People have different luck in their lives, sometimes luck is better, and we call this luck a blessing.
Sometimes the luck will be worse, and people at this stage will not have a very smooth life.
I saw a sentence in the circle of friends:
"The Spring Festival quietly came to people's side, bringing joy, blessings and the opportunity for family reunion." The whole city seems to be a girl to be married, with a festive look.
The streets are full of people, some of them go to visit the New Year, some go to buy New Year goods, and some of the whole family goes to travel, which is a festive look. ”
Whether it is the circle of friends or other places, people always feel that blessing is the best, but we are more and more people expecting blessings in our lives, but fewer and fewer people are making blessings for ourselves.
In this world, there is never any water, only if you work hard to struggle, what you want will slowly come to you.
If you want to live well for the rest of your life, you must accumulate the following blessings, and don't be inappropriate.
01.
ability
A person's ability is the most important, if a person is not capable, the person will be less and less blessed in the future, because as you get older, your value will become lower and lower.
Then, society's demand for you will also drop significantly, and it will be difficult for you to even want to be blessed, because you have no opportunity to make it.
Opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared, and as this society gets better and better, our abilities must keep up, and only then will you get the blessings you want in this better society.
There will be many things in life, and when we leave the campus, the society's assessment of us has not stopped, and even more and more.
Therefore, only capable people can pass the test of society and get what they want, otherwise, they can only look beyond the reach of others.
Blessings are earned by one's own ability, because many things are not as simple as pie in the sky.
02.
Good thoughts
If a person is kind enough, then that person will be greatly blessed.
Shakespeare said:
"A good heart is gold."
A good person will get what he wants and will get money.
Sometimes a good person may not get more, but such a person also knows how to be content, so their hearts are incomparably happy, and happiness is also a blessing.
A happy person will make his life better and better, and will also pass this happiness on to other people, so that other people will also be happier and happier, such a person is a pistachio, and everyone is willing to be with such a person.
Balzac said:
"Truly talented people are always kind, frank, straightforward, and never reserved."
If a person is frank and kind, the person's good luck will not be too little, because sometimes some bad things you have done will be reflected on you, but some good things you have done will also make you get some rewards.
If a person walks for a long time at night, he will definitely encounter some bad things, so only if you are honest and frank in life, you can get what you want.
03.
Network
If you want to live better for the rest of your life, you must accumulate your own connections.
If you don't make a good effort to build up your network, then when you encounter something, you won't be able to do it.
Of course, sometimes do not want to accumulate connections and draw connections, sometimes do not let ourselves be too wronged, we must also keep our own original heart, at the same time, when we draw connections, we must also see the essence of this person.
If this person is not a good person, then we are also going to stay away, if this person is a good person, such a person is a really good person.
If a person is not very good, after you are with this person, the other party may frame you, so it is better to say that such a network is not as good as nothing.
In life, it is not easy, when we were young, we suffered a lot because of reading, and when we grew up, we had to suffer in this society, in this life, we must learn to understand others, and we must also learn to fight for something for ourselves.