2. Stop the child's wrong behavior in time
For some younger children, many times their self-control is not too strong, so there will be some unsatisfactory places in behavior.
At this time, parents must remind them in time after discovering it, so that the child can stop the wrong behavior at the first time.
3, let the child know where the mistake is
Parents not only want to stop their children's wrong behavior, but also let their children know where they are wrong.
Because only by making children truly aware of the seriousness of their mistakes can they effectively avoid repeating similar mistakes and make children more likely to behave in later life and learning.
Of course, if the legitimate rights and interests of the child are damaged, parents should also protect the child at the first time.
In this way, the child can form a sense of security, and this sense of security is very important for the growth of the child, which can make the child more confident and not humble.