Sickness comes in from the mouth, and evil comes out of the mouth. This is absolutely true. Many times, you may not realize it, thinking that it is not malicious, but the listener is intentional, your heart is straight, and sooner or later it will make you pay the price.
Speaking is an art, when I was young, I didn't feel it, and I didn't realize it until I was old, and it turned out that talking was so important. Many people may say that children are unscrupulous, young people can make mistakes, even if they say the wrong things.
If you believe it, you have not yet realized your own mistakes, and you continue to let yourself go and keep your mouth shut, then sooner or later you will have to pay the price for it.
You know, some people have several faces. In front of strangers, a humble, particularly amiable look, but when no one is around, the ugly face is exposed.
People promise you that they won't tell anyone, but they tell someone your secret in a turn. You must know that where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, and where there are rivers and lakes, there will be disputes, and where there are disputes, there will be troubles.
If you want to put an end to your troubles fundamentally, you must keep your mouth shut, see more and talk less. Especially after retirement, don't show off these things to others, otherwise you will not be happy.
Don't show off your abilities so you don't get calculated
People retire, just like from the end of the stage, from the stage to the backstage, there is a gap in their hearts at once, most people are difficult to accept, it takes a while to adapt.
Some people, after retirement, did not adapt to it, and thought that they could call the wind and rain like they were on the job, so they showed off their abilities every time.
On the surface, it is to put gold on his face, but in fact, he is dissatisfied with the situation in front of him. The heart is lost, or empty, and wants to satisfy the vanity of the self through the speed of the tongue.
In fact, people who are slightly transparent will understand the reason why people take tea cold. Even if you can survive before you retire, you must adapt to and accept the fact that the tree is falling and scattered.
Perhaps for retired people, they flaunt their abilities to prove to others how different their status has been. This seems to be clever, but it is not the action of a wise man.
You know, at the age of retirement, whose eyes have not experienced wind and frost, have already seen through people's so-called human relations, and understand that the ability in your mouth is to be greatly discounted.
You show off in order to satisfy vanity, but you don't know that you will be calculated by people with hearts, and they will use what you say is capable of achieving their sinister goals, which is very unworthy.
Don't show off the happiness of your children, it is easy to be jealous
What people lack, they will care, and even show off. Some people, after retiring, will especially love to show off the happiness of their children, and they are eager to tell the whole world how happy they are at this moment.
I think that's a very unintelligent move. You know, the vast majority of people in reality, the heart and eyes are relatively small, can not see the people around them, than their own life is much better.
Retired elderly people, the reason why they will show off the happiness of their children. On the one hand, I want to get satisfaction from it, and I want to get a sense of superiority and happiness from contrast. On the other hand, he also wants people to know that even if he retires, he will not be treated by his children like ordinary old people.
In fact, it really doesn't matter whether you say it or not. Having said that, it will only increase the annoyance, and it is better not to say it than to do so. Because your life is good or bad, no one really cares, they only care about themselves, they are not in the mood at all, to inquire about the happiness of others.
Why should I advise retired elderly people not to show off the happiness of their children. Because if your children are really happy, you don't need to say it, outsiders can see it.
If you are unhappy, but you deceive yourself, it is a bit of a joke feeling, and your show off with great fanfare is no less than a play of a beam-jumping clown.
The days are their own, there is no need to speak to outsiders. Good and bad, such as fish drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge. Instead of being jealous or even ostracized, it is better to remain silent and live your own little life.
Don't show off your connections so you don't get used
We often wish a person with a childlike heart, although most of the time it is good intentions, but when we are older, we still can't figure it out, so it is a bit unspeakable. When you are young, you can show off your network and broaden your resources.
However, after retiring, there is really no need to repeat the same mistakes and repeat the mistakes made when I was young. Some people can't adapt to the blandness after retirement, so they show off their connections every time.
Who has worked with themselves, who has eaten with themselves, who has a friendship with themselves, who is more efficient in doing things, who is not very good, there is nothing important, do not provoke.
This individual character, listed like several family treasures, seems to be a network, but in fact it is just a strange name. If people show too much, they will be jealous and even be used.
Since you say that no matter how strong your connections are, it is inevitable that someone will come to the door, but you do not have a diamond diamond, and the connections that were originally said by a brain cannot solve problems for people, which will only add to their own troubles.
Really smart people, even if they have such connections on hand, they will never show it off, because they know that connections, this thing, use less than once, less than once, not as a last resort, do not use it easily.
When people reach retirement age, they will more or less have some connections, after all, the resume is there. But the network is not easy to say that it can be used, even if it is used, it will need to be maintained with heart in the future.
Instead of being quick for a while, it is better to keep your mouth shut, since you have retired, you can enjoy the tranquility of no one to disturb at the moment, and live your own small life, which is better than the countless beautiful scenery in the world.
Some people may say that I have retired from retirement, and I still have to worry about so much, I can't live at will and be happy, so what is the point. You can't say that, just advise you, don't show off your ability, the happiness of your children, and your connections, and the rest can still be free.
When people reach the age of retirement, they still have to be cautious, because the evil comes out of the mouth, do not say everything without a mouth, and say everything in one go. It is better to spend time talking with people to cultivate their hobbies.
Go for a walk and see, enjoy the scenery of the motherland's great mountains and rivers, or enjoy the joy of children and grandchildren around the knees, in short, no matter when and where, you must control your mouth, do not let yourself live in the future for a while, this is very unworthy.
Retirement is boring, but you can cultivate your hobbies, practice calligraphy, play tai chi, or find some interesting people, do something that you regret when you were young, but you didn't do it, or better than showing off, in order to satisfy the emptiness and vanity of your heart.